I have been talking to a 33 year old woman on the phone, Im 26 year old guy. Is that to old or not.. She told me that Her X use to work at the same job that im working at now she told me the name her the X but the name . i do not know the name is her x . i been there 4 years.... Is this good or Bad to i need to stop talking to her or what?/ She told me that she want more kids also.. . p.s i told her where i work at that is when she told me that her X ust to work there..
Please tell me what you thank.
2007-05-20 02:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by allen_hurd2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres no harm in talking that is how we get to know people. I would still talk to her and learn more about her for a while. If theres something wrong with her you'll learn through getting to know her.
2007-05-20 02:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by merrilee_c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the age thing that's nothing!
With you working where her X's used to work that's scary! She might be only using you to get back at him, or back with him!!! As there must be guys there that know him and still keep in contact with him...
Does she seem more eager to want to get to know you, now she knows where you work?
The talk of children seems pretty fast (if you guys haven't been talking to each other very long)
And if you aren't really to be a dad, might want to re-think things as she has children already and you wouldn't want the children getting attached to you and you disappear!
No offence but asking this question sounds like you are having second thoughts, I think you need to really sit down and see what you want/feeling so no-one is lead on or gets hurt...
And if the future might be a good idea not to tell ladies, where you work until you really know them and know what you want…
2007-05-20 09:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by LadyinOz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are buggin about her age then dont be wit her..if it makes you feel uncomfortable! i dont get what is important about the X and him working where u work now? i think ur main problem is about her age.. but honestly age is nothing but a number,,,,if you are happy in every other way,,,then dont just end it b/c you have a couple years in between...
2007-05-20 09:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally I wouldn't want to know who the X is. Somethings are better left unsaid, as for having another kid is a different topic. Think about what is it you want out of this relationship.
2007-05-20 09:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a number my dear, if you get along well, she treats you well, you are having a good time, go with it.
I know, I am 48 and my husband is 35. What can I say, some of us older gals just "got it!" LOL
2007-05-20 09:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sr. Mary Holywater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first I would find out from the company if her ex worked there and I would have to take this one slow because maybe she's just lonely and she needs company, so dont get to involved until you see her and see if there is a connection.
2007-05-20 09:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been talking to her over the phone. Why are you asking if she's too old? Can't you two just be friends? I think all your worries are too premature.
2007-05-20 09:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A women in her 30's is prime , have some fun!
2007-05-20 09:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference shouldn't matter if you genuinely like the woman.
Follow your heart.
2007-05-20 09:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by Questionable 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the place is big he may have and you may not remember him or know him.
If not she may have the wrong company on mind...it's happened.
But either way your having doubts and I would blow her off.
2007-05-20 09:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋