well ok im almost 16 and this girll i like is almost 16 to we are born 2 weeks apart. she goes to my church thats how we met ten years ago and since about five years ago weve been pretty good friends. we flirt with eachother all the time and she doesnt flirt with any of the other guys at the church who she has known for the same amount of time. also if one of the other guys sits beside her when we are on outhings she has them switch with me and she has asked to sit beside me during service the other day. she also asked me to go with her to her home church and i went we sat beside eachother then they had a meal after service and we sat across from each other what do you think the best way to ask her out would be ttyl
2007-05-20 17:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by sdavid5523 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her out, dude! But wait until you are 16. She likes you, and I know that she would say yes no matter how you asked her. If you two have known each other for this long, it could grow into a love that would last a lifetime. The fact that you met her at church tells me that God is bringing you closer together. Don't be shy!
2007-05-20 17:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by futureteacher0613 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
General rule of thumb for a "real" date is to invite her to a specific activity at a specific date and time, possibly with an alternative date to suggest if necessary. Maybe one of your churches is having a dance or picnic or something you could ask her to. You don't have to make a big production of it, just ask more or less like you'd invite anyone else to something.
This is such basic info I can't believe you didn't get it first time around. Are you really asking for a confidence boost? If so, then yes, she likes being around you. That doesn't guarantee she wants to go out with you, or will be allowed to, but it's about as good a start as you can get.
Good luck.
2007-05-20 18:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At your next church outing. Ask her if she would like to take a walk when you both have a chance.
When you have some private time, away from the others, ask her.
Think up a few things that you think she might like to do ahead of time.
Go to the zoo, or a movie. A walk in the park. Anything that you would feel comfortable doing also.
Don't worry, you'll be fine. It sounds like she really likes you!
Good luck to you!
2007-05-20 17:58:17 · answer #3 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sit her down and talk with her if she wants to date you fine start dating.
Ask her to go to dinner with you and a movie. Go some where beside church.
You should have prom coming up so ask her if she would like to go to that with you.
You are really making a mountain out of a mole hill.
Things should not be this rough for you since you know she already likes you.
2007-05-20 18:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in keeping with risk she is purely announcing that stuff to submit a front because of the fact she thinks you wouldnt date her. via sitting there while somebody says "you're able to make a lovable couple" could make somebody uncomfy in the event that they prefer quite a few different individual yet not relationship them so as a replace of being embarassed she says something clever. so consult together with her see if she is keen to pass out with you. sturdy success.
2016-10-05 11:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by schiraldi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The church outings are enough. This could be a clean Christian relationship in the making. If you take her out let it be other church events. Good Luck.
2007-05-20 17:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would just ask her if she would like to go on a date with you. Tell her that you really like her and have for a very long time. Ask her if she would be comfortable with that because you feel that she is a very special person. Good luck sweetie.
2007-05-20 17:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alright.....when you guys are sitting next to eachother at church or when your sitting across from her when your eating or something look at her and make sure you both make eye contact and then mouth off "i like you" or whisper it whatever you want and then shell smile....if she doesnt hear you pull her aside and ask her out and if she does hear you then just ask her out then and there.
2007-05-20 18:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just come right out and ask her if she would like to go see a movie or out to eat on a specific day. Then you'll get your answer. Sounds to me like she would like to go out with you.
2007-05-20 17:57:51 · answer #9 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to just ask her out. Be aggressive and take charge. That is such a sexy turn on.
2007-05-20 17:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋