together from their two separate ones?
I've witnessed dozens of Catholic weddings and when we were preparing to marry, our priest told our group that it was not permitted because it had nothing to do with any church custom, it actually came from when Luke & Laura were married on General Hospital.
Is this true?!!!
I mean, I'm sure the priest would know what is and isn't allowed as part of a wedding ceremony, but then, why have I seen it in so many other churches?
2007-05-20 10:14:21 · 6 answers · asked by mamabunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That's what the priest told us too. I think it's just become a custom more than anything else.
2007-05-20 10:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have also found that it's not anything religious. It is just to show the two couple's lives joining as one and has become one of those popular traditions like the father/daughter dance or believe it or not, wedding cakes. It used to be guests would just bring a pastry and if the couple could kiss over the pile their marriage would prosper.
I think it has beautiful symbolism though and will be doing the sand version. Since they will not let you do it in the church you can always do it at your reception. Perhaps get introduced, say thanks for coming, do the candles and get the party started! Just have someone take them away and blow them out so you don't literally have the roof on fire o.0
2007-05-20 18:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised to hear that they will not include that. Out of the weddings I've heard (and the dozens of weddings you've seen) about I've never heard someone denying an addition to the ceremony, especially since its something you want.
Is there a way you could find someone who WILL accommodate you? This priest certainly isn't.
2007-05-20 18:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've just heard recently from the priest for who I am secretary for that this Unity Candle thing originated with the Hallmark Card Company. It doesn't have religious significance in origination, therefore, it is superfluous.
It is, however, a touching gesture, which is probably why it has been allowed so often. It appeals to us emotionally and is rather tender.
2007-05-20 17:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Unity Candle has nothing to do with any belief of the Christian Church nor does it appear in the marriage liturgy of the Roman Catholic, Lutheran or Episcopal churches.
2007-05-20 22:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by N T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its something people choose to do and shows that there flames join as one. my friend got married and they poured sand together to make one thing they have on there entertainment center.
2007-05-20 17:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by Nessaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋