my friends ally and josh are like deserting me because they think i am 'flirting too much with too many guys' when really i'm just being friends with one guy, half flirting with two!!! i really aint flirting that much!!! they are both taken and i dont know i guess they dont want to see me getting to flirt... how do i keep being me and have my friends at the same time???
2007-05-20 08:00:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, tell your friends you appriciate their input but you are completely aware of what you are doing. What makes flirting a bad thing? I mean if the guys you are flirting with have g/f's then maybe you should calm it down a notch. At the end of the day you have to be able to accept what you do. If you have fully examined your situation and think you are acting reasonable, then just do you. Tell them you want their support in being yourself. Explain to them that you value their friendship but you are not going to change yourself to be friends. Tell them you flirt b/c you are single...maybe they will understand once they are sngle too! =)
2007-05-20 08:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fallon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends is the same way you are. We all think she's flirting too much but thats just her nature. If you want to keep your friends, limit the time your around those guys and spend the time you have with your true friends. Try and make time to be with those other guys and time you want to spend with your friends. And maybe Josh doesn't want to see you with those guys because he wants you for more than just a friend.
2007-05-20 08:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being objective about yourself, however your friends see the real you. They are not mad over nothing, they don't want to be friends with a flirt like you. Sorry to say but it's not up to you if they remain your friend, they get to make that choice.
You seem very immature and self-centered, maybe your friends are right about you...
2007-05-20 08:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When good friends give you advice like that, like "too much perfume" or "your skirt is too short" or "you're flirting too much" they're telling you the truth. You'd do best to listen to them. They have your best at heart.
2007-05-20 08:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like they are jelouse of you and besides its none of ther bissness who you flirt with next time they flirt tell them oh you flirt to much stop that looks bad .
2007-05-20 08:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friends are good friends they should except what you do and who you are. sometimes you have to let your friends go. and find some new ones. i know it is hard but sometimes you should just try
2007-05-20 08:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by ginnyjade11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's krazy, jealousy is a *****, u have to let Ur friends go sometimes, anyway that's what it sounds like to me straight up jealousy
2007-05-20 08:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by tereina H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself,sounds like they have personal problems.
2007-05-20 08:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by susan e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋