i have a boyfreind for almost 8 years....he had a job before but he quit to apply abroad..unfortunately, he didnt make it until now...until i was able to find a job and currently work abroad..stil he dont have any job..he stayed in their house for two years doing nothing and finally he said he is applying now and willing to take any job???but why he doesnt have any job until now?is he really giving his best?what should i do?ive been working abroad for almost 3 yrs but stil his in our country.we even cancelled our engagement....does he really have a plan for us?does he really care for me and love me?
2007-05-20 04:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by longing4truhappiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may want to be asking yourself this question instead of trying to understand his level of love and commitment.
Given what he has shown you thus far, are you willing to live with this type of behavior (unemployment, mooching, no follow through) for the rest of your life?
If your answer is no, as much as it may hurt, you may want to consider moving on. Having experienced something similar with my first husband, I suggest you get out of this relationship now.
- Cam
2007-05-20 04:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but you are not his top priority. No he doesn't have a plan and isn't interesting in a future with you. No guy would wait two years, that is absurd. Chances are he is in love with someone else, or at least was involved with someone during those two years. Any guy who was in "love" with you, would have been with you. They would have figured out a way.
2007-05-20 04:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
run hide do what ever you have to to get away from him. he is a lase man the worst kind of man to have,he will keep a job just long enough to make you think that he is doing something. and when you are confident that he may be doing something to better each other he will stop dead in his tracks and go back to being lase.
2007-05-20 04:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a man prepares for his wife's future. a man who really loves and cares for a woman to be his wife plans it all out. It may be hard up at this time . . . but relax things will get better
2007-05-27 20:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste any more time on this fellow. He is not the type for a woman.
2007-05-28 04:19:29 · answer #5 · answered by Franked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be possible.for say 70% yes
2007-05-28 03:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by azu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next. Move on. God Bless.
2007-05-28 00:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, no one can tell...you can ask him..maybe he's too lazy to get up early to look for a job..or no company's accepting him..or,he's too picky..
2007-05-20 04:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
x
2007-05-27 16:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybee
2007-05-28 02:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mark S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋