divorced people what was the worst action or words your x did or said to you?

Answer 1

1) The first time I had to go to the health department for a possible veneral disease was because of my ex-wife's infidelity.

2) The second time that I know of her infidelity was with a close family member of mine, my first cousin to be exact, whom I was best friends with.

3) After the divorce, my ex-wife said during a parent class, that she and her lesbian lover were better parents to my daughter than me and her ever were.

4) After the divorce, my ex-wife stole some personal property of mine.

5) Losing my daughter to Child Protective Services and myself having to hire an attorney to get custody of my daughter for about $5,000.

Answer 2

The 2 worst incidents were 1. He broke into the house a week after I asked him to leave for a short while so we could regroup and tried to take our 2 oldest children. Ripped the phone out of the wall when I tried to call police. It was the first time I was truly scared of him.
2. He accused me of cheating and said he didn't think our youngest child was his because she didn't look like him and he knew I hadn't been happy for a few years. Asked me why I hadn't just had an abortion since I was unhappy.

Both painful and unforgettable actions. This was 7 years ago and he has apologized and also gotten counselling for anger management after being arrested-I had a cell phone! The children never knew because they did not wake up-thank God! Our relationship has become smoother and more supportive as we deal with each other as parents only.

Answer 3

I could make a list, but I'll just go with the basics. Worst words was when he told me that I was fat and lazy and boring and stupid and that I should die and save him the cost of a divorce.

Worst thing he did was when last week, (we've been separated for 3) he brought his new girlfriend to my house when he brought my son back. I don't normally condone violence, but I smacked him so hard I left marks. But you know what? I'm not normally a religious person, but I have been praying a lot and it has helped me to see that he is pretty worthless if he could do the things he's done to me. I can't be mad at him because he is just that unimportant now.

Answer 4

The worst we ever did was we got into a fight. He ended up throwing his plate at me it burned my leg and cut my tendon on my ankle. Later he broke my jaw. I stayed too long.
Too this day we are friends. We were good people that ended up bad for each other. We had a bad loss. We lost a child during child birth and blamed each other and did not get the help we needed. Later we had a second child but the loss of the first was to great to handle. He turned to drink I turned to Rx meds and dieting. I was slowly killing myself and he was stuck watching me. I enabled his problem while he enabled mine. By not being smart and turning to help we lost. I now have a great life and 6 children. The children I have no nothing of my first child and the son I share with my x has no idea how our marriage turned bad. At least now we have both moved on and have good lives.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

The worst thing he did to me after staying out all night and coming home just in time to change his clothes for work. I asked him to move on to where ever he was lying up. I then went to pick up his dirty clothes and found blood in his underwear ( in the front, not the back ) where he'd had sex with someone on their cycle. After announcing it to him he denied it and told me he had zipped his private up in his pants. Well, how did it get on the outside of his pants also?
The next is finding out he had taken another woman over to his family member house and introduced her to them, while we was still together. Then took me back over to these same people house as if we was a happy couple. They was mad at him and told me everything. He lied and lied and lied. He was by far the worst man I had ever come across.

Answer 7

Accusing me of having not only slept with his best friend but having become pregnant by him. Rather absurd considering we were hundreds of miles from anywhere and I was already pregnant when his best friend came to visit (and there's no way in flipping you-know-what this guy would've ever come on to me or vice versa). And when that theory blew up in his face he accused me of having an affair with ... I have no clue. Like I said, we lived miles from anywhere, I had no transportation to go anywhere and no one ever came visiting when he wasn't there. Despite all of this, he never apologized and still spent the first four years of his daughter's life in doubt about who her father was. Needless to say we are no longer together.

Answer 8

put a straight razor to my throat and said he wanted to slit my throat, take a picture of it and send it to all my friends and then dump my body down a well. He felt different after 2 weeks in jail and 3 felony convictions, but I still divorced his ***.

Answer 9

First of all, cheating on me to begin with was right up there, but what really got me was this: The day that my ex-husband left me (for another woman), we had lunch earlier that day together (before he told me he was leaving). I had to go back to work, so he dropped me off, and on the way in, he kissed me, looked me square in the eye, and said, "I love you baby." Later, when he told me he was leaving me, I asked him why he even bothered to say that. He said, "for your benefit." I felt like decking him! Thanks for the gesture, right?? Needless to say, I'm glad I'm rid of him. The other woman can have him! LOL

Answer 10

okay here goes we had just gotten a divorce granted and he told my dad he wished i had been killed so he would not have to pay me alimony and he told my dad that it was still possible.He was a total jerk he died 3 yrs later he got run over by a bus god works in mysterious ways.