my boyfriend (kinda fionce but thats another story) has this friend which is a female and i know theyre just friends but it bothers me! a friend of mine is also her friend and she's always tellin me how it seems like sometimes the girl is hinting that she likes my boyfriend! im really nervous and i get jealous whenever shes over his house "chillin" with him and his roommates. she doesnt like me and now i think its because shes mad that im with him and shes not.. i dont want to tell him he cant have friends that would seem really messed up.. but what CAN i tell him without making myself seem really controlling?
2007-05-20 03:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is an age old dilemna. The trusting souls are the ones to keep, ......unconditional love as it were. While the insecure souls are jealous and unhappy. Of course, it's natural to be jealous, its human instinct to be so. Like the lady said above, if he luvs you, then telling him will not matter. Myself, i like the truth.
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2017-01-10 10:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by ayachi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust him there shouldn't really be an issue. And if you're in a proper long-term thing, then I would recommend that you just tell him how you feel.
If he knows that you're a little concerned that she may have feelings for him and that it bothers you, hopefully he would have enough respect for you to make sure that even if he remains friends with her, he makes sure he's not inadvertently sending her any inappropriate signals.
Hope that helps!
2007-05-20 03:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might suggest that its inappropriate for her to be hanging out wiht him since its known that she would want to be his gf. Reverse the situation when you talk to him. Ask what he would say to YOU if you had a guy sniffing around who was making it clear that he wanted to get with you. If he really thinks about it, he might be able to see your side without feeling like you are controlling.
2007-05-20 03:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm wel has he done anything to give you any reason to believe this girl is anything other than his friend. If he hasn't then don't worry about it. Trust him. I know its hard as hell sometimes, but you'll just push him away if you keep bugging him for no reason.
2007-05-20 03:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol same thing kinda happened to me. I told my bf that this chick he was talking to was bothering me and ruining our relationship so he stopped talking to her. I think you should talk to your br he will understand if he truely loves you enough not to hurt you or make you feel like he'd rather spend time with her or whatever with his friends.
Good luck.
:D
2007-05-20 03:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, but be calm (almost laid back) when you tell him. If you tell him about it and you're stressed, that makes you less attractive and her more attractive. And this could spike his curiosity.
P.S. I like your avatar!
2007-05-20 03:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Beach Bum Wannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and don't listen to others. If he's still with you, then he's picked you. Be nice to her too>in the end she will be your friend too
2007-05-20 03:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by M. T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him! if he really loves u he will understand
2007-05-20 03:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋