Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

how many times you have used it or heard the term " not tonight; I have a headache ", during the last one year ?

2007-05-20 14:47:01 · 16 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 14:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 14:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by lacey2392 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dumped by my ex 6 months ago (from a 3 year relationship), and the break up was pretty sudden, with no warning. Out of the blue he just said that he wasn't happy, doesn't know why but doesn't feel the same way about me and had no contact ever since. I was completely heart broken because I loved him so much, but now I have come to accept it because since I loved him so much, the last thing I want is for him to be unhappy so I basicly let him go and started to focus on my life. Then all of a sudden he starts contacting me, wanting to talk about "something", but I refused to as I still loved him and will make me backslide with all the progress I had, told him that i don't want to see him again for my benefit, because thats the only way for me to get over him, but he still keeps on contacting me. Im confused, he wanted out of the relationship because of his "unhappiness" and I respected that, I let him go, why is he bothering me now? Why won't he respect my wishes in return?

2007-05-20 14:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies...Ur husband was unfaithful before and during your marriage. He had mandantory surgery that unexpectedly left him unable to walk.You do everything for him, including wipe his *** and get him in and out of places and he still treats you like crap,talks to you any kind of way, and is overall ungreatful for the things you do. Plus he has money and still expects you to work a full time job and pay ALL the bills...What would you do?

2007-05-20 14:39:17 · 34 answers · asked by ms.redd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is very general, but i want to know..
when a guy really likes a girl, how does he feel about her?
what initially attracts him, and how does she make him feel?
thanks.

2007-05-20 14:37:24 · 7 answers · asked by hottie:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in Houston texas and i have a protective order from my wife and need advice what to do i already have a
i already have a lawyer and she is lying about the situation I am devastated because i LOVE my 3 sons and i can not see them and can not call either the children she went to the movies with me and the 3 kids 5 days after she file for protective order. and she is lying that i told her i am going to shoot her and attempt to hit her. I will never do that because i know in texas HOUSTon you go automatically to jail. need help i still love my wife and i want to go back home w/ her and the 3 kids CAN SHE DROPPED IT or what can happen. I hope she will feel mercy and think about how much i love her and the 3 sons we have. ASAP HELP. what happens if she does not show up?? can the kids testify 12 years old and 10 yrs old??what to do if you have a protective order CAN YOU WIN if you have evidence she went to the movies w/u 1 day before you got served with the application 4 protec. orde

2007-05-20 14:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by nanuk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend so much. He is a good man. Sweet, kind, caring. And by the time I found out he had been in prison, I had already fallen in love with him. I look at it as just something from his past. He is getting his life straightened out, but is having a hard time finding a job. He is trying though.
I really love this man. He has his flaws, but don't we all. He loves me for me.
Is it possible to build a future with someone who has been in prison?
I am not talking about a murderer or molester. Just someone who made a mistake.

2007-05-20 14:24:23 · 25 answers · asked by kitty angel 1 in Friends

2007-05-20 14:14:35 · 4 answers · asked by Kevin T 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my cousins are really cool to be around with...but they are always talking about me...they tell my best frien stuff about me...and every time i tell them something they go and they tell their mom..and their mom tell my mom...and our moms are sisters...and the whole story get all flipped around..and my mom always belives her...and nothing of what they say is true...and every time they tell me something i never tell anybody...and if i wanted to i could get them in so much trouble...but im not that kind of person...o yea we live lie 3 houses away from each other.....please help please...

2007-05-20 14:10:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She lies and is very sneaky and mean to me!!!

2007-05-20 14:06:46 · 16 answers · asked by Taya77 1 in Family

We've got 4 kids. The oldest is 12. The other 3 are 5 (they are triplets) and she's been evily poisoning their thinking about me. (I'm dumbfounded and shocked at things the little ones say that reveal things she's told them) I'm going to be fighting for sole-custody of the kids (this divorce stuff is all quite new and unfamiliar to me at this point), because of her horrendous mothering and addiction to pain pills and anti-psych meds. Things are becoming increasingly tense and verbally hostle as we attempt to co-exsist in the same house. Any thoughts anyone? Any encouragment is highly appreciated.

2007-05-20 14:05:24 · 15 answers · asked by Hubert Nerd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the story. My wedding is July 28 of this year, and I've been engaged since May of last year. I foolishly asked my oldest friend to be my maid of honor. She has always been somewhat self-absorbed, but I thought she had gotten over it.

Well, things have not turned out well. Not only has she been completely unsupportive; I can't even get her to pay for her bloody dress. The day my other bridesmaids and I went to pick them out, she ditched, so I paid for hers and she promised to pay me back (I really don't have the money to pay for their dresses, unfortunately). She has not planned any kind of shower/bachelorette party for me- she has literally not even called and asked me how plans are and if there's anything she needs to do (we don't see each other very often).

This is stressing me out so much that I know I need to tell her she's out. What is a tactful way to do this? At this point, I'm not too concerned about preserving the friendship, but I don't want to be too rude.

2007-05-20 14:04:40 · 15 answers · asked by kaitlyn.roberts 2 in Weddings

2007-05-20 13:58:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 13:54:30 · 6 answers · asked by bonita`nina 1 in Singles & Dating

Do the moms of all children have a website like "www.moms.com" or "www.find_out_what_your_ child_is_doing_now.com"? Whenever i get home from somewhere, my mom says I'm in trouble! I ask her how she found out and she says she has her sources. For every single grounding I get, thats her excuse for finding out the dirt!!!! Plz tell me the truth cause I'm just so curious!!!

2007-05-20 13:53:26 · 12 answers · asked by rebecca_noel 2 in Family

2007-05-20 13:52:08 · 1 answers · asked by lordgodcreatorofallthings 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago, i love him so much and i have been fighting to get him back but nothing i did worked.. We were together for a year, i thought he was the one.. Now he has a girlfriend, she lives about 8 hours away from here and is apparently moving up here :'( i feel so alone, like i have no one, i thought he loved me, how can he move on so fast?? How do I get over this?? :'(

2007-05-20 13:48:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He & I have been dating, non serious, no committments for 2 mos, yet I can see by the time stamps, he continues to post and search online for women on a site that Im on, but inactive.
Im not serious about him, but that could change in time, but not if he continues to troll for others.
Should I continue with him or not?
we arent committed, I understand that, but something about this behavior is wrong to me-it probably is ok if you are in your 20's but Im in my 40's and hes in his 50's, I dont think I should continue seeing someone who is also online trying to get someone else too.
Even though we arent serious, Im not doing that kind of thing. My thinking is to give this a chance, but I guess thats not his thinking.
So, should I move on or not?
I

2007-05-20 13:47:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it me or my wife i really need to know

2007-05-20 13:44:32 · 5 answers · asked by priscilla g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Adopted my granddaughter (she is now 5) and my daughter and I have had a difference of opinion and I do not think she should see her biological daughter anymore. She had to make a choice to clean her act up or not be a part of her daughter's life anymore. My daughter (22 yrs old) is a stripper (for past 3 yrs), lives with an ex-con (prison 10yrs for drugs and theft), and both use drugs. I have had enough of her foul and smart mouth. When she is around her daughter and me, after about an hour she starts to yell at her daughter and lets her do what she wants to. I hate for my granddaughter not having her mother around, but I cannot put up with my daughter's drastic mood swings and she and I usually end up fighting and arguing.

2007-05-20 13:44:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it bad if you feel like doing 'stuff' with ur bf? my bf doesn't mind but I was just thinkin about it and wondering if that was bad. im 15

2007-05-20 13:41:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

trying to get over him 'cause everytime we hangout or he talks to me the feelings tend to come back. how can distant myself without seeming like a ****** or rude? like should i ignore him or just talk to him less and less.

2007-05-20 13:40:36 · 2 answers · asked by LaBelleVita 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard that quite a few times. A guy will go out with a girl thats ugly as ever, but has a great body.. but when a girl thats very pretty with a okay body but thick.. they won't go out with?

2007-05-20 13:39:43 · 24 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Singles & Dating

“Normal” - Stop spitting, drooling, tripping, spilling stuff on him, and ah, well, act like my normal self instead of a mentally handy capped fool???? I don't want to be around me when I start to act like this ... Am I just an idiot because he's so perfect in every way ... why - why- why can't I just be myself ... Help!

2007-05-20 13:38:30 · 8 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that i like who is in my grade. How do i ask him if he likes me. I think he might like me but i don't know. If he does like me what do i do? (hmm that might be a problem...) well thanks!

2007-05-20 13:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 13:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do u like girly girls???

2007-05-20 13:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by CHEER CHICK 2 in Singles & Dating

Please dont give me any "you dont need boys" answers... How do i get a guy to like me... PS i'm a high school student, and not just any guy, i know who i want to like me, what do i do?

2007-05-20 13:29:14 · 3 answers · asked by magicalmayhem_07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 13:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family