Any girls or guys out there who think this is true? and why?
2007-05-18 08:50:32 · 17 answers · asked by *Lovely Phoenix* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about guys? do they get attached to their first?
2007-05-18 08:51:11 · update #1
well usually the first guy you sleep with is usually (hopefully) your first love. and usually for some reason girls get really attached to their first love. but it just depends on the person.
2007-05-18 08:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by emma-me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women tend to see every date we have as the potential "MR. Right". I have no idea why we do this. I think it is ingrained in us from the time we are little girls. That means that oftentimes we have heartache in store for us. Aif just keep working at it, we will find what we are hoping for. The first time we sleep with a man can often be the strongest memory we keep of what we think about sex. Hmmmmm, that means take the time to really choose well...
2007-05-18 09:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by drpearce124 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not true... necessarily. Some girls might, but not everyone. Everyone is different. Guys are less likely to get attached, but again, it depends on the individual.
2007-05-18 08:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I were each other's firsts. And yes, I'm extremely attached to him. Sex is a special thing between two people, and the fact that I chose him as my first means a lot to me.
2007-05-18 09:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe so.Having sex for the first time does change your life though.It can be good or bad.In my case the first time was a date rape.And there is no attachment to this person.Also it can hurt you with diseases or pregnancy.
2007-05-26 03:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I banged a friend of mine cause well we were both tired of being virgins and we decided to get it over with. Wasnt great it lasted a minute or two. But she called me everyday for a month she thought I was her boyfriend so I had to tell her to stop calling me Im not your boyfriend we just had ssex. Im your friend thats all get over it
2007-05-18 08:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Leon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm into that !!! i don't know if it is only me but
i'm a guy and i slept with my g/f which now my ex
and i can't let her go i'm still hurts and i have the fear of her doing it with some1 else. that it kills me.
so personally i guess i got attached to her more than i thought that now it seems so hard to tell her good bye if though she hurted me.
2007-05-18 08:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by hzyoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not in my case. I still talk to the guy from time to time, but nothing more than a hey, how's it going thing.
2007-05-18 08:54:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kayleigh♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IT'S ABSOLUTELY WRONG THEY GET ATTACHED WITH THE MAN WHOM THEY LOVE MOST
"IT'S CALLED TRUE LOVE"
2007-05-26 00:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by sha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is someone you will always remember but not someone you will always love. Because you most likely never loved that person to began with.
2007-05-18 08:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by tls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋