My mom hit my 3 times in the last 2 days for very small reasons. I don't even know if she still loves me. Before she used to be kind. Now shes just... I donno how to say it...
I've tryed everything I could find. I'm desperate. Talking to her doesn't work, and I'm worried about her. I dont have any friends I can trust, and I'm losing it!
2007-05-20 07:51:16 · 34 answers · asked by Melina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and for all of you asking"what did I do to make her hit me", all I did what something like forgeting to put on sunsrceen,eating an unhealthy lunch,or waking up the baby.(yes, we have a baby"
2007-05-20 07:58:46 · update #1
Tell the counselor at school on Monday. Do not wait. If you cant wait that long, next time she hits you call the police. She will most likely stop if others know about it.
2007-05-20 07:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
does she drink?
does she take drugs that you know of?
is she stessed out bc of having to do it all with no help from anyone including a man [dad] around ? maybe try to help a little if this is the case. ask her if she is stressed out for some reason....from behind a closed door if you have to.
if none, some, or all of the above she is probably very stressed out in someway regardless and you need to call the police the next time she hits you. maybe the Police coming to the door will wake her up a little to the fact that she is abusing you. Calling the police does not mean you don't love her and she does not love you, it means you need to protect yourself and your mom.
One of the greatest forms of love is discipline, but not in the form of hitting. If you had a child you would want to discipline it so it would not get in trouble or do the wrong things , right? in other words you would ot let it just go and do anything it wanted to either as a baby, a small child or a teen and so on..therefore we are to discipline our children as God taught us in the Bible written over 2000 years ago.
2007-05-20 08:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child abuse is a very serious issue in the lives of many children. The best way to deal with problems like that are to confront another adult such as a trust worthy teacher, principle, doctor, or relative that you trust. There are many places you can call for support as well, such as the kids help phone. I am very sorry that you have to go through such a thing, and I hope that you can find help. Don't forget that you're not alone and there are many people in the world who can help you.
2007-05-20 07:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First try to find a family member....aunt, uncle, grandparant....who will listen. If you don't have any then try a school councilor. If school is out already that might not help. If you attend church talk to someone there.
Most cities have help hotlines set up or free counciling through the city health department. Try searching for these in phone books or online. You need to talk to someone who is trained to handle these types of situations.
She should not be hitting you for any reason. You are right to be worried about her, but you need to worry about yourself too. If it gets worse you may have no choice but to call child protective services to find someone to protect you.
2007-05-20 08:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by T_Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. You should definatly find someone to talk to about this. This can get really serious. I dont know too much about life at home with you. but if something happened that upset your mom a lot try talking it out. I know sometimes it doesnt work but try again.Start out by saying that you are really worried about her and you are starting to feel like youre losing her as a friend and mother. If nothing comes of this then you should talk to one of your relatives. Someone close to your mother. Maybe they can talk to her.
Good Luck.
2007-05-20 07:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom used to beat me when I was a teenager.
I'm sorry to hear you are going through the same thing. It's hard, especially when you know that you didn't do anything to deserve being abused.
I wish that I had help to get through it, but I didn't.
I did the best I can at the time.
And now, 10 years later, I forgave my mom and we are friends.
I wish I could pluck you out of your situation and give you a great big hug. But I can't.
I will pray for you and your mother and hope that your situation will work itself out in a positive way.
You are not to blame. Your mother has issues and takes it out on you.
I don't know you, but I love you and wish you the best of luck.
2007-05-20 07:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what you did and how hard she hit you. like if she slaped you on the back of the hand for something thats not that big of a deal, but if she's really beating the **** outa you for nothing i'd call dss or go to a friend or famiy members house until she calms down
2007-05-20 07:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by kill that fat lard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not excuse for being hit and please dont accept it. Even if you have to tell someone of authority. Meaning teacher, social worker etc. Your mom needs help and you are not her punching bag. Stop it before it goes any futher because its your future that is going to be screwed up because of someone else losing control. Take it from experience.
2007-05-20 07:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg gurl u need to tell somone! maybe another family member. how bout asking her why she is hitting her daughter that should never happen and if u think that ur in danger tell a school counselor or someone u should not have to live like this!
2007-05-20 07:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww its ok. my mom hits me too,
but , parents hit you because they love you.
if they didnt love you, they wouldent even talk to you, or feed you. at least you have a home and a bed to stay in and food in the fridge to eat.
just stay calm, and dont talk to her for a while. if shes hitting you more, and if its getting more severe, talk to someone, like the guidence councler at school. if you have a dad, try talkiing with him too. itll be fine.
2007-05-20 08:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_shexyy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋