Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

As a Catholic, How can I get married outside?

I am Catholic, she is Baptist.

I am catholic, she is baptist. We want a small wedding on the beach or in a garden. Have anyother catholics gotten approval from a preist.

2007-05-20 11:21:47 · 12 answers · asked by Tim M 1 in Weddings

IF YES, HOW OFTEN DO YOU USE IT?
if usage is rare, how many times in a year...
if is often, how many in a month...

2007-05-20 11:19:14 · 1 answers · asked by giandaniele a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is 43 its been happening for 2 weeks he says its love i say its lust. he has gone to be with her now any one out there with any thoughts????

2007-05-20 11:18:38 · 44 answers · asked by ms j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I say,"Please be quiet," but she keeps saying,"Wait, I'm almost done,"she still isn't zipping her big mouth.

2007-05-20 11:16:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think this is right she is 14. She knows the rules for computers and i let her freedoms go wide with her boyfriend because we all did it and i think she should too. im asking do you trust myspace. and do you think what im doing is right for my daughter considering every boy likes her

2007-05-20 11:15:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-20 11:13:31 · 17 answers · asked by CHRONIS V 1 in Singles & Dating

seriously, it doesn't hurt

2007-05-20 11:11:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 11:08:54 · 8 answers · asked by ilikedavid09 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 16 years only does quickies for last 13 years. He's not interested in my needs.

My previous love spoiled me with great sex for 3 years. Even though it was 20 years ago I still think of him. He was 10 years younger, just getting started, moved away. Even though, we kept seeing each other and talked on the phone all the time. But I decided to have a child. He wasn't ready. Ironically he got his next girlfriend pregnant so our children are the same age!

I appreciate my husband for his good qualities, but my frustration is leading me into temptation. I am afraid if this continues, we will split up and that will hurt our children.

He's also depressed, controlling and emotionally abusive, so I feel weakened. I am in therapy but I can't seem to get the will and money to move out. I had really bad cancer and am not in great health, so it seems easier to stay.

My husband won't go to a therapist with me.

2007-05-20 11:05:54 · 13 answers · asked by Eve 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 11:04:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was home alone for a few hours, i just wanted to take a shower before anyone comes home, so i left the door open cuz nobody was home at the time.

i didnt hear my dad and my dad didnt know i was in the bathroomt aking a; shower, he open the door and saw me naked?!?!?! it was the most embarssing thing EVER!!!
Im 15 years old, so that felt umcomftable!!!

i cant face him now, i cant go in the livign room and look him in the face. my dad ahs never seen me naked before, not evne as a baby, my mom told me so cuz shes the one weho always washing us!!

2007-05-20 11:03:23 · 18 answers · asked by Malina G 1 in Family

My wife of 3 yrs left me 2 weeks ago, because I was verable abusive. I've been crying everyday, and I don't know what else to do. She finally called me and told me there was no hope of working things out, then she called me back and told me we could try to work things out, but since then she hasn't called for 2 days. I can't breath without her and i'm so confused what she wants from me. I sweared I would change but I think I've done to much damage to her. If she is serious about giving me another chance, why doesn't she just come home, or at least call me? How much suffering should I take?

2007-05-20 11:02:27 · 16 answers · asked by Steve S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 10:59:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my husband divorced in 2000, part of MSA (Marital Settlement Agreement) was that he was responsible for 1/2 of his daughter's reasonable college expenses. Of course we want to help her go to college, but don't want to be taken advantage of by his ex-wife. She has decided where the daughter will live, made all these other plans for the college years without any input from the father.
If you have some solid advice to help us make sure we aren't paying too much (she has a 100% scholarship plus other graduation scholarships). We'd be most appreciative.

2007-05-20 10:56:40 · 4 answers · asked by Carol D 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 10:55:23 · 15 answers · asked by helix 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We are having a problem with ding-dong-ditchers (people who ring the doorbell then run away) and we can't seem to catch them in time. It is getting very annoying. Does anyone have any ideas on how to stop it?

2007-05-20 10:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my wife seperated on Febuary 2 2007. We got into an argument and I told her either I would leave or she should. So she left with the kids. She has tried numerous times to get back with me but I wouldnt have it. I finally had a change of heart and now she says she is happy on her own. I asked her if she was 100% positive if she wanted to divorce and she said (I think we need to make this permenent.) Thats all she says. And she is stickin to her guns about not coming back. Should I keep up hope or just give up? All this was caused by her cheating wich led to me cheating. And neither one of us can get over the pain of the cheating. But I am willing to get help. I am not bothered by what she has done in the past. I have forgiven her and those other men and myself. I just need to know what to do.

2007-05-20 10:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 10:51:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

No seriously, she really does.

What should I do? can it be a good or bad thing?
How would you deal with it? Could it be enjoyable or painful?

Whats the best way to go about doing this?

Thanks

2007-05-20 10:51:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well this might not be "appropeite" but me and my boyfriend got drunk together thursday, and lets just say we did "everything" but sex.. we almost did have sex though. it was right "there". but yeah the day after that it started gett reallllllly itchy "down there" and kinda of hurts:S. its not from shaving though, cuz its like itching "inside". and iuno what to do, i dont really want to get it checked out cause im scared, and i deffinitly dont want to tell my mom or anything.
please help me, what could it be? is it just me? could anything even happen, we **didnt ** have sex:S?
(sorry spelling mastake^

2007-05-20 10:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... and claim in the beginning that they are ready to date and be REAL yadayadayada. Yet when it comes down to the planning of the 'date' or beginning a dating relationship they are BROKE.

2007-05-20 10:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Sophie1970 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my man for 11years with 2 kids broke up for a month in that month i found out he was seeing someone but didn't know who. I alwyas asked him if he was and would deny it. well after being apart for that month. we decide to work things out. when he moved back in i had told him to tell me who was he seeing before it comes out. of course he didn't. well 2 days later. as we were watching tv i hear a knock on my door it was the girl he was seeing. as to my suprise the girl was someone that used to mess with his friend and lives around the corner from our house.we are together but now am feeling that i might of made the wrong desicion. should I work things out or end it. is it still cheating even if we weren't together.

2007-05-20 10:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by dimples 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just curious what everyone thinks i've only ever tried two and i'm curious to try more

2007-05-20 10:20:13 · 29 answers · asked by Katie D 2 in Singles & Dating

together from their two separate ones?

I've witnessed dozens of Catholic weddings and when we were preparing to marry, our priest told our group that it was not permitted because it had nothing to do with any church custom, it actually came from when Luke & Laura were married on General Hospital.
Is this true?!!!

I mean, I'm sure the priest would know what is and isn't allowed as part of a wedding ceremony, but then, why have I seen it in so many other churches?

2007-05-20 10:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by mamabunny 4 in Weddings

is it better to wait til marriage?

2007-05-20 10:15:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is gay but the problem is i really don't like gay people i mean they kinda of freak me out
don't get me wrong or anything they are really nice people i mean i love my friend to bits
its just what he does behind close doors is what makes me cringe
i have just been brought up to think like this
btw im a girl so if i was near a lesbian i wouldnt be comfortable
what do i do to feel more comfortable near my friend?
and has anyone been in this situation?

2007-05-20 10:14:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

together from their two separate ones?

I've witnessed dozens of Catholic weddings and when we were preparing to marry, our priest told our group that it was not permitted because it had nothing to do with any church custom, it actually came from when Luke & Laura were married on General Hospital.
Is this true?!!!

I mean, I'm sure the priest would know what is and isn't allowed as part of a wedding ceremony, but then, why have I seen it in so many other churches?

2007-05-20 10:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by mamabunny 4 in Weddings

He told me he loves me last night but its only been a week! I didn't say anything back and I know it kind of hurt him. Please help!!!

2007-05-20 10:13:18 · 22 answers · asked by emluvsmatt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 10:11:06 · 16 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i seperated we both agreed on it and we have not spoken to each other for the whole two months im feeling pretty good now but ive heard from a few people hes d oen terrible not looken good and looks depressed so i called this morning and left a message on his machine and said i was gonna call him tonight at 10 pm and if he picks up the phone then we can talk im worried about him did i do the right thing here there was no cheating involved just our fights got out of control please give me some good advice ty so much jewels

2007-05-20 10:10:48 · 22 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Marriage & Divorce