ok my cousins are really cool to be around with...but they are always talking about me...they tell my best frien stuff about me...and every time i tell them something they go and they tell their mom..and their mom tell my mom...and our moms are sisters...and the whole story get all flipped around..and my mom always belives her...and nothing of what they say is true...and every time they tell me something i never tell anybody...and if i wanted to i could get them in so much trouble...but im not that kind of person...o yea we live lie 3 houses away from each other.....please help please...
2007-05-20 14:10:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dont tell them anything
2007-05-20 14:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your cousins are jealous of you and insecure about themselves. You do not say how old you are and I am new to this board. However, when women, or girls especially, behaive in this fashion it is likely that they feel that you are better looking, more tallented, moe intelligent, something, then they feel that they are. It may be that they just feel inadequate and insecure about themselves. It is sad for them as they have a long way to go before they are ever happy. My best advice is not to waste your life on people, relatives or not, who do not treat you as you deserve to be treated. If they are not trustworthy, stop trusting them with information you do not want other's to be told. Find people to hang out with who are wothy of your loyalty and who value and respect you. Just because you are related to someone does not mean they are good enough for you and people who treat you the way these girls do are not worth your friendship. It is a big world and there are a lot of valuable individuals out there.
2007-05-20 14:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by IMTreble 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lol i love family drama!! Just picture your cousins as any other people like friends. If they were your friends normally people would go and talk to them about how they feel. Tell them how they are acting like such bitches(but don't say that....lol) and try to find out why. Who knows they could hate u. Talk to them and it will all be alright. If that doesn't work try talking to their mom. Even though your mom doesn't believe u their mom should.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-20 14:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your cousins are not cool if they treat you as they do. My advice to you is say nothing to your cousins/ Stay away from them as much as you can and pretend they don't exist people like them don't like being ignored . they will do anything as long as they can bother you in any way. so if you ignore them they might just try to be nice to you just to get something out of you. when they do be very cautious with what you say and do with them
2007-05-20 14:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it is that they do not seem to realise that blood is thicker than water you must try and get them to understand that the family around them is all they got once that's gone they are on there own i mean i should know Ive lost 2 members of my family know and i miss them really bad so you show them what family means cause if you don't you are going to loose them one day cause it may cause an arguement and before you know it there out of your life so resolve your differences and live in happiness good luck
2007-05-20 23:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront your cousins, Rosa.
Say this to them: "I like hanging out with you, but I can't trust you. What you say to other people about me causes me problems. I could get you into trouble, too, but I don't, because I'm a trustworthy person. Will you ever change?"
(They will change when they're older, at least, Rosa!)
2007-05-20 14:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by rage707_666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, as the saying goes.... "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" turn it round and do the same back....it does not sound like they are cool to be around, they sound like a bunch of two faced trouble makers who love to stirr the sh*t, and i think they enjoy doing it, so do it back to them....family are meant to stick together, not dump on their own flesh and blood...i wouldn't trust them as far as i could throw them.....plus.....find something that will really get them into alot of trouble and sit back and watch, then they will know exactly how you feel when one of her own does the sly on you, in future, NEVER tell them anything else, ALWAYS keep it to yourself because the more you do, the more they are gonna sneak on you....they sounds like a bunch of immature little kids who just cant keep her gobs shut....so remember this...a mistake made is lesson learned....keep quiet, and don't give them any reason to crap on you, and as for your mother, shame on her, she should believe you instead of them...looks like they are turning her against you...nip it in the bud before it gets worse, and never trust your so called cousins again, one day they will grow up
2007-05-20 20:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit telling them stuff. I dont get why you think they are cool to be around when they are little baby tattletalers. If they treated me that way I wouldnt hang around them at all.
2007-05-20 14:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters you not learning your lessons well are you! DON'T TELL THEM ANYTHING! God, if someone did that to me once, that would be it! Not everyones as nice as you and you need to remember that. I don't care how cooool they are, they ain't nice people. Sounds like their jealous of you, so don't spend too much time with them. Find yourself some news friends.
2007-05-20 19:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by trackie1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just don't tell them anything, and if they tell you something, dont tell anyone either. but if you tell them one more time, and they tell their mom, then start sayin **** bout them. but not in a second, that'd be just to obviouse. in a day or two say something so horrible, they'd get grounded for life!
2007-05-20 14:17:04 · answer #10 · answered by Sophia K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Rosa. With a name like that, I'm guessin that your cousins and you are hispanic. If stereotypes hold, you nor they can keep their yaps shut to save their lives. This behavior was learned from their moms who learned it from their moms. Quite frankly, the solution is obvious. SHUT THE HELL up. Stop talking to the Rican divas.
2007-05-20 14:15:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋