Sara's my best friend. She's the funniest, nicest, funnest girl ever. But the problem is that whenever i suddenly make a new friend, she takes her/him away. Like, i make friends with brianna, all of a sudden sara would just start hanging out with her, and then brianna would like sara better than me. HELLO?? i met her first. This happend like 20 times. Also when a guy likes me and i tell sara, she just starts flirting with im 24/7 and BAM he likes her. Or when i like this guy, and i tell her, 2 seconds later she likes him and she goes out with him. yes i've talked to her about this but its like it doesn't matter. Now she treats me like crap. I think she was using me because before i met her, i was popular, and then when we became friends, its like she's the most popular girl in school. yes i'm jealous, but if i talk to her about this she'll be mad at me...i don't wanna ditch her though either..
2007-05-20 09:40:35 · 4 answers · asked by <3mily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u dont need her. she's totally using u.
she can never be ur friend
no friend ever would take her friend's friends and would steal the guys that her friend like. she is just using u and she doesnt desire to be friend.
drop her and get rid of her.
dont ever feel sorry for someone like her
good luck honey.
2007-05-20 10:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by freedom lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This goes on all the time as a young thing.
All of your words are just that - words. Most of it is CONJECTURE (which means that you assume what you have said is true). Much of it is NOT true. You say "and then Brianna would like Sara better than me" You may think that is the truth, but Brianna likes you too, eh? IIs there a tape measure for that?
Just appreciate (and work at liking and being good friends to) all the people in your group/class/clicks. They all think those things about YOU too, you know. . . going on about who likes who better (as if you put a measuring tape to it - Ahhhh, 25 and that one is 27! I KNEW it! She likes her more by 2. . .)
Give me a break. No one is measuring really. It is all talk,
Be a good friend (do 80% of the work) to all of them
2007-05-20 16:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she isnt a good friend and is useing you, i wouldnt tell her ne thing. i would still hang around her but i wouldnt confide in her who you like and your new friends.
2007-05-20 16:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~*PiRaTeQuEeN*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but if you don't want to ditch her and she won't listen to you, then there's not much you can do.
2007-05-20 16:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lori F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋