Do you have healthy relationships with people? What is your secret?

Answer 1

I am so happy that you asked this question....
I have only healthy relationships with people, as I do not know any other way to be. Dysfuntction is not a part of my world anymore.
My secrets are simple:
Self awareness
Self transformation
Communicate openly
Love with your entirety
Give without thought to reciprocity
Use integrity with your words
Never take anything personally (this one takes practice)
Never make assumptions (this one takes patience)
Always do your best
Live by action so you can be the change you want to be in your relationships and in this world.
These in combination with learning not to force our feelings and beliefs on others is what i believe to be the entire package of embodying healthy relationships. Often times we try to make our feelings other peoples feelings. Remember that no matter how alike you may be with those you love, we are all individuals...as such we all need different things to feel happy, complete, and satisfied..So we need to let them know we are not mind readers of any kind.
Blessings

Answer 2

For the most part, yes, among those of whom I already know. My secret is not too much of a secret. I treat others as they would want to be treated; I give them room to manuever as individuals, I am accepting of who and what they are; there is a great measure of mutual respect; and I am a good communicator. The last main ingredients are love and patience. I love all people. I am not saying I don't make mistakes because I do, but I try very hard to accept mistakes that we all make from time-to-time, or misjudgments. We have to have a measure of forgiveness within our hearts. I try to have patience for things to develop to a higher plain following disagreements or misunderstandings.

Answer 3

i never had healthy relationships with many people. however i have few , ver few , who understand me and my characteristics. It is a matter of harmonic frequency between people and i m not a pretender. i m very clear about what i have and what are my requirements in life. i'm very intense and there are very few people who match my level of intensity..only those people can get along with me.

i have a typical characteristics for which i have been accused as being psychic too, that is perfectionism.

i hate seeing people going in wrong direction..thats why they don't like me, but i don't change and i ll not whether they like it or not..

Answer 4

like go halfway with people. Then when u find someone who does the same, u got a healthy relationship.

It's like u give some and they give some and it works.

Dunno if I'd call it a secret, more like finding compatible people i'm thinkin.

Answer 5

I am friendly and gracious. Being that way makes me confident. It gives me power in the relationship, like, I am so powerful that I can afford to be polite to you. I automatically have the power, people then defer to me and I only continue being polite, warm, and friendly. It works. Being outgoing makes you confident, it makes you BE confident, and then you have the power. Which you should only use wisely.

Answer 6

i have plenty of great healthy relationships. my secret is 2 put everyone 1st & put yourself last. be yourself they'll respect you

Answer 7

Yes, I do. I am always honest with others. Never cheat or lie. I am cheerful, and open minded.
I really listen, when someone has trouble.

Answer 8

always have boundaries...that is, what is acceptable from a friend. If someone crosses those boundaries, let them know. If they don't respect your boundaries, it's wise to move on because they likely won't be a true friend.

Answer 9

Just be happy

Answer 10

I am honest with them. It seems to work.