If been dating this older women, by 6yr. I really like her, and i feel that she cares for me. but it seems we are spending most of are time aurgueing lately. she has several issues with me that she brings up frequently. no week end time and not meeting my kids. we have been dating for about 2.5 months. My week end time is normally for my kids, but Iv'e made it known that i can make time for her. but she make statemants assuming I have some one else. or she isn't important to me. we see each during the week, but i know that is not enough. we also work together. i may stay over at night, leave to get kids off to school and be back to spend some of the day there. The problem is every wknd she breaks up with me, or gestures to me that she wants it to end. How can I feel comfterable bringing her around the kids. when the out look for the relationship looks bleek. and I have younger kids. 8 12 15 and hers 15 19 21 and I would hate for my kids to get attached my (daughter 8 ) and get hurt.
2007-05-20 17:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by scorpio75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get this hashed out.
For me,a s it stands, this is a terrible relationship
2007-05-20 18:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do NOT introduce her to your children. I have a feeling she's too immature to be a step-mother or any kind of mature role model for your children. This may just be a fling, 2 1/2 months isn't that long.
2007-05-20 18:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Simple 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she is flaky..... break it off.....move on. you have bigger issues like raising healthy happy children. Being single can be a lonely thing. Make the most of it. Stop tring to push a chain... Miss right will come along...
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2007-05-20 18:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by drtoolman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay focused on your kids. Alot of women try to get fathers to abandon their own kids and support theirs. If she leaves she leaves, but stay focused on your kids
Very rare that children have good step-moms
2007-05-20 18:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Douglas G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
way too many problems already; red lights are telling you "WARNING!" at only 2.5 mo.
she's making ME nervous.
you: very clear-thinking responsible calm. her: demanding, insulting, emotions are out of control = danger
eventually, do find someone you are sure you like and who really wants you and causes you almost no grief at all.
don't stop looking until you find her. she's out there.
2007-05-20 18:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by srsly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is telling you in a nice way that there is other.s in her life pal dont get to attached to her she only hurt you this i have saw before your going to get hurt by this woman . in my opion?
2007-05-20 18:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋