ok my bf like never talks to me, && i really never talk to him. we really like each other && he says he loves me. he really doesnt seem to like to be with me... but he says he does. hes only with me when im with his best friend. he said he would only hate me if i broke up with him.. but i really dont want to. i think i like someone else that likes me too but then yet i dont want to lose hunter [[my bf]] i really dont kno what to do..please help!! =]
2007-05-18 08:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by lind.say.le.anne. =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, who do you like more hunter or the other guy? If you like hunter try talking to him or see whats up with him and see maybe somethings brothering him.
If you like the other guy more what you do is i guess, if you know what kind of girls hunter doesn't like, then try acting like those girls. Act the opposite of what he likes and he will eventually dump you. Or you can just say that it seems that he doesn't want to be with you and you can't keep up with this and say your dumping him. If he gets mad its okay cause he will sooner or later forget cause life goes on.
Good luck :)
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2007-05-18 08:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by ...... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him tell him your issues if he is still not willing to talk then you have to tell him its over. Relationships don't all end as friends like in the movies. Someone will most likely always be hurt when a relationship ends. But one thing not to do is end this and jump into the next relationship. Treat him with the same respect you would want to be treated.
2007-05-18 08:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look. At your age you need to concentrate more on your books than your boyfriend.
It's over between you and bf. Simply stop calling/taking calls/texts etc.
If he asks why you avoid him, tell him that he seemed happier with his buds than with you - and that you didn't want to be seen "crowding" him - like you're giving him his space.
Lay low for a few weeks and then you can be clean to go out with new guy
But you really need to concentrate on your studies - that means no boyfriends - cause a good education will get you a good boyfriend. A sorry one - will only make you attractive to losers.
2007-05-18 08:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't want to spend time with you ,he obviously doesn't really like you. I would ask him why he only spends time with you when other people are around. I would tell him that if he doesn't change the relationship won't go anywhere. If he doesn't change, dump him. Just tell him what you are looking for in a bf, if he can't fullfill your needs..he's got to go
2007-05-18 08:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by germangirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously you guys are just hurting each other waiting for someone to make the move. Well life is passing you by while you wait for someone to make the move. I guess its time to wake up and smell the roses.
2007-05-18 08:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby, there is no easy way... just gotta give it to him and he has to take it like a man thats all.. It's never easy to break up.......
2007-05-18 08:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Rain L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him, tell him how you feel, be up front with him. He will take it alot better.
2007-05-18 08:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by exodus64_1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll be your bf!
2007-05-18 09:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by you can't see me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋