Family & Relationships - 18 May 2007

i'm not getting married but my sister is and they are having it done. i thought it sounded cool. i am just curious to see what other people think about that kind of thing.

2007-05-18 06:50:30 · 16 answers · asked by godsgirl5781 1 in Weddings

Last night I went out with 2 of my guy friends. I'm one of those "one of the boys" type girls. I have bf's and I act girly but I just get along better with guys I always have. Last night we all went to Jocks and Jills near my house. We were they and my ex's recently made ex was there to. She told my ex I kept looking at her and she was about to smack me, and all this bull crap. She said the guys I was with were huge and fat. They weren't not. They are tall and very musclar. She was checking them out like crazy LOL... I don't care that she did this. I think it's funny, cause honestly she was hanging with Edward Scissor hands but a blond version. I mean this is stupid and so high school. Don't you think...? I wasn't looking at her, it took me forever to figure out which one was her, becuase my ex called me and told me she was there. I was laughing about it. I think she's just jealous of me cause he was talking to me.

I don't know I just want some opions LOL

Thanks!

2007-05-18 06:49:50 · 25 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

I've heard that if a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him, and that we don't need to give
advice. Is that true? do guys hate it when girls are concerned and ask them constantly whats wrong.
[&& lets just say that she has been his girlfriend for 7-8 months, and she can detect when somethings up?] does he find this bothersome?

2007-05-18 06:49:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 06:48:09 · 24 answers · asked by Sally 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for about a year. We're both 30. I've never really lived anywhere else and this would be the perfect opportunity. He does'nt want to move now, he says maybe in about 5 years! I've even suggested moving somewhere else in the state but he wants to stay in the same area. By, the way we don't live together yet.

2007-05-18 06:47:52 · 6 answers · asked by Lee 4 in Singles & Dating

but she has a body to die for....is it wrong to bring along a plastic bag on the date?

I even have airholes punched out already! lol

2007-05-18 06:45:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read some things my girlfriend wrote online and I'm not sure what to think at the moment. I think I really hurt her. I don't want to go into details very much but I told her Thursday night I would not be attending her prom because my two best friends were coming to visit me. I told her we could still go to my prom and I thought she'd understand...apparently i don't think she does.


"Dear You"
"Scott,
I will never understand how you had the nerve to hurt me like this on Thursday. The night before my prom! And how you are not even bothered by your selfish acts towards me. I hope after all of this is over it hurts real bad. I hope one day maybe not soon you realize you lost someone who loved you and truly cared deeply about you and would give anything for you."


-Tonight i am not attending my senior prom. Today I am sitting here more hurt then I've ever been by a guy in my entire life. Today I want to die. Today he lost me forever.....

2007-05-18 06:41:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am stuck because I don't have anywhere else to go and he has a car. He talked about our sexlife to his bosses the very first day on the job the other day. He has done this before and I asked him not to. I caught him when I overheard his boss mock one of the things I say to him over the telephone. What do I do ? I can't break up with him, I have nowhere else to go. Has there been a relationship oin the breakdown or do you think he has always been like this ?I can't throw it in his face or else he will go off on me. I don't think he was like this in the beginning of our relationship, men, is that how it goes ? Men, does he really love me or does he just have a problem ? He talks about all women like this, but he should not talk about me like this.

2007-05-18 06:41:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. He is so sweet. He is a virgin, but he's 17. I really like him. He is always there for me and is my best friend. I want to ask him out but am afraid to. I am 13 but I really like this guy. I know age doesn't matter to him. He tells me all the time because I used to like his best friend Ian who is also 17 but I would never go out with Ian. I really like Paul. He makes me smile and he always can cheer me up. I really like him. He is so nice to everyone and respects people. He thinks before he acts and is a good guy.

2007-05-18 06:39:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about relationships along with various other circumstances. a lot of women that i know have got controlling and like to throw accusations.

I wo think that its because they feel that they have to find a way to not feel guilty and by trying to find fault in the other person, they can accomplish this.

2007-05-18 06:36:31 · 5 answers · asked by JUST A THOUGHT 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married since I was 18. I have been with him since I was 16. We have 2 small children. We have had some really rough times, I have been pushed, he has thrown things at me and his mouth is ridiculous. Last night was my graduation and he was so mean and unsupportive. He did not want to participate because it did not benifit him directly. The class had a party and he would not let me go. He is very controlling, manipulative and jealous. I was raging mad by the time I got home. I left riding for a while just to cool off. He found me and followed me. he rode the back of my car for a while then pulled up beside me and swerved at me. He rode in the oncoming traffics lane for a while and when a car came I slowed down to let him in my lane. He slammed on his brakes in the middle of the road and got out of the truck. I went aroung him and kept going. This type of thing is typical of our relationship. Should I continue to put up with this for my kids? They honestly love their daddy.

2007-05-18 06:34:15 · 24 answers · asked by M. Nurse 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the common way a relationship progresses. What is it like when you get comfortable with eachother. I will have been with my bf for 4 months next week and I just want to know what to expect.
He tells me he loves me, and is so completely honest with me. Last night when we were watching TV I completely knew we were going to get married. i know it sounds naieve. I just worry about our age differance (19 and 22) and it turning him off. I get anxious about everything so can someone just help.


He doesnt call me as much anymore, I get anxious and he told me I can call him whenever I want because I do have depression/anxiety issues. So this doesnt mean that he is disinterested in me. right? When we're together its great.

2007-05-18 06:31:29 · 12 answers · asked by sally 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been BF forever she always gives me the most thoughtful gifts. What can I give her? Also she lives far away so I have to send it to her.

2007-05-18 06:26:43 · 1 answers · asked by Nicolleta 2 in Friends

i started dating that boy about a few months ago. i liked him every since i was in seventh grade, now i am a senior. he is everything that i wanted, but lately things arent so good for us. i dont believe that he mean it when he say he loves me. before i start dating him i was raped twice by my last boyfriend and by a 75 year old man in my church, somehow i find it difficult to open up to him. and i am also mad at him cause he is always flirting.he doesnt think i understand him enough to talk to me i always feel left out. doyou think its jealousy?do you think i am afraid of love.somehow he cant understand me when i say im not ready to make love to him.i dont know wat to do please help me

2007-05-18 06:26:10 · 1 answers · asked by CLAIRE~BEAR 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 06:26:06 · 26 answers · asked by Pandora 3 in Weddings

2007-05-18 06:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by 7766jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She says the other reason is that, her son, who bought a home with his ex cannot afford the payments on his house so she is taking over payments to help him out, she is buying the home so his credit won't go to hell! Any way we were living together for 2 years and she sprang this on me only 3 days before moving. I did'nt see it coming! She says she still wants to see me as her only boyfriend but for now the engagement is off! I decided that I am going to break up with her as I feel that what has happened is a big step back! I want to move forward! Am I making a sound decision based on the facts?

2007-05-18 06:24:47 · 10 answers · asked by alanstorment 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really love this person. The problem is that he pulled back when I got serious and when I wanted to take things forward. He says he isn't "ready" and is uncomfortable with my feelings. He cannot reciprocate. Ironically, he was the one who pursued me. I know for sure he likes me. I am exhausted trying to figure out whether he has any *fears*. Please don't tell me to leave him, becoz I can't and don't want to. Please advise how I shd handle this, if I want us to be together....

I also feel distance has been a hindrance although He says distance is not the reason. We were earlier in 2 different states in the US, and now we are in 2 different countries. I plan to move to his country for job reasons.

A man's perspective will be super helpful.....

Thank you guys.

2007-05-18 06:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have feelings for this boy and I really do love him and every night he tell me he love me. But to me I dont think I'm expressing myself to him like i suppose to be. Sometimes he get mad over crazy things but he just dont know the problems I go through with family situations. I am jus 17 and he 19 so I know he can do whatever he wants because he is grown and he dont live with his parents. But for me i still live with my parents and I jus cant disrepect them like that. Like he always wants to go somewhere I cant pop up and say yes I will go with him because if my parents tell me no. Then its just no thats the final answer. So he have to realize that im young, but when i turn 18 my parents cant do nothing about it. So I want to know how do I go by doing that?

2007-05-18 06:23:56 · 15 answers · asked by lacutiehotty05 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my papers are on hold for some reason and be and my husband has been married for 4 years. we have 2 kids and he just hit me with some divorce paper. i would like to know if there is any way for him to keep the kids because he has his citizenship?
please help!!!!!!

2007-05-18 06:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-18 06:17:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

[straight women] should be housewives...[well the married ones anyways]

2007-05-18 06:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that has dreams about her mothers boyfriend going to rape her and its all because of her real father.
it disgusts me that parents would do that!
it also makes me very mad! She does not wana go home all be cause of her mothers boyfriend

2007-05-18 06:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by May May 1 in Friends

I havnt seen my boyfriend in a while and i want to just completely suprise him. I want to try something different, any ideas to make him go wild in the bedroom?? thanks in advance !! ", xx

2007-05-18 06:11:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They really are - it doesn't take much. I don't want to hear all you perfect people bragging about how wonderful your life is; you know MOST married men are miserable. My girlfriends all know exactly what they have to do to keep their men happy (mosty sex stuff) but its almost like they have fun saying "no" and making fun of them.

2007-05-18 06:09:49 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is,i fell out of love with my b/f,at least i felt like if i did .and we were seperated for over a year.in that year of seperation,i met a new friend and after a while i say 6 months of hanging out a or anyt/nnd being nothing but friends.we fell for each other but the problem is he has a g/f. so i ignored the feeling.my b/f and i are back together and will be married in oct.but i stills/ed feel for him,but what im so confused about is that i feel for my b/f too.the other day we were talking as we usually do,and we looked at each others eyes and he apologized for it.we have agree to go on with our lives and be just friends.but we cant be together and not stare at each other.we have never kiss or anything.he said he would love to be part of my wedding,but i dont think i can handle it.he said it hurt him to loose a friend like me to another man.but im just confused,i dont know what to do.any advice would help right now.

2007-05-18 06:09:17 · 14 answers · asked by kikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now my mom gets alimony. How long does that last? What is the thinking behind that? I'm not mad at her, but my dad doesn't have much money now. Oh I forgot to say I am an adult and on my own. Does it matter what state they live in?

2007-05-18 06:05:11 · 11 answers · asked by en tu cabeza 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-18 06:04:30 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Only mothers who have bad relationships with their daughters could understand this dilemma. Her father and I are divorced and of course she blames me. I have accepted this, but the problem is that verbally berates me almost constantly. She tells me she hates me, calls me worthless, even goes so far as to say she wishes that I would commit suicide and rid the world of me. The divorce happened 6 yrs ago, she is 22 yrs old now and her father and I get along great. She has a steady boyfriend, great job and siblings that don't hate me. I try to talk to her but she has just made up her mind that I am a nothing. I can't just let it be, I love her, she is my daughter. Any suggestions as to what to do? PS: I have become disabled and cannot work, she thinks it is a big lie and says that it is just another excuse. Thanks for your input..

2007-05-18 06:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by zeldaba 2 in Family

why is my huge decision about moving my family and me 8 hours a way to a job that pays 20k more a year where the cost of living is less so hard? Logic tells me to do it...
but my heart says stay in Kentucky.....

2007-05-18 06:00:34 · 9 answers · asked by I don't look like this 3 in Marriage & Divorce