Family & Relationships - 20 May 2007

Example: a girl said that she wanted have sex with a person on she met on the internet but after meeting and getting to know the person she's unconfortable with the idea of having sex with this person. That's just one example. You would think a person would want to do something as private and personal as having sex with someone they know and not a complete stranger.

2007-05-20 18:15:39 · 9 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 18:15:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just assumed my sister would want me to be her maid of honor in her wedding, but instead she asked her best friend to do the job. I'm her only sister - so there's no conflict as far as her having to choose between sisters. I'm pretty upset about this - should I not be?

2007-05-20 18:14:33 · 22 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Weddings

I have always been very protective of her, I don't like it whenever guys talk to her, especially guys that she used to like, which is very long i might add. We have been going out for 7 months and the other day one of the guys that she used to like, slapped her ***. I floored him and ended up breaking his nose. My gf got mad at me and told me that I have to ease up on these kinds of things. It has been 3 days and she is refusing to talk to me. We have always told eachother that we would never leave one another but I am worried that she is close to doing that. I would never leave her, and I am actually a very sweet, caring, sensitive guy. I have sent her flowers and cards but haven't gotten anything in return. What should I do? Do you think the punch was justified? And, do you think she is going to break up with me?
Thanks a ton

2007-05-20 18:13:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can some one be my lover?

2007-05-20 18:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by jeewithi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

as I want it nearly everyday he wants it once in 10 days .When I tried to solve it and told him plainly that due to this problem I am becoming irritable and am not happy .he said that he just doesnt want it and I am forcing it on him .I have tried all ways and its not that he doesnt like to have it with me but the simple thing is that he just doesnt want it frequently .I am really troubled over it as we dont even have children till now and i am thinking how will i live like this throughout my life >I just dont know why he is like this ? plzzzzzzzzzz help

2007-05-20 18:10:46 · 18 answers · asked by kamya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-20 18:10:02 · 16 answers · asked by Erica P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you dont hate your mother nature..then why do you litter, drive cars, use hairspray, waste water, waste paper, not recycle, etc. why would you WANT to kill your own mother??

(also i dont mean to generalize..ofcourse im not talking to those of you who do love your mother and do not do harm to her..do not take offense if you are not the people im talking to)

2007-05-20 18:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would you be with a woman that wanted a baby so bad and then got pregnant and got so freaked out that she had an abortion? her choice not mine. i told her id have it if thats what she wanted to do. she made all kinds of lame excuses and i just said well i'll keep it but she said, i've been drinking and it's not the right time. excuses, excuses, excuses. i told her well the reason i don't think you want this baby is because you are going to leave me. she said that's crazy! two days after the abortion, she left me. now is playing the victim. i need to get her out of my mind and move on. she seems so cold. how can she be so cold and want to end everything. she will always be connected with me. she almost had my baby. she will never be able to forget me even though she's running. i want it ended now because of the hurt. however, i know after she settles down, she will be in contact with me again. it's inevitable. How do i handle this situation?

2007-05-20 18:04:27 · 16 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 2nd time for a year he moved to live with me and paid most all of his bills off. Now were both working he right now is making more then me but I have more bills to pay then him. I ask him for help he does help but complains that its his money and makes me feel I am a burden to him. Does anyone have any ideas how to resolve this problem?

2007-05-20 18:03:42 · 7 answers · asked by wildrose 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Am I around just for the money? yes and no. I love him, 11 yrs is a long time to forget all the good times we had and still have when he is on vacation from cheating. (he has gone 6-7 months without seeing either one of them, (or so i think) But I know he will never change. He cheats because he wants to be able to "get over on me" (I promise never to see them again...HA HA HA I'm doing it again and she doesn't have a clue) We are not married yet we lived and worked together at HIS business for the entire 11yrs. I would never get a dime. California does not honor the common law marriage. (believe that one would you) anyway. I am in business with his help. If i pulled out now i wouldn't have a chance of surviving. 3-6 months yes, now, no way. I still don't deserve to be cheated on or lied to, especially when he knows i know where he has been.

2007-05-20 18:02:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey. I am looking for my real dad. I believe his name is Brandon Carter. But i'm not 100% sure. His approx. age is 37 years old. He has sandy blond hair and blue eyes. I believe his about 6' to 6'4 ft tall. He at one time lived in Lexington, KY in the late 80's and maybe into the early 90's. He played tennis and was one of the best in the state of Kentucky from what I've been told. He attented University of Kentucky and dated Jenny Lee Hinkle in high school and in college. Jenny is my mother. She has blond hair and blue eyes and is 5'2 ft. She gave me up for adoption in april of 1988. I was born on April 1st 1988. I can not find my father I really wish I could. If any one out there knows the man i am talking about please let me know. Thank you. Contact me at courtnie9742@aol.com. It is very important to me that I find him. so please if you have any information please let me know

2007-05-20 18:01:49 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney S. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If been dating this older women, by 6yr. I really like her, and i feel that she cares for me. but it seems we are spending most of are time aurgueing lately. she has several issues with me that she brings up frequently. no week end time and not meeting my kids. we have been dating for about 2.5 months. My week end time is normally for my kids, but Iv'e made it known that i can make time for her. but she make statemants assuming I have some one else. or she isn't important to me. we see each during the week, but i know that is not enough. we also work together. i may stay over at night, leave to get kids off to school and be back to spend some of the day there. The problem is every wknd she breaks up with me, or gestures to me that she wants it to end. How can I feel comfterable bringing her around the kids. when the out look for the relationship looks bleek. and I have younger kids. 8 12 15 and hers 15 19 21 and I would hate for my kids to get attached my (daughter 8 ) and get hurt.

2007-05-20 17:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by scorpio75 1 in Singles & Dating

i think this guy likes me he saves me a spot on the bus but then when i ask him why he dose he says "becouse i dont whant to sit by some one i dont know" and he spends a lot of time with me at school one of his frends called me an "evil wench" and when i told his frend that he dosnt like me and i dont like me he roolled his eyes and"sayed shere what ever" but he also talks about his ex a lot and shows me pics of him and her what do you peopel think about this i need help oh by th way hes 15 and im 14 help

2007-05-20 17:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Rebeka S 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think 14 is too young to have sex even if we know that it is possible that she could get pregnant?We know the risk and also both of us don't have any STDs or anything.

2007-05-20 17:55:42 · 27 answers · asked by U can't B like me 5 in Singles & Dating

well ok im almost 16 and this girll i like is almost 16 to we are born 2 weeks apart. she goes to my church thats how we met ten years ago and since about five years ago weve been pretty good friends. we flirt with eachother all the time and she doesnt flirt with any of the other guys at the church who she has known for the same amount of time. also if one of the other guys sits beside her when we are on outhings she has them switch with me and she has asked to sit beside me during service the other day. she also asked me to go with her to her home church and i went we sat beside eachother then they had a meal after service and we sat across from each other what do you think the best way to ask her out would be ttyl

2007-05-20 17:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3 in Singles & Dating

I went on a date with a woman who told me she was from Yugoslavia. Needless to say, we had a really good time. When I got home, I went online to educate myself on her native country and I discover that it doesn't even exist anymore! Why would she lie to me like this? Is everyone from Yugoslavia this two-faced and deceiving?

2007-05-20 17:51:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well there's this guy at my school right? i've become close to him, enough to love him.. he loved me in a spur- of the moment kinda way and after the loved just disappeared i still loved him, but he didnt love me back. later on, i lost his trust because of this. he loves another girl, but is afraid to tell me because he is afraid to hurt my feelings but i already know. and so, i really just want to be his friend again, and gain his trust back..but how should i do that with this other girl? do you think his love will last with this girl since he kinda rushed his friendship with her? i need help badly :[

2007-05-20 17:48:00 · 2 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Friends

My friends dog recently died, and when i didnt immediatly send my condolences, but instead started talking about something eles, she got upset [which i understand], but then when she got mad because I didnt know how she disposed of the dogs remains, she got more mad, saying i wasnt listening, which in reality i dont really know!!

how do i get her to know i really am sorry about her dog, and that im a good listener, and that lately things have been really messed up in general.

2007-05-20 17:47:34 · 9 answers · asked by woah 2 in Friends

2007-05-20 17:47:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 17:41:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tell you you are the love of her life. tell you i love you so much while she looks in your eyes. tell you she wouldn't know what she would do without you. tell you don't ever leave me. tell you she wanted your baby.....then get pregnant without planning it with you (not taking her birth control without your knowledge), getting an abortion, yelling at your kids, and then moving out suddenly and then looking for a new house 5 days later. hello. what am i missing?

2007-05-20 17:41:32 · 20 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it alright for me, i'm 20, to date a 16 year old?

2007-05-20 17:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

age 18 - 25? "NICE! NICE!" Please don't say bar or clubs!

2007-05-20 17:36:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 17:34:34 · 18 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

If you owed like $7,000 in back child support & were just making payments here & there when you could & knew you weren't going to have a license for many, many years to come because of this, would you still drive once in a while or would you stay prisioner in your home??? I got royally screwed in a bitter divorce and he had my c.s pymts raised to an ungodly amount. I tried to get it modified for yrs & I even had my daughter living w/ me for almost 2 yrs while still being charged to pay him-- it's a LONG< COMPLICATED story, but I will be charged no more c.s, but they can't change the back amount I owe. My new husband comes home from work tired alot & doesn't want to go anywhere. Sometimes I drive to the grocery store by myself or something like that, not all over town. Some people agree that you have to drive sometimes over the years & some say they wouldn't drive ANYWHERE!!

2007-05-20 17:33:35 · 14 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Im getting married soon to the most wonderful guy. I wanna have a successful marriage.
Any tips?

2007-05-20 17:32:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and breaks up with you?

what does that mean? and how would you feel?

2007-05-20 17:31:07 · 7 answers · asked by i ♥ Food 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-20 17:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by silly milly 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a very serious question , with the state of racial affairs in the US- why do blacks have a chip on their shoulder?

2007-05-20 17:25:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating