Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

2007-05-20 02:39:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like one of my friends. And well.. he "likes" me too. but I have a feeling he's full of it.

Here's why.. he doesn't get close to me or anything around other people. when his friends are there I feel like he acts as if he doesn't even know me. and then I left him this comment on myspace that said if you ever need anything i'll be here. and then he deleted it. i was like wtf? and i'm not on his top. so i'm guessing he's just playing a roll to get in my pants but not trying to hard.

what do you think?

2007-05-20 02:34:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i get really jealous and mad inside when my bf talks about jessica alba or angelina jolie infront of me. especially he would pause just to look at them if they are on tv regradless what hes doing. on top of that he make little comments like oh my god shes hot, and this and that. am i crazy? or he would say whovere their bf is, si a lucky guy. hello what about himself. am i not good enough

2007-05-20 02:20:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ask because I've found that no woman has ever accepted to go out in a date with me, and that no one has ever wanted to be my friend.

Overall, although I'm sure I must have character flaws (like most people), I'd say I fall within the range called "normal" in my behaviour.

I'm educated, reasonably polite, proficient in several languages, have a good job (although quite isolating) BUT:

a) I'm very small: 5'4", and weight only 120 lbs.

b) I'm a multiracial person who doesn't look like anyone around.

Since there are no people similar to me anywhere, I find it very hard to be objective and say whether I'm ugly or just different.

Is the evidence (lack of dates and lack of friends) enough to conclude that I am, indeed, quite ugly?

I'm 38, almost 39, by the way.

2007-05-20 02:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by tlakkamond 4 in Friends

with her talking to her. we had just been married for 2 mths.I didnt find out until about 9 mths later. it crushed me still does. i wouldnt have been able to look at him in the face if it was the other way around. says sex took place only 6 times maybe, i dont believe.the phone calls bother me worse.he would call her from 8am up until all hours of the night everyday talking 49 calls somedays.he says he wasnt emotionally involved. well he had to be thinking about her all the time. he never called me that much when we were dating or living together.i feel he really cared for her, wanted to talk to her, constantly on his mind.if he had not caught i know it would have went on.i am a good person, dedicated my life to him took our vows very seriously never thought he would do this in a million years. he never answers honestly when i ask him anything.he says he didn't care about her no emotions just sex make sense to you, it doesn't to me.he shared sexual fantasies with her, very perverted to

2007-05-20 02:10:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance was incarcerated 6 months ago, and naturally, he goes through high and low times, when he is insecure or concerned about my faithfulness or safety while he is away. I, myself, was incarcerated at one time, and KNOW how difficult it is to maintain sanity while the world continues outside, but I was not "in LOVE" while doing my time so I can't with any certainty say what my true concerns really were. I do all that I can do to ensure my man of my loyalty to him and devotion to our relationship while he is away. I have never cheated and keep my male friends at arms length out of respect for my old man even though he would never find out otherwise, but there's time he still insists that something is "not right". He is to be released in 5 weeks and I'm so excited, but I am a little rattled by the whole experience and his occassional doubts in me..
Can anyone shed some light on this subject or give me some insight? Any advice?

2007-05-20 02:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Molly214 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend {yes. Actually a friend} who has a boyfriend. He's as sweet as can be to her, when he wants to be, but recently he's been getting a little overboard. He threw 700 dollars into his truck, and trust me on this, she was never a greedy person. seeing him spend so much on his truck, and forgetting her on Valentine's Day and thier anniversary to spend the day with his truck obviously upset her, and did make a hint of greed come over her. Yesterday, weither it be by mistake or not, he punched her in the eye, and the mouth. She has a black eye and swollen lip still. We're not sure if he did it on purpose, as she did lean down to kiss him, but all the same, why would his hand be fisted?

What I'm trying to get at is, is he even worth her time? She's engaged to him, but he's so utterly obsessed with his truck, that he thinks about it more than he does her. It upsets me to see her hurting so badly over something as small as that, but all the same. It is slightly rude, isn't it?

2007-05-20 02:04:35 · 2 answers · asked by Fia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a 33 year old woman on the phone, Im 26 year old guy. Is that to old or not.. She told me that Her X use to work at the same job that im working at now she told me the name her the X but the name . i do not know the name is her x . i been there 4 years.... Is this good or Bad to i need to stop talking to her or what?/ She told me that she want more kids also.. . p.s i told her where i work at that is when she told me that her X ust to work there..


Please tell me what you thank.

2007-05-20 02:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by allen_hurd2002 1 in Singles & Dating

if you were a 13 year old guy and you were to show off to a girl, what types of things would you do?

2007-05-20 02:01:51 · 5 answers · asked by jess_italia3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 02:01:11 · 12 answers · asked by Eli 1 in Weddings

My favorite clubbing line is "I'd love to buy you a drink but you have to find me first" and *Disappear* lol. This way you manage to get rid of the chicks aiming for free drinks and only get the ones that are interested. So my question is girls would this work on you? or Guys, Is this the most effective pickup line ever or what? ;-)

2007-05-20 01:58:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf recently started doing stuff that makes me think he might want me and my 3 little girls to move in w/him.

we've been together for about 3 years now. i'm 28 and he's almost 29. he's never been married or lived with a girlfriend (i'm his second long term gf-his last one was in high school and lasted 3 years before she left him for another guy whom she married).

i got a garage door opener and key to his house about 3 months ago. he recently started doing weird things like randomly taking the subwoofer and speakers out of his prized lexus b/c he said he was getting too old to handle the bass in the car and needed more back seat room and also selling other electronics that he's had for years on craigslist.

just a few weeks ago he asked me to organize his dresser so my clothes could fit and he also had me help him clean out his closet (he threw out stuff from old gfs too) to make room for my clothes. he bought more hangers too when i wasn't there.

i didnt ask him to do this

2007-05-20 01:57:07 · 20 answers · asked by sadiesmom28 1 in Singles & Dating

30 year old male,virgin and proud of it !,,reason is because beleive in sex after marriage,,not religious but more to spiritual need in a relationship

2007-05-20 01:56:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Reason asking is because I feel like I am. I have to drive myself everyone I go. I can't stand to ride with anybody because I feel like I don't have control. Everyone in my family likes to travel and wants to see places like Vegas, NY, or Hawaii. I want to stay home and relax on the porch, or go to the cabins. Everyone in my family likes to get out on the town, and shop,and eat out. I prefer working at home, watchign movies, and ordering a pizza. I feel that I have enought stress at work during the week, so on the weekends, I like to avoid the stress. But I just feel different from the rest of family. Also, I feel weird because of my preferences. I mentioned th car. I also prefer to sit in the back at church or on the end of the pew. I am like that anywhere I go. I always look for the exit when I walked into a location, and I can't stand to be in the middle of big crowd. Makes me nervous. I don't think I have problems, I just feel different from everyone else in family.

2007-05-20 01:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by wonderbubba9778 1 in Family

2007-05-20 01:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by postman2039 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are ppls views on this? Meeting someone for the day, then meeting them 2nd time the next week and having sex?

2007-05-20 01:53:33 · 20 answers · asked by eenymeenyminymo 1 in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't call myself a racist because I don't believe anyboy is above anybody else an even though I'm Black, I have friends of all races, but there's been something that's been bugging me:How Black guys wanna chase around every White girl in sight. I have no problem with interracial dating, but I think theses guys just hang off these girls because they're White, they have no intention of a serious relationship. I would definitely date a White guy, but I would not date him just because he's White, I'd date him because I love and trust him. Everytime I see a Black guy at my highschool hanging off a White girl(unless they go out), I cringe. I know it's wrong and it's screwing me right up. Like I said, I'm not racist and I have no problem with interaccial dating, but seriously. Most Black guys at my school won't even look at a Black girl unless she's lighter skinned. Help!

2007-05-20 01:52:52 · 5 answers · asked by Juliyah S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 01:52:34 · 4 answers · asked by brianlv93 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 01:49:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are going through a very bad period with my bf and last night he got severely drunk (he normally never drinks) and protested when I wanted to take him home from a common friend's place. He ended up pushing me/slightly hitting me on my head when I said I am going home on my own then and was saying good bye to his friends. This happened in front of our common friends and other people that I first met. He is now very sorry and keeps apologizing and says he does not remember this happening, but I am just disgusted and very sad.

Is this something that happens from time to time to couples?

Am I overreacting over an accident? Or is this something that should not be tolerated in any case?

Thanks.

2007-05-20 01:48:59 · 28 answers · asked by 20082008 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok....this guy in my homeroom likes me. I don't like him at all. He's lazy and annoying. I WANT TO GET RID OF HIM!

2007-05-20 01:48:39 · 17 answers · asked by Jennifer R 1 in Singles & Dating

time even in the dream i met his parents. And they really liked me i was very worried because he is philipine and I'm black. But, they accepted me with opened arms. Now if this dream could be as well as awake it would be all the better. Could anyone give me a little in put on this dream he really doesn't mind the fact that i'm black, he said really loves my personality

2007-05-20 01:46:32 · 2 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

you see, i really like this guy at my school, and i sit next to him. all of my friends tell me he likes me, and even his friend gave me some "hints"- which led to the guy i like. So, how do u show that you like a girl? PLEASE ANSWER!!!!

2007-05-20 01:45:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for some reason i been having trouble with girls. i always start as freinds get to know them first then later on start asking them out but for some reason everytime i ask a girl out is always no they dont feel the same way about me and just want to be freinds that it. i just dont get it, please help me....

2007-05-20 01:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Gambit 1 in Singles & Dating

nOthin.. i'm just curiOus.. it just amaze me how 2 people fal nluv, da fact dat they r far.. =) can u tell stOries?

2007-05-20 01:38:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it just me!LOL

They said I'm doing my garden today btw!

2007-05-20 01:38:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-20 01:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf recently started doing stuff that makes me think he might want me and my 3 little girls to move in w/him.

we've been together for about 3 years now. i'm 28 and he's almost 29. he's never been married or lived with a girlfriend (i'm his second long term gf-his last one was in high school and lasted 3 years before she left him for another guy whom she married).

i got a garage door opener and key to his house about 3 months ago. he recently started doing weird things like randomly taking the subwoofer and speakers out of his prized lexus b/c he said he was getting too old to handle the bass in the car and needed more back seat room and also selling other electronics that he's had for years on craigslist.

just a few weeks ago he asked me to organize his dresser so my clothes could fit and he also had me help him clean out his closet (he threw out stuff from old gfs too) to make room for my clothes. he bought more hangers too when i wasn't there.

i didnt ask him to do this

2007-05-20 01:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by sadiesmom28 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 01:03:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yeah...i'm only 14 and i was just wondering what horny meant....not that i felt that way ever but just wondering

2007-05-20 00:28:48 · 5 answers · asked by Gab 1 in Singles & Dating