can a girl be bad at sex?
how, and what could make it better
2007-05-20 09:26:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had the same boyfriend for 3 years, he was my first, i never enjoyed the sex that much (never..unno from it) and i was wondering if this was because of me or him...i wan't just laying there, i tried lots of stuff with him, and tried to get into it.
2007-05-20 09:31:27 · update #1
Read some books, watch some movies.........you will or he will improve with time. It's the chemistry between the two of you, maybe he's not the one. That doesn't mean that you're boring in bed, it could be him, not doing the right things to turn you on. Like I said, watch some movies:-)
2007-05-20 10:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is true as there is men that are bad in having sex their must be girls bad as well. And that is nothing to be ashame of from both part all you have to do is practice cause perfect practice makes perfection.
And if it happens so much during when you are intimates what you could do is try to pleasure you man in different ways or talk to someone professional about what is going on they will subjects different things for you to try or learn to make it better so good luck
2007-05-20 09:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex is a reflection of your relationship with him.....normaly if the relationship is good the sex is great unless there is a phisical problem......I suggest to work on a relationship rather than on intercourse......you need to read i know few books that are excellent
1. Creating harmonious Relationships by Andrew Lecompte
2. Making love all the time by Barbara Deangelos
3. The lost art of listning by Michael Nichols
2007-05-20 09:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Shaq2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one is born good at sex. Like everything else it gets better with practice. And as with all team activities it requires all involved are communicating. Its hard to relax during sex when you are unsure if you are doing something wrong. And if you are not relaxed during sex you won't enjoy it. Don't get hung up on being "good" at it. Think of it as a sport and just play to have fun. Thats the best way to get good at it.
2007-05-20 09:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by New Dog Owner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i suppose a girl cud b quite pathetic if she jus lies ther like a sack o spuds!! be adventurous, kinky even romantic! furry handcuffs, leather whips, sexy underwear and sum body chocolate can really spice things up!! If ur not in2 that kinda thing then jus try an put urself in a few different positions until u find the 1 that u notice turns ur partner wild! then improve on it with sum flicks of the hair and moans! Thing like that make ur man feel so thankful he's with u!! GUD LUK. p.s dont b tryin 2 hard coz it mite make ur man think ur on sum sorta medication!! and dont go in2 any awkward positions that u cant get out of! For example ur leg hooked round ur neck!! ouchh!!
2007-05-20 09:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a woman can be bad at sex.
If they don't move, make no noise that will turn a guy off.
Men like to know that the woman is enjoying herself.
Try having some fun in bed. Laugh (if something is funny, not at HIM)
Try being on top. You control the movement, he gets a good look at you and it could feel better for you.
2007-05-20 09:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one is born knowing how to do all this stuff. If you are the "girl", read. Have a talk with your gyno or an adult female relative. If you are a guy, and think you are more experienced at the game, teach her. My husband taught me. I was a virgin when we got married. Yep, the last virgin of the 70's! I didn't know ANYTHING! He was patient and caring...as I got older, I began to read and ask questions on my own. I learned a few things that even he didn't know:-)
2007-05-20 09:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by janice 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes a girl can be bad at it
a lot depends on their emotinalk status and what they think of it
if they act prudish, sex is going to suck ( no pun intended )
but like other said , how good is the guy
is he a good lover or a wham bam thank you mam ?
what reading have you done on sex, and he?
good sexual partners are educated in the manner not just bragging and think they did good for the other
2007-05-20 09:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a girl can be bad at sex. yes i'm a girl and saying it. let her know what you like and show her what she should do. when a girl is bad at sex is when she just lays there and does nothing. maybe she's not sure what to do and needs you to communicate to her what you like to help make her better.
2007-05-20 09:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a girl can be bad when she do not have experince.or if the guy is to fast and stret forwd,with no forplay.then she will want him out as quilly as possible
2007-05-20 10:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by elinaida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋