Family & Relationships - 18 May 2007

shes 18 and dont got a clue the party is tomorrow

2007-05-18 09:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by daughter of rock 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 09:42:08 · 5 answers · asked by enpingationnation 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together three years . I have three children from a previous marriage. We have a new baby also. We fight alot. He makes the same mistakes over and over. He is verbally abusive and controlling. He ignores me mostly except for when he wants something. He is disrespectful. It is either hot or cold with us. There isn't a warm area. I do love him and I know he loves me. He just doesn't show it well with me. He is great with his son and good with my other three children. I have long since given up and my emotions are just crazy. I don't feel the great love I had for him in the beginning anymore. I feel almost completely numb. I have had resentment and anger towards him and I even think that I was happier alone. He has changed a good bit since we first were together but he slips into destructive behavior and he doesn't care. He talks to his lady friend up north for his pick me ups, not me. He claims they are only friends. Thats a sticky situation. How do I make this work ?

2007-05-18 09:41:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'M NOT GETTING MARRIED IN A CHURCH AND I AM NOT SURE DOES THE DJ PLAY HERE COMES THE BRIDE OR DOES CLERGY?

2007-05-18 09:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by jenn p 3 in Weddings

If you wanted to find someone you havent talk to in awhile or want to search in other ways what is the best website for this?

2007-05-18 09:37:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all I am not whinning, really. I make about $400 per week. I pay bills with about $125 and live off the other $275 (well two of us do, my other half disabled, no income, working on getting SSI). My home needs a hot water heater (we have facilities in our complex), the A/C repaired (we're hot) and a stove (we use a port-a-burner). I need to figure a way to earn additional income without putting my real job at risk. Not into MLMs at all. Haven't had luck with on-line auctions (used to do used designer and vintage clothes, got worse and worse) barely breaking even. Have been applying to work at home CSR type work, no word yet. Short of becoming a 'woman of the night' or getting another job (which I want to avoid, my main job needs open availablity). Anybody have any ideas? Better yet anybody have a success story from a simular frame of life?

2007-05-18 09:27:04 · 1 answers · asked by xillith 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

K so I just got this really weird gossip today. And it got me thinking. Obviously when you're a teenage boy you like teenage girls. How about when you're thirty? Do you still feel attracted to them? How about at forty? Or fifty? BE HONEST! I know I have felt attracted to 30 or 40 year old guys so do they feel attracted to teenage girls at that age? Like would a 40 year old dad think his 17 year old's friend is hot? Or would a thirty year old sports coach think some of his players are cute? Or would he just look at them like daughter's. Think they're pretty but never think of feeling attracted to them.

2007-05-18 09:26:05 · 31 answers · asked by mlissers 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend dosen't want me to get an abortion, he was actually crying about :( And he says its for a reason, because he used a condom and I used birth control (correctly). I just think I have bad luck, but he's trying to say I'm pregnant for some special reason and that I should keep the baby ?? I am still really confused, and I really don't know what to do :( I really don't want it, I can't have a baby it will destroy my life !!!

*And for all you pro-life people, calling me names and cursing at me is really not going to help

2007-05-18 09:25:09 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and my aunts and uncles are fighting over inheritance and stuff that happened years ago. The three of them of the four get along good but my mom is sueing them over dumb issues and instigating things. I love my aunts uncles and cousins and want to continue a relationship with them and I don't see why not becasue they are nice to me too. They are acting mature about it all. My uncle invited me to his wedding and my mom got wind of it and is trying to guilt me out of going. Shouldn't that be her dispute with them and I should not be a part of it? I am 29. My Aunts and Uncles treat me like an adult and keep me out of it, mom does not. What should I do?

2007-05-18 09:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Family

2007-05-18 09:20:16 · 14 answers · asked by nicegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a few months ago while she was in a relationship to her boyfriend of 3 years. As she says,” her first real boyfriend”. Anyway, we instantly clicked, and we could tell it was something special. Her relationship with her boyfriend was on the rocks, so I played it cool. We started to get closer, but then I found out that she had broken up with her boyfriend, and that she was absolutely devastated! She didn’t talk to me for 3 weeks, then she started to open up about him and their downfall and we started hooking up, and spending a lot of time together. I really like this girl, and I know she has feelings for me too, but the other day, I found out that she had gotten really upset, because she found out her ex-boyfriend had starting dating someone right after they broke up. I found out that she was crying hard. My question is: Is she’s still in love with this guy? When will she be ready to be with me? How should I play it? She’s says she cares about me, and thinks about me?

2007-05-18 09:18:08 · 18 answers · asked by Primo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he says their just friends and I believe him! I trust him, but her I don't she always seems to "just" be there he does'nt notice ..maybe I am overly self-conscious I don't know, but lots of people tell me I have nothing to worry about, I have more looks, and personality in my pinky finger then she has in her whole body, but I just don't know, I've been done wrong in the past, and just any advice I could get to help me quit worrying so much and being overly protective would definetly help, my bf thinks it's cute that I love him so much and worry, but he says I have nothing to worry about HE LOVES me and says that is not gonna change because of someone else...Plzzz any advice to help me out would be appreciated! THANKS

2007-05-18 09:14:30 · 25 answers · asked by Pamela Michele 2 in Singles & Dating

Forget about the cookie-cutter "Perfect Wedding", who on here did something unique and interesting?
For my wedding, my husband and I wore all black, I made my own black veil to ge with the gown, and we got married at the reverends house on a dark, icy evening last January. It was so lovely and I would not have it any other way. If you want to see one of the pics, just go to my 360 page.

2007-05-18 09:11:05 · 15 answers · asked by Amber 5 in Weddings

Yo. Anyone have a lot of difficulty making friends in tri-cities that are from elsewhere? Do not judge.

2007-05-18 09:04:03 · 3 answers · asked by Superman 1 in Friends

Well, you see, I have a crush on this wicked cute guy and I know that he likes me back (I've got enough proof!!!) but I'm way to scared to ask him out and it seems that he is feeling thesame, and he won't ask me either, so I need some advice! Just read the quetion! It's kind of obvious!!
Anyway, yeah, can you help me out here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-18 09:02:09 · 36 answers · asked by ashied404 2 in Singles & Dating

well ours was a love *** arranged marriage and we both hail from North India

2007-05-18 08:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or parents?

What makes them so great?

My mom was hardly around when I was growing up and was always taking all of the money and blowing it on drugs. Therefore, my dad had to raise me on his own and he could honestly make miracles happen. I ALWAYS had everything I needed and even when he could afford it, NOTHING I wanted!!! He taught me how to be responsible and grateful for the things I have. Taught me to be independent. He made me go to school and the day that I graduated college, I told him that he earned that degree just as much as I did. I love my dad!

Does anyone else have an awesome parent that deserves some credit???

2007-05-18 08:57:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know he would not do his first love, Vanya, this way, but I need him soo much, and I do love him, what do I do ? What is going thru his mind ? He has already dumped me but has asked me back........how do I leave him when I need him soo much ? I feel trapped. Is he a controller or what ? Will he dump me before I dump him ? You can read my other questions if you like ? We are nice to each other but deep down I wonder, does he truly love me if he disrespects me sexually ? Plus he knows I don't want to have sex but he is a master seducer and I don't have anywhere else to live.

2007-05-18 08:56:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like I said before, he wrote her that email that was detailed. They have two children together and they have to talk at least a little bit. He was open about his past and cries when he tells me that I am the only one he wants and loves me more than anything. He said that she bugged him about that email to get the details, but he says that he didn't write what the whole email said. She doesn't like me very much because I am nice to their children and they like me. He has microsoft outlook for his email and he can't check his mail because someone hacked into his account. I want to trust him so bad, but I know how it has always been for me, getting hurt. I don't want to look like a fool. He hasn't changed his story one bit, and keeps on saying that he is not lying and that he only wants me and doesn't have any feelings for her anymore. We have only been married for two weeks, but have been together for over a year. I am so upset! What do I do?

2007-05-18 08:53:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 33 and have been divorced for 6 years. I haven't had any serious relationships since my marriage. When on one or two dates years ago, but nothing serious. I had a tough divorce that came to me completely out of the blue. My ex-wife got pregnant by her then secret boyfriend.

I have two kids that I am raising with my ex. daughter 12 and son 11. I am always busy at work (50 hours a week and spend all my time off with my kids.

Between my work and kids, I really don't have time for anything else right now. I am the kind of person that can get really involved in a relationship easily, but I don't want to risk myself financially or emotionally until my kids are off into college.

I have also decided that I no longer want anymore children. I love my kids, but I want to move on with my life when they grow up and not be starting over again with more in my 40's and 50s.

I am really happy where I am now. Why cant my family and friends understand that?

2007-05-18 08:52:58 · 9 answers · asked by bjmarchini 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any girls or guys out there who think this is true? and why?

2007-05-18 08:50:32 · 17 answers · asked by *Lovely Phoenix* 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm pregnant and I'm thinking about getting an abortion. I don't know why I'm pregnant I was on birth control and my boyfriend used a condom, I guess I have really bad luck. I really don't know what to do, I can't be pregnant because I am a dancer(ballet), I was also planning on going to medical school, and I don't even like children. My boyfriend wants to keep it but I don't. I don't mean to sound cold, but I don't want to have a baby.


Other Info:
*I'm 21, he is 22
*Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years


Thank you for your help

2007-05-18 08:44:22 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi
iam in the first stages of divorce, as i filed not because i really wanted a divorce from my wife but after a severe fight with my wife , i think out of spite my wife took of with our child the next day, and then for 3 weeks i tried to talk to her but she would just hang up and blame me for eveything, even my inlaws told me not to call there as she went to live with them, so then after getting no part from my wife as to making it better, i went and filed for divorce and custody. so now i still want to reconcile and try to fix things before the court hearing but now my wife wants no part of making it work, as i have called her and ask her to recocncile and she said NO, now she wants a divorce.
what can i do?? i really do not want a divorce and if she love me and want our marriage then why is she just using the blame game and telling me that since i filed now i have to live with it, as she does not want any reconcilattion. is there anything i can do or say to her to get her to try

2007-05-18 08:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by phillyanyone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 15 years, two teenage daughters and living with his family for 10+ years, my husband has decided that he no longer likes who I have become. He says I lack excersice and need to stop watching TV. He says I pay no attention to myself or him. He has a short temper and wants me to be perfect house wife. Make dinner everyday and have the house spotless after a regular 40 hour work week. Don't want to toss it all away but he is pushing me to just drop everything and start fresh and alone.

2007-05-18 08:43:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been dateing a guy from VMI for about 4 months now and i thought that i was really happy..but i have currently been sleeping with another guy for about 2 weeks now and he is sweet and there for me when ever i need him to be and is head over heels for me ..it is really hard to do this because i think that i am loseing my feeling for my bf now and he is always away from home and a long distance relationship isn't what i really want .....if im going to be with someone im going to be with them all the time but the one from VMI is also sweet and my family love him so much ...i need help really bad im stuck somewhere i don't wanna be but the guy at home makes me so happy but my family loves the other guy and i have no clue what to do ....everyone has been so good to me ...what do i do ??????..HEELLPPP

2007-05-18 08:38:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl a few months ago while she was in a relationship to her boyfriend of 3 years. As she says,” her first real boyfriend”. Anyway, we instantly clicked, and we could tell it was something special. Her relationship with her boyfriend was on the rocks, so I played it cool. We started to get closer, but then I found out that she had broken up with her boyfriend, and that she was absolutely devastated! She didn’t talk to me for 3 weeks, then she started to open up about him and their downfall and we started hooking up, and spending a lot of time together. I really like this girl, and I know she has feelings for me too, but the other day, I found out that she had gotten really upset, because she found out her ex-boyfriend had starting dating someone right after they broke up. I found out that she was crying hard. My question is: Is she’s still in love with this guy? When will she be ready to be with me? How should I play it? She’s says she cares about me, and thinks about me?...

2007-05-18 08:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by Primo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are marrying in February, & plan to send out invitations by August to allow potential guests to make arrangements if they'd like to attend. I can't seem to find anything showing what is apporpriate info to include...travel info (hotel & flight & car rental info), RSVP, save the date (for our reception once we return home) and the basic when and where info...anything else? We want to include everything that's necessary, but not send a book either.

Thanks for any ideas!

2007-05-18 08:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by melouofs 7 in Weddings

ok my bf like never talks to me, && i really never talk to him. we really like each other && he says he loves me. he really doesnt seem to like to be with me... but he says he does. hes only with me when im with his best friend. he said he would only hate me if i broke up with him.. but i really dont want to. i think i like someone else that likes me too but then yet i dont want to lose hunter [[my bf]] i really dont kno what to do..please help!! =]

2007-05-18 08:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by lind.say.le.anne. =] 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at my work i like him a lot i became obsessive about him i walk around his office like 100 time a day, I’m sure he notice me and i even go to take my lunch the same time as him i make eye contact all what he dose is say hi, and every time i try to forget him he pass by my office and with him beautiful smile say hi, wish make me come back again, he doesn’t talk to me or let me alone, what can i do to get over him?

2007-05-18 08:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by n b 2 in Singles & Dating

He is taking it super slow.
He will grab my hand and let go. He wont actually make a move........
Not sure as to why so slow, he does flirt and we have fun.
I think I want to break out of our regular dates and do something different........any ideas?

2007-05-18 08:20:59 · 30 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating