My fiance was incarcerated 6 months ago, and naturally, he goes through high and low times, when he is insecure or concerned about my faithfulness or safety while he is away. I, myself, was incarcerated at one time, and KNOW how difficult it is to maintain sanity while the world continues outside, but I was not "in LOVE" while doing my time so I can't with any certainty say what my true concerns really were. I do all that I can do to ensure my man of my loyalty to him and devotion to our relationship while he is away. I have never cheated and keep my male friends at arms length out of respect for my old man even though he would never find out otherwise, but there's time he still insists that something is "not right". He is to be released in 5 weeks and I'm so excited, but I am a little rattled by the whole experience and his occassional doubts in me..
Can anyone shed some light on this subject or give me some insight? Any advice?
2007-05-20 02:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Molly214 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course he is going to be filled with doubt, not really knowing for certain whether you cheated on him or not. The fear of the unknown can even rattle the best of relationships. Accompanied with that is a feeling of powerlessness, because he can't fend other suitors away, or protect you from harm while he sits in jail. Just remain true to him and reassure him if he expresses any more doubts of your love for him. He will be out soon enough to be in your loving arms again. Please, both of you, go on the straight and narrow, so that neither of you do time again -- so you don't have to face this battle again or something even worse. May God Bless you Both, Keep you Safe from Harm, Hold you in the Bosom of His Heart and Above All Else --> Good Luck!
2007-05-20 02:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Andy K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is easy..remember you are the most thing he thinks of..so of course he is wondering what your doing,and who you are doing it with.So his imagination starts running wild and creates all kinda different scenarios.and then when you come to visit and he starts questioning you..you get defensive and here comes the "somethings not right" story.Basically he has to much time on his hands and all he can do is think.
The thing you can do is this.when he starts questioning you just give him the answers you want him to hear. What I did is this I asked him if he wanted me to make something up."You want me to make something up for you..do you want a "story?'Or make up a story (really kinky) tell him and then tell him "I thought you wanted a story..you keep asking me and accusing me" Do you understand what I mean by "story?" good luck
2007-05-20 09:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by little3nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's the fact that their girlfriends or wives may or may not cheat on them..
2007-05-20 09:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't know anybody in jail.
2007-05-20 09:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋