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My ex broke up with me 5 weeks ago, i love him so much and i have been fighting to get him back but nothing i did worked.. We were together for a year, i thought he was the one.. Now he has a girlfriend, she lives about 8 hours away from here and is apparently moving up here :'( i feel so alone, like i have no one, i thought he loved me, how can he move on so fast?? How do I get over this?? :'(

2007-05-20 13:48:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

30 answers

Time will help. I've broken up with guys I thought I was going to marry. 4 to be exact. It just happens. I know how much it sucks. But on the bright side, someone better is just around the corner. Everytime I've broken up with a guy I thought I was going to marry, the next guy I date is SO much better in every way!
Just drown yourself in activities that you enjoy and surround yourself with friends! Force yourself to get out or you will sit around feeling awful for much longer.

2007-05-20 13:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by feenixsunshine 3 · 0 0

i am sorry to hear that
but back to ur thing
you broke up five weeks ago
and he already has a girl friend
and she is moving up where he is
it sounds way too soon
or oh wait
it was planned
i guess he had her before u two break up
he sounds like a real ahole
i know how it feels
but come one
u shouldnt have feelings for such a person
who abandoned u like that
and now he ran to some one else's lap
and u will keep eating ur self all over it
he doesnt deserve it
move on and get over it
its not the end of the world
u will find some one who will sweep u off ur feets
dont feel bad
really its not the end of the world
how many had experienced what u r having now
countless
so dont worry
chill out
go out
try to have fun
dont stay alone for long times
wish u will get over it soon
wish u the best ever :)

2007-05-20 14:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by alexandre 3 · 0 0

1 question at a time:
1. How can he move on so fast?
Well welcome to the world of deceit. Sadly men move on quicker than women. While in relationships we get emotionally attached, they are simply just attached. This means that they can easily unattach themselves with a new piece of ass. I know it hurts, but that's what he's done. Also looking at the situation he may have been cheating and contemplating this entire thing. I'd like to hope not, but it does look that way
The part about him loving you, well remember this there is always someone who we love more than the person we are with and that is ourselves. Men cheat because of this obsession with themselves. He loves himself more than you, bottom line.
2. If you want to get over him, first you have to stop trying to get him back. Acceptance is key. Accept the fact that he is gone and won't be coming back. Then you need time to heal. Healing may include grieving, crying, throwing out old things, etc. Then you need a support system. Get with a few friends and fam who support you and hang out with them. don't be afraid to meet new men but remember that a new man isn't always the answer. Lastly consider your worth. You are a woman and you should be treated as such. You know you deserve better so allow better to come. Pray and pray some more. This will hurt, but in time everything will be okay. Sometimes we can't see the sun in the flood, but baby girl...it'll come. It always has!!!

2007-05-20 13:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Being in love is a hard thing to get over..I was with this guy for almost two years so I know exactly how you feel.... So here's what I did..You just stop stressing and you let time heal your wounds..Its not the end of the world and it never will be..You wil hurt for a while but you must realize that at this point he has moved on and the best thing for you to do is do the same..No man is worth your tears....And the one who is wont make you cry..Just keep your head up and I promise you that one day you'll look at this and laugh....In the end it's only going to make you stronger

2007-05-20 13:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by T.N.M. 1 · 0 0

Most of the time you only want the person because they don't want you.....so try this make a list of everything that annoys you about him....that you disagree with....that irriates you or makes you mad....that he doesn't that he shouldn't do to you or say to you and soon you will find you have a really long list...now make a list of the things you "love" about him and I'm not talking about his looks! I mean like he loves children so forth....you will most likely find the bad list is much longer now take that and read it over and over again...and make sure you put on the good list only the things that are true not the stuff you have romanctized in your head and created and wanted him to be....

By the way when you say you thought he was the one...you meant you pictures him as the one. When the one comes along you will know I mean really know without a shadow of a doubt.

2007-05-20 13:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sweetie don't worry about him. I know this will be hard, but you have got to move on. It will take some time. I am a perfect example. I was with a guy that I loved so much, and we were together for a year and even began to talk about marriage. Then out of the blue he broke up with me. 5 months later I found out that he cheated on me a month before we broke up...and the girl was pregnant. I became bitter, but I told myself that he wasn't worth my happiness, and that I needed to move on...like you should do. I'm sure you have a beautiful soul, so love will find you!

2007-05-20 14:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You've been having this problem for such a long time. It' is time for you to get over this and move on with life.

I've explained to you previously that when it's time to let go, you let go and do not make yourself look as if you are desperate.

He's about to have his girlfriend around and if you continue like this then you will have a worse problem on your hands.

I know how it hurts to be rejected by someone you seriously love but you have to be the better woman and walk away with your head held high, instead of it hanging low.

2007-05-22 07:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0 0

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2017-01-10 11:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by petrovich 4 · 0 0

First of all I feel really bad 4 u, u must be going through alot, I cant stop thinking about this girl even though I dont even know if she likes me,
The only way is finding someone else, stay with your gff's for a while to calm yourself down, work on repairing your self esteem

2007-05-20 13:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dhoopy 3 · 0 0

Well, before you do anything rash or hurtful to yourself, remember this: YOU DIDN'T DESERVE HIM. You deserve better than him.

What I do: I crack open a Dr Pepper, crank up some Christian rock, and put the girl out of my mind. Sometimes I engross myself in a good movie with a lot of plot (Forrest Gump or the Princess Bride) or some completely stupid movie (Monty Python or Airplane) and just laugh her away. Other times I engross myself in a book - be it reading or writing. Sometimes writing songs about hope or faith (Christian songs generally) helps me.

Try some of these tips... they work for me, so maybe they'll work for you.

Email me if you need anything.

2007-05-20 13:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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