IF a guy "fakes" getting off, why would he? Please serious answers - i have questioned regarding other things relating to this but still are unanswered .... that area in my life with husband was NEVER a problem until he used coke a few times and now it's not the same. I'm not positive he still uses but sexually it seems like it. Please guys help out in this issue??
details.... husband used cocaine, i found out because of the sexually problem and other signs of course, he suppose to have not done coke since january and other than him not being interested in me(although he says he very much is), or when we do he sometimes goes limp, and i can tell if he has ejaculated or not. I have been with him almost 20yrs, we have 3 teenagers and i think know the difference. Other than this sex issue, he has NOT one other sign of continued use. Could the coke have messed up the ability for the blood to circulate correctly or what? I took mant sociology class
2007-05-20 09:32:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kiera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can fake it, just to stop my wife from asking me to come and because I was having a hard time climaxing.
As to damage from cocaine, anything is possible.
2007-05-20 09:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes, they can fake as well as the next person, but obviously they can't fake an ejaculation, so I guess you'd know either way.
How long did he use for? I doubt it has anything at all to do with blood circulation. I know men can have trouble getting an erection for a few days after they have used, but it wouldn't affect the blood circulation and certainly not months after.
Are you sure he's not still using?
2007-05-20 09:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if COKE can cause all of that... I bet he isn't happy in bed and thats the real problem. He probably used Coke to stimulate the same part of the brain sex stimulates. Sex wasn't cutting it so he is trying to get to his happy place another way.
In my experience, if a guy looses interest in his wife to the point that he doesn't get a woody, he probably never will be interested in her again.
2007-05-20 11:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys can fake it. Why? Well sometimes we're just tired or maybe we're all out of semen.
I doubt coke has anything to do with him faking.
2007-05-20 13:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I find it hard to find it true, but I guess maybe they could. They ,as someone else mentioned, can't fake ejaculation. I guess if he isn't fully erect and knows it won't happen, then I guess he could.
2007-05-20 09:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by 3000gthottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he cannot fake
no ejaculation
no orgasm
women can fake it
men can't
he can plateau.. but eventually even then some precome does come out
2007-05-20 10:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋