I have a boyfriend and we're like havin a long distance relationship. But the thing is, his life is much more better if he stay near his family and friends in terms of lotsa things (but he'll be movin far2 from me). Should I let him go or not? He's givin me the oppurtunity to choose. And I'm kinda wanted to let him move for his own good sake but I'm gonna really miss him and it's gonna be hard for me to meet him anymore. What should I do? Can u guyz plz help me. Thanks.
2007-05-20 02:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by aim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him so much and so do him. 3 yrs relationship man. the longest i've ever had.
2007-05-20 03:04:15 · update #1
If letting him go is best for him, and you love him the way you say you do; let him go. If you two love each other you will find a way to work around the long distance and still be happy with each other. Never let mileage get in the way of a serious relationship. Again, if your feelings for each other are strong enough you will find a way to be with him, even if that means making a few long distance calls through-out the week. I hope everything works out for the better.
2007-05-20 03:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way i see it, Is you have three choices. #1. Marry him and go with him. #2. Stay single and let him go out of your life.
#3.Move to the nearest city that was equal distance between them,And visit them when you can, And have them visit us as well. ( The option my wife and i took. ) You have been together for 3 years, Is he the man you want to be with for the rest of your life?Have you talked about having a family together? What is it that you want out of relationship? You need to ask yourself these questions , You of all people know how you feel about him in your heart. Yes there is always a fear about uprooting your self and changing your life. But if you really love him and you think he is worth it, Marry him and go with him. if not...Your on your own again.. I wish you the best of luck..
2007-05-20 10:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you have a hard decision to choose. You have to ask your self how much do you love him. You have to ask your self if it could work (a long distance relationship).
Babe you have a hard decision, but I hope you make the right one that you are good with. If you do let him go, remember there are plenty more guys out there and you'll be fine.
2007-05-20 10:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing is happening with my husband and I. His family/friends and my family/friends live 4 and a half hours away from eachother. It gets hard staying with my family, because he misses his. But if we stay with his family, I miss mine. It gets tough, but you guys just have to talk about where better opportunity's are at. Pick a place, and then visit the other every month or so. If it's meant to be, it will be - give it time, and talk to him patiently. Good luck. =]
2007-05-20 10:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by jesa ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u noe wht izzit technology? today we call it mobile phone, internet, and yahoo messenger. u can simply talk to him via these stuff. if u miss him..ask himto use webcam everytime u chatting. nowadays everything become easy my dear. the only thing is u can take it onot? can u sacrifice for ur love or not. it does nt realli matter. as long as both of u honest to each other. it will be fine! trust me
2007-05-20 10:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by sarra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we all know that the two types of dating that don't work out is internet dating (chatting and messaging, no visible or verbal contact) and long distant relationships. you should let him go and start seeing someone else. but keep in contact with him. maybe in the future you guys can pick up where you left off and try again.
2007-05-20 10:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by .xXx Sex Kitty xXx. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How serious is the relationship. if it's serious can you move to where he's at? Do you get along with his family and friends. Go for it. You only live once.
2007-05-20 10:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose for him because if something goes wrong then he will blame you. Instead, tell him that you will support any decision he made - put the responsibility back to him - HA!
2007-05-20 10:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, when all else fails remember this timeless quote by Richard Bach: "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
2007-05-20 10:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sara G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is the one that wants to move on. He wants you to be the fall guy.
2007-05-20 10:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋