notice, she is married and has 2 sons one of them older than me, but she seems to be loving me too but I don't know for sure,she is my teacher(my tutor) , and Im fascinated by her.she has pretty face like a child not like an old woman.
2007-05-20 07:34:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you have been overwhelmed by that feeling, but you will need to put it in perspective and make it good friendship, not romantic love. There will be another woman in your life who is not already married someday. Save those great feelings for the right time.
2007-05-20 07:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are a fool. Notice the facts- she is married, she has 2 children, and she is a professional (teacher.) If she is doing something to encourage this, she can get into serious trouble which will not only have an effect on her teaching status, but also on her life in general.
That is a HUGE age gap between you two, and you are just a young guy, perhaps feeling a bit confused at the moment, which is totally normal. Maybe you are just inspired by her knowledge or you like the attention and encouragement she gives you.
If it gets to the point where you think she could reciprocate the feelings, I would highly suggest switching tutors as it will be the best for you two in the long run.
2007-05-20 14:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG I cant believe you !! I know this woman DOESNT like a 16 yr old boy when shes 48 and is married and has kids !!! She is nice to you because she's your tutor and she has to be shes NOT in love with you!! So get over yourself and find someone YOUR age!!!!!
2007-05-20 14:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet_angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This woman is too old for you, not only that she is married with children. Stop this before it is too late. If she can't see this is wrong--you need to be the one that ends it. Maybe you need some support in this---as in see a guidance counselor or tell your parents.
2007-05-20 14:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by felix8462 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a crush is something we all get at all ages
but at your age it is wrong to act on it
it is also wrong if she acts on it
It will pass with time
Be good with yourself if you pass a line both of you can get in trouble and she could go to jail if this is a true feeling what is it going to hurt till you are a legal adult two years down the road take a lot of time think about this
If you are looking to have a family someday this could ruin your chance of it so please go slow and if you are still interested when you are an adult then persuit it
2007-05-20 14:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she crosses the line; she is nothing but a child molester. You're just 16 and don't know anything about love; true love anyway. You have lust; not love. You're a fool to love someone who might be willing to cross that fine line that she should never cross. All I'm going to say is if she cross that line then is nothing but someone who needs to be in jail.
2007-05-20 14:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by deniseywalker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hun, it's illegal to have a relationship with your teacher, and she could lose her job over this. Think about the family she has told you about. She may be willing to take the risk, but how will they manage if she has no job? You have to end whatever is happening between you, it's better for both of you.
2007-05-20 14:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi! I was like that too at your age, I wanted my teacher so bad too but never had the nerve to ask? I say do it I lost the chance and it is haunting me ever since, I want to know now what I could of had then, do it you wont regret it like I did.
2007-05-20 14:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by mike o 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are crazy. When your 30 your gona wake up and think "Crap im stuck with a 62 year old"
2007-05-20 14:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is a bit too old for you! have you thought that it might be just one of those crushes students have on teachers? Give it a thought.
2007-05-20 14:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by mona 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋