He told me he loves me last night but its only been a week! I didn't say anything back and I know it kind of hurt him. Please help!!!
2007-05-20 10:13:18 · 22 answers · asked by emluvsmatt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One week is awfully fast to fall in love with someone. From your reaction it seems you don't love him back which is quite understanding. The last thing you want to do is lead him on in the wrong direction. I would let it pass and see if he says it again. If he does then you need to talk with him and tell him that you really LIKE him and want to get to know him better but want to take your time and not rush into anything to help establish a solid relationship.
Unless of course you don't like him then turn and run away screaming. JK. Good luck.
2007-05-20 10:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? If you don't just be honest with him and say you feel that it is too soon, but eventually after you get to know him better you're sure you'll feel the same way, just ask him to give you time. Just because you don't say it back doesn't mean you don't have feelings.
2007-05-20 17:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you really feel. If you like him back, tell him that. Take it a step at a time. You don't want to rush into something you can't handle, you also don't want to lose something you might end up truly loving. So take it slow.
2007-05-20 17:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by DarkeSword2020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't mean it, then don't say it back. Tell him you're glad to hear that and look forward to so much more in your relationship, but you think it's too soon for you to fall in love.
2007-05-20 17:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm sorry about the other night, I just didn't know what to say. The thing is, I really like you. But I don't want to rush into things so quickly. I don't want to use the "l" word when I don't mean it. Therefore, I just really like you. *smile*"
2007-05-20 17:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-20 17:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Suspend-O-Matic 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well if u feel the same way then by all means tell him back!!! and if u don't then just tell him that u are not ready....if he really loves u then he would understand.
2007-05-20 17:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him back
2007-05-20 17:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he brings it up say how you feel tell him you dont know what love is and if this is it and if it is you probably wouldnt know within a week
2007-05-20 17:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by coachxovuitton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him tell him back!
If you don't tell him that or tell him it's too soon! But don't tell him you do if you don't mean it.
2007-05-20 17:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by sam79241 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋