like what?
2007-05-20 09:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes... drugs / alcohol / wild sex...
2007-05-20 09:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by yyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did this happen to you? Anyways,
Well that hasn't happened to me, sorta, but anyways there are many people who get in this kind of sintuation, like sex or drugs or cigarretes.. *shivers*
Remember, think of how the people look like. Do they look cool or do they look like some kind of drunk person or some idiot that has his life all screwed! It isn't cool, it just makes you look dumb!
But if this is happening to you, don't feel pressured. If you are really uncomfortable about it, don't do it. It may make your friends (or your relationship with the person) tear you apart no matter what the thing is. Just remember, that if they are doing it, they are messing up their own lives and you do not. If you already went through whatever pressure it was then remember the position you were in. how awkward it was and how uncomfortable you felt. Remember it well. It could help you to remember you do not want to get in this kind of sintuation ever again until you actually think you are ready (if it is sex im saying) If like cigarretes or drugs, remember your health and what it could do to you!
Good luck!
2007-05-20 09:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by FallenFootsteps22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because no matter what you do, you'll fit in with some group, and that's the group you'll end up liking and being true friends with. If your friends can't accept who you are, they're not your friends.
The only time I was ever pressured to do something was to shave my legs...yes, I *know* it sounds silly now to even consider not shaving...but does shaving even make sense to anyone? I mean, what's the point of cutting off strips of body hair? *shrugs* I ended up shaving once...and after that, well, unless you want to look like a bush, you can't quit shaving. ^^
2007-05-20 09:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Brommy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have before. There are occasions when I drank that I would have preferred not to. I also am a sucker for dares....if something is slightly risky and they say 'Katie wouldn't do it'....I just HAVE to prove them wrong, although I don't know if that counts as fitting in....
But I have never done something to fit in that I would never want to do (ie drugs and smoking)
2007-05-20 09:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by ilovedurango 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When I was 9 I went walking with some of my friends they handed me a can of beer told me to drink it or they would beat me up so I did. I got drunk of my @$$. I'm now 15 I still drink and I regret doing that. How bout' you?
2007-05-20 09:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people will get into drugs and stuff just to fit in. i haven't, but you can get hooked, and it will NOT be worth it in the end. don't do whatever it is just to fit in, be yourself and if the people don't like you, then you don't want to be their friends anyway. GL
2007-05-20 09:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but my friend did like sunk out of the house
2007-05-20 09:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by katdie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never
i prefer being MYSELF
2007-05-20 09:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋