My "friends" always make fun of me because of my race and call me gay (i'm not gay).
My parents think i'm spoiled and completely useless (I'm not spoiled. . . i cant even get a cheap guitar for my birthday) .
I have excellent grades (4.0) and my parents are EXTREMELY wealthy, but refuse to share their money with me.
I am a nobody but even though I'm nice and generous to everyone, i'm still unpopular.
Nobody truly loves me.
Do you think its time for me to end my life?
2007-05-20 07:10:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
by the way, my parents wont ever let me get my license, a job, or a car. they want to keep me as miserable as they possibly can.
2007-05-20 07:19:08 · update #1
this isn't just a bad day. my whole life has been a nightmare.
2007-05-20 07:20:26 · update #2
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2007-05-27 00:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by LRB330 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one thing we can be sure of is change, no matter how awful things are now, you will get older, you will leave home and you will find better ways to live. I speak from some experience and know that all the blackness at a time when you can't do anything to change it - will make you strong and determined to live the best life possible when you are in charge of it.
Please know that life has so very much to offer (I promise) and that when you are free to control your own - you will wonder how your family could have chosen the way they live their lives. You are unique and individual - no-one else can ever be like you and you need to make the most of that in every way you can.
I read an amazing quote once that made me think:
"The meaning of life is to find the question....to which YOU are the answer"
You are not here to live a short unhappy life - this is the start only and the next bit, will be sensational if you give it a chance. Just get through each day knowing that one day - the world is all yours to play in.
I truly wish you the brightest of futures.
Namaste,
Tina Louise
2007-05-28 04:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by tinalouise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday!
No this is not the end of your life. Have you seen 16 Candles? Well, maybe it's not the same but everyone goes through the same feelings that you have. Your parents want you to be a self-starter -- they're not being selfish, they're trying to teach you something. Maybe you have to turn your frown upside down and you will become more popular amongst your peers. Try examining all of the points that you raised, in a more positive light -- they're not all that bad or negative. You have a computer. That's better than many! You have friends! You have parents! You are smart! You (seemingly) are nice and generous! You must love yourself in order to be loved. Good luck and have a great birthday!!!
2007-05-20 07:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ending your life is not the way out. You don't know what awaits you on the other side of this life. There is an appointed time for everyone to die anyway, why not see what God has in store for you? God has a plan for your life, and you were placed here with a purpose. I don't know what your religious belief is, or if you even have one, but what I do know is today isn't forever and God loves you. Give God a chance to work in your life. If no one has ever introduced you to Jesus, I would be happy to if you're interested. Just leave me a message on my Yahoo 360 page, and while you are there feel free to look through my highlighted blogs, you may see something that interest you.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
2007-05-25 14:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by guts_spunk_moxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely not. Suicide is a long term solution for a short term problem. Believe me at times I have felt that it might better to end it all myself, but what things change, then you will never get to meet that special person... If you feel your friends aren't true friends move on and get new ones. Being popular only sounds great until your there, everybody has issues and the grass will always remain greener on the other side... As the saying goes: "When the going gets though, the though get going". Hey, Happy Birthday, may this year bring true friends, happiness and joy to your life. And if somebody is mean or bad to you, show them your better and be doubly nice to them, as what you give will come back to you in seven fold... Hope your day gets better!
2007-05-20 07:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As kids we sometimes think that are parents are the worst parents in th world. I'm sure they have a good reason for the way they are raising you. Nothing is worth ending your life. Seek help at school from a counselor. Keep up the great work at school.
Best Wishes
2007-05-28 05:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by My Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy I wish I knew you in person so that I can kick your rear end.
You listen and you listen very well on what I am going to tell you
But first of all I want to say Happy birthday Feliz cumple anos
Anyways getting to what I was going to say look here boo
you.
First of all you need to accept that sometimes life will be so hard for us to handle but gods sometimes puts us on hard task in life for a reason. You most probably don't realize it that way right now but down the line you will .Boo don't throw you life away you are young and you still have a lot to show everyone what you can do.
You seem like a very nice person don't do something that will destroyed your family and friends heart. You might not look at it that way but yes your parents loves you and regardless.
Don't throw love away from coming to your life don't you want to see yourself with a good looking girl and you working your *** off and you proving to everyone that you are successful so think about it. Thing could look at this moment black for you and not a way out but boy I want you to know that there is always a life and down the road you will see thee light and you will smile. Make me smile I know that you will be alright hold on boo life is not easy nor fair sometimes but we need to accept things and take it a day at a time.
And in regards of your friends you need to ditch them and find knew ones cause friends don't make you feel bad or call you names.
You don't deserve friends like that the hell with them. You could consider me as your friend so if you need someone to listen to you I am here. And about your parents if they make you mad guess what every parents makes their children in some point feel mad happy, emotional in all way possible. If it is strongly bothering you what I would tell you is talk to your parents.
And in regards of money goes what you should do is find a job so that you can get what you want so you don't have to depend on them.
So I wish you good luck
2007-05-20 07:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by mary o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need to call someone! 1st dont end your life (then whats next) Im sure that everthing will turn up for you. Everyone goes through crap like this, talk to your parents..... im sure they will tell you how much they love you. Get a job and buy your own guitar, you will enjoy it that much more knowing that you paid for it.
2007-05-20 08:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by vikespride2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! Please seek counseling. Tho you may think and feel that the whole world is against you, it's probably not so. Some days are merely worse than others. And today you are having a really lousy day. That's usually a good indication that tomorrow will be better!
2007-05-20 07:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so first of all pretend your sister isnt there, then when your parents tell you to do the dishes throw them on the the floor and brake them (this will take a lot of courage on your part) when they say clean it up pretend you cant hear them... also when your sister has a party put on a scary mask run down stairs and scare them (all of this will take courage) when they scream, you laugh when you get grounded ignore it and just go on to the computer or whatever you get grounded from. unless you start getting hit by your parents just keep ignoring them. also beat the bullies up or dont reply to them, they want to get a reaction. btw if they start hurting you (back to your parents) call the cops. they will kick your parents out and arrest them. now to the music... if you have a lock on your door lock the door and push something to keep it shut. then BLAST THE MUSICCCCCC!!!!!!!
2016-05-22 01:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋