I am a girl and i have a lot of girlfriends who are married but dont live with their husbands and they cheat on them all the time. I have a girlfriend whos boyfriend makes love to other men and she is okay with this. i also know have friends who are swingers and they all hang out. i have another girlfriend who lives with her ex husband and she is a swinger and he doenst love her. This stuff to me is kind of new to me is this normal
2007-05-20 09:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can't go by what other people do (or say they are doing), you have to choose your own path and do what is "normal" and right for you. But no,in general I'd have to say that what you've described is not a very common thing.
2007-05-20 09:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Useless Knowledge 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
o my word how can people be such idiots. you really need to get away from that sircle and get some real friends. cause they are not real friends at all, cause friends would respect others relationships and they defnitly not. the sooner the better for you to get away there cause with standards like that you are degrading yourself and won't ever have any trust of respect in any relationship and can't see any of that for you in the future if you stay being friends with them. friends can play a big roll in your life and you are going to be very lonely, sad and no selfrespect later in life if you don't act now and make a move away from them.
2007-05-20 10:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by zenè 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe i am old fashioned, but i have never looked at another man since the day i met my husband and i can say with some confidence that i believe it is the same for him. i am aware that people are far more lax now, but that kind of thing generally leads to tears
2007-05-23 03:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by fat momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm now a days nothing surprises me but can't say I've met any people like this. When I took my marriage vows I meant them and my friends are the same!
2007-05-20 09:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by ???? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are people whose values allow them to live this life style but it is not the norm. Most people are happier with a partner commited to the relationship. People looking for causual sex will reap what they sow and that is not true fulfillment it is immediate gratification.
2007-05-20 09:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Ken K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh hell no this is not normal! I suggest you find some new friends that have some morals and take their marriage vows seriously. Marraige is supposed to be sacred. Not the mockery that your friends are making it out to be.
2007-05-20 09:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hell no! It isn't normal, where did you meet these people?Do you live nearby a brothel or swinging club or what?
2007-05-20 09:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get some real friends, this is not normal
2007-05-20 09:34:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isnt normal
How weird
2007-05-20 09:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope, thats NOT normal
get new friends!
2007-05-20 09:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋