What are ppls views on this? Meeting someone for the day, then meeting them 2nd time the next week and having sex?
2007-05-20 01:53:33 · 20 answers · asked by eenymeenyminymo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, as long as you had protection and so did he, there is nothing wrong with that, honey, we all do it, I did it before I found my husband of fifteen years!
But before I found him I did the same thing, it is called growing up and going with your emotions and if it feels right, then you just go with it, I protected myself and so did the guy I was with, and then I really fell for him, and I got hurt, but I never gave up and then I met another man, and did the same thing.
As long as you are protected and so is he, then you are normal, it is normal for us humans to do this, you are only human and you are attracted to him and he is attracted to you!
God bless you for using protection.
My view, sweetie, is that you are normal! If it feels right to you, and you are on protection then you are fine!
You are normal!
2007-05-20 02:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took you a week? Even the 1st night is OK if everything is cool and everybody has fun and its about fun and not romance. Loosen up people.
I'm so glad I moved to France all those years ago. The French don't take these silly things so seriously. It is very common to sleep with someone on the first date--how else could you know if you even wanted a second date if the sex is not good? Silly Americans.
Love is love.
Sex is just sex. Stop confusing the two. Be safe, have fun. Stop worrying about what people think.
2007-05-20 02:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nick V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to build a serious relationship with this person, I dont think it is a good idea to have sex so soon. You should make sure that your relationship is not built on how good (or bad) the sex is. Give it some time before you jump in bed (the back seat of your car, the shower, etc... LOL!!!) and give this person a BIG part of you that you can never get back!!! It doesnt hurt to wait!!!!
On the other hand, if it's nothing serious, go for it!!!! Live a little, Laugh alot, Have Fun!!! Just be sure to PROTECT YOURSELF!!! If you dont, who will?
Take Care, Hun!!
~SweetS~
2007-05-20 02:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by ~SweetS~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the people involved in the relationship, not on society's view of sex and women. If you are comfortable with having sex (and you use protection), then go for it.
Potential problems with this scenario:
1. If you get too attached to him emotionally and he's just in it for the sex, you're going to get hurt.
2. If it's difficult for you to extricate your feelings from the physical yearning, it might be hard for you tell if he's a good match for you.
3. If you're in it for the sex and he wants something more, you could hurt him.
So I would say, be sure that the two of you are on the same page before having sex. And know yourself and how you're likely to respond to this sort of encounter. But don't bother about society and all of the antiquated views of women having sex.
Good luck!
2007-05-20 02:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it. But Iam a prude. I have to get to know someone before I jump into the sack with them. I have to feel something for the guy I don't want to just go through the motion of having sex. That would make me feel cheap. How can a guy respect you if you don't even respect yourself? But everybody is different some have sex right away & some don't. Each to their own.
2007-05-20 02:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can go either way. This means the two people are really insync with each other or they really don't care and they just want to get to the good stuff. Obiviously, I feel it is wrong because I just met this person and now we are having sex even though I don't remember your name too well. Dating is a process, it takes alot of patience, time and sacrifice to get what you want. However, in this case I feel someone didn't want to put up a fight and give in.
2007-05-20 01:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Roger P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats nothing new. The world's attitude torwards sex and relationships is changing and there will come a time when people with just have sex an hour into the date. its just that it easy to have sex than a relationship
2007-05-20 02:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by loxzibit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex until marriage. The ultimate wedding gift to your spouse should be you. What kind of a gift is that when you have given it to other people freely?
You are cheaping yourself and prostituting yourself when you behave in this fashion. I know it has become readily accepted but it shouldn't be it does by far more damage than good. Matter of fact there is no good in it just a quick bout of self gratifcation.
After all who wants to buy the cow when the milk comes free?
2007-05-20 01:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
i guess im pretty okay with it.if you dont want to see them again, why not? but then some stranger things have happened...maybe youll find the "one"..its just not a very romantic story to tell your grandkids....just do what you want but be careful..condoms and such..and your rep as well.
2007-05-20 02:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say their are no rules for this.I would think you should be yourself and be sure you all ways have safe sex.
2007-05-20 01:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Don M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋