paragraph below???????
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Husband who gets lots of sex from his wife:
* Happy
* Smiles* Goes to work with a smile
* Comes home with a smile
* Spends more times with his family.
* Spring in his step
Husband that doesn't get sex from his wife:
* Cranky
* Feels unappreciated
* Gets addicted to online porn
* More likely to cheat
* Cheating results in divorce
* Divorce results in a broken home with messed up kids
* Husband remarry's / mom get's an absuive boyfriend
* Kids suffer
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How can being naked and secretions all over the sheets and an used condom have some kind of special meaning????????
Not only that you have to bathe and change the sheets .Why all of the trouble ????????
2007-05-20 10:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have you ever gone on a diet and been STARVED for days... maybe weeks? That's what it's like for guys... It's actually annoying to most men... at least the ones that are mature enough to admit it. But it's our body and we can't stop the drive any more than you can stop your menstrual cycle.
It sounds like you have MAJOR issues with sex. I suggest sex therapy. You just might be missing a huge part of your life.
The tastes and smells and mess are some of the best parts of sex.
In the end... is the 1-6 hours of sex and cleaning a week worth keeping a man or not?
You don't get one without the other... no use fussing about it.
2007-05-20 11:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are viewing women as though their vaginae are made for men. Oh, no sorry.. Man. One Man. The only reason people value virginity is because women used to be traded between families as parts of pacts, deals, and bribes. It has nothing to do with virtues; that's just what we say now because it sounds better. A man who doesn't value a woman's experience doesn't respect her. He doesn't care about her thoughts and opinions. You develop so much of your personality based on your experiences with love and intimacy. If a man rejects a woman for having experiences, he's spoiled. He wants to be her one and only man ever and if that's the case, he might as well become engaged to a 12-year-old, hire her a body guard, and just wait until she's 18. I have NO PROBLEM with men and women wanting to wait until marriage. I think it's a beautiful concept to want to remain pure for the love of your life if that's how you see it. But it's people like you who place value judgments on women for not preserving that little gift for their husbands who mess it up for everyone. It should be a choice. No one should be stigmatized by you or anyone else because it's really none of your business. And if you're so uptight about this virginity thing, why bother making a special case for rape victims? You're already objectifying women with this opinion; your withholding of judgment on abused women offers no comfort and doesn't make you look any better. You care more about hymens than brain cells or demonstrations of responsibility.
2016-05-22 03:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep....that about sums it up. Although it is a little more complicated than that. Men like their women to inflate their egos a bit as well....
This came on our "hard drives" when we were born.
It is in the male DNA so it is a primal instinct.
My advice, buy 7 sets of sheets.....
2007-05-20 10:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Felix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that you are asking why is touching and sex so important in a marriage.
My grandmother--full blood Creek(Native American) told all of us grand kids, be careful of who you have sex with, in sex the souls met and mix, if you are with a bad person, they will take some of goodness away and replace it with their bad)
What I am saying touching and sex joins the soul. Soul mates.
2007-05-20 10:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isn't just the sex. all humans need to be touched and loved. it's a fact. you're just taking it down to a different level. don't you like to be close to someone? to be touched? held? the same can happen to a woman.men don't hold the patent on this.
2007-05-20 12:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, good sex is almost as important as breathing. Are you human or robot? Or have you never had great sex?
2007-05-20 10:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by morris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because most men's brains are in their penis, and sex is the main thing in defining their self-worth as a man.
2007-05-20 10:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋