Recently my husband has been hiding his phone, or he'll take out the battery when its out in the open. & everytime he gets online he makes sure he deletes the history? Wouldn't you think your husband was hiding something if he was doing this?
2007-05-20 09:24:08 · 34 answers · asked by * lovemykids * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes... very fishy... one of the top 10 signs of adultery... Would catch him off guard and ask him to use his phone to quickly call someone and go to the bathroom and start doing some homework... Or find a way to get his history of his phone bill... I figured out a way to get access to my almost ex-husband's phone bill... What shock!!! My best girlfriend at the time was talking to him over 2 hours each day... All I can say, do your homework... don't just sit there, and it is possible that it is nothing, but settle your thoughts or it will drive you crazy... Good Luck
2007-05-20 09:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Oula 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's hiding something from you. It could be a good thing or a bad thing. If it's only been for a couple of days, it could be a planned surprise for you, like a vacation for the 2 or a big present. OR if he's been doing it for a while, then yeah, sorry to say but he's doing something bad behind your back, it could be cheating or drugs or going to a place that you wouldnt like. For the internet, buy the Spector Pro (monitoring system software) if you think its really that bad, it copies everything that he does on that computer in the internet. Now as for the phone, check the phone bill, look at suspicious numbers and check how many text messeges he has. And if you got to get to a point where u gotta ask him why and wats going on, do it. You will feel relieved afterwords. I hope everything turns out good and nothings happening bad. Good luck!
2007-05-20 12:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES.....HE is hiding something. I can see if he is deleting the history on your computer because shortly in time your birthday was coming up, but if that is not the case then YES he is hiding something. I would ask him straight out, so what are you hiding. If he gets all ticked off then DAH he is doing something he shouldn't be doing. If he doesn't and says calmly "nothing" then over look it. But the phone thing concerns me some. I would only hide mine if I was hiding something that I didn't want my man to see...so he is just waitn to get caught. Do yourself and favor and bust his *** soon. And then get out of the relationship. Take care... and good luck.
2007-05-20 09:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is fishy, you're right to feel suspicious. You can either ask him to put the battery back in his phone so you can see who he called and who called him, or you can hire a private investigator to check it out. It'll probably cost you 300 - 600 dollars to find out if there is something going on. Look in the yellow pages.
2007-05-20 09:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by JMoney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person has nothing to hide there is no reason to do any of those things.
think of it like this:
When you leave the bathroom you spray something to cover the possibility of odor escaping the room and raising the eyebrows of others in the home...... He is doing the same thing by hiding the cellphone... covering the possibility of his crap alerting you to the odor of infidelity.
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2007-05-20 09:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Donald Robinson 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've always deleted history when I go offline and no one else uses my computer so nope I don't find anything "fishy" about that. I delete everything when I'm done online I'm not married either. As for his phone, you need to ask him about that, he is the only one who knows the reason he pulls out the battery...maybe he's afraid the battery will leak and ruin the phone.
2007-05-20 09:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are right, it is very fishy. If he has to hide something from you then things are not right in your marriage. You should try to talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. Try not to be angry when you talk or he will only be self-defensive. It needs to be straightened out or your marriage may be in trouble. You are supposed to be able to trust each other, that's what marriage is all about.
Good luck!!
2007-05-20 09:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lori F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's working pretty hard at hiding something.
I'd just watch him scramble for awhile.
If you really Need to Know, go to System Restore on the computer.
2007-05-20 11:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhh....yeah I would.
My husband deletes the history on the computer, but that's to make the computer run faster or whatever....he does it when I get off the computer too.
But the phone thing? Yeah, there's no reason to put that much effort into making his phone inaccessable unless he is hiding something.
You better figure out a way to get your hands on that phone.................when he's sleeping? lol.
I hope it's nothing....but it does seem extremely fishy.
Good luck!
2007-05-20 09:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by jezyka 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes. why don't you try that software that tracks all of his online activity. Then youll know for sure. Also the cell phone bills? You can view all incoming and outgoing numbers. It may sound sneaky, but will put your mind at ease.
2007-05-20 13:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by hanky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋