Me and my wife seperated on Febuary 2 2007. We got into an argument and I told her either I would leave or she should. So she left with the kids. She has tried numerous times to get back with me but I wouldnt have it. I finally had a change of heart and now she says she is happy on her own. I asked her if she was 100% positive if she wanted to divorce and she said (I think we need to make this permenent.) Thats all she says. And she is stickin to her guns about not coming back. Should I keep up hope or just give up? All this was caused by her cheating wich led to me cheating. And neither one of us can get over the pain of the cheating. But I am willing to get help. I am not bothered by what she has done in the past. I have forgiven her and those other men and myself. I just need to know what to do.
2007-05-20 10:53:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should probably try talking to her, you both cheated and she first started it. You have children involved too so unless there is some other deeper reason behind your separation you should try working it out. Plead for her to listen to you and ask her if there is anything you can do to make the situation better.
2007-05-20 10:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by sagin123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give up and move on, when something is broken is better to replaced it then fix it.
2007-05-20 11:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on learn from your past mistakes.
2007-05-20 10:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't change the way she feels now so if she said to make it permant then that's what you guys need to do.
2007-05-20 10:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get divorced
she has found someone else i'm sure
move on
she has
2007-05-20 10:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋