I have a friend {yes. Actually a friend} who has a boyfriend. He's as sweet as can be to her, when he wants to be, but recently he's been getting a little overboard. He threw 700 dollars into his truck, and trust me on this, she was never a greedy person. seeing him spend so much on his truck, and forgetting her on Valentine's Day and thier anniversary to spend the day with his truck obviously upset her, and did make a hint of greed come over her. Yesterday, weither it be by mistake or not, he punched her in the eye, and the mouth. She has a black eye and swollen lip still. We're not sure if he did it on purpose, as she did lean down to kiss him, but all the same, why would his hand be fisted?
What I'm trying to get at is, is he even worth her time? She's engaged to him, but he's so utterly obsessed with his truck, that he thinks about it more than he does her. It upsets me to see her hurting so badly over something as small as that, but all the same. It is slightly rude, isn't it?
2007-05-20 02:04:35 · 2 answers · asked by Fia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cannot believe you're dwelling on the fact he's obsessed with the truck. He punched her! There are NO circumstances which make that anywhere near okay.
Tell her to get out, he doesn't deserve the energy and devotion she's putting into the engagement. If he's neglecting her emotionally and physically now, then just imagine how worse it could be a few years down the road. It's not meant to be!
2007-05-20 02:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Questionable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She better get this straightened out before marriage so there's no divorce.
2007-05-20 02:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋