2007-05-20 11:04:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my ring i'm sorry.
2007-05-20 11:14:32 · update #1
you're probably newlywed and it will stop in about 2 years
2007-05-20 11:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really want to take a shot at this question! I am going to be honest with you, I am young, somewhat inexperienced (being that I have never gotten married before) , but somewhat intuitive ( i love intuition, it keeps me looking for what might be the most correct reason). I feel that it might be a defense mechanism & the pure love that you have for you significant other. The defense mechanisim kicks in by saying don't let him go, you have invested time into him then your endorphins react too by showing him just how one feels for the other. You have a gut instinct to hold on to something good, that is your sub-conscience spilling into your conscience and holding onto what you think is "valuable". You have a good thing, don't let it go.
2007-05-20 11:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by earthball50@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it scares you when you and your husband argue, and you think it threatens your marriage. In the future, remind yourself of the reason why you're wearing that ring, and what it means. Determine in the future to work through your quarrels, resolve the issues, and keep your wedding rings on.
2007-05-20 13:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awkward to be in the same room with the person you are mad at. There is that silence that is so heavy one of you will either have to break it with more arguing or a resolution. That reaction to take off an get away from the situation is also the "fight or flight" in us.
2007-05-20 11:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by BananaPancakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just the way you react. I either go for a walk or lock myself in the bedroom until I'm not longer angry...or need to use the washroom. lol.
everyone deals with things differently.
you should probably work on talking instead though. that's what I've been doing and I find it gets the argument over and done with way faster and not as many feelings are hurt.
2007-05-20 11:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are threatening him . It can be called control also. Commuication is the only thing that will help. Aslo why are you arguing? Someone has to give in or change their position to create harmony. Men can't stand conflict in their relationships. Women live for the conflict.
2007-05-20 12:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by wllhsbb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making a statement to him - you want him to notice that you don't have your wedding ring on therby, giving you attention. The problem is men don't actually notice things like that so it's wasted on them.
2007-05-20 11:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bexs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't take off his head (either one) you are ok.
Nothing wrong with taking time to cool off and think about you want to say.
2007-05-20 11:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably it's just your way of making him think seriously about your relationship! and maybe to hurt him.
It's probably not a good idea to continue because it might backfire at some stage.
2007-05-23 05:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take what off?
2007-05-20 11:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by Vito C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋