do you think i am afraid of love?

Question

i started dating that boy about a few months ago. i liked him every since i was in seventh grade, now i am a senior. he is everything that i wanted, but lately things arent so good for us. i dont believe that he mean it when he say he loves me. before i start dating him i was raped twice by my last boyfriend and by a 75 year old man in my church, somehow i find it difficult to open up to him. and i am also mad at him cause he is always flirting.he doesnt think i understand him enough to talk to me i always feel left out. doyou think its jealousy?do you think i am afraid of love.somehow he cant understand me when i say im not ready to make love to him.i dont know wat to do please help me

Answer 1

Dont dare give in to him!!
Does he know you were raped? If so, then why in the world would you want to be w/ a guy that doesnt understand/or doesnt want too -about your feelings of 'making love' to him?? (Him>>Selfish?)
Just my opinion, but he doesnt sound like he's worth it..in your question, you didnt mention one thing GOOD about him, like what he does for you, etc.

Think about it! But, dont do anything you would regret later on!