Family & Relationships - 18 May 2007

Long story short, I have had a mostly emotional affair with a married man fom work for a little over a year. We officially broke it off about our months ago because I was getting too attached and I assumed he was too. We stayed friends but I had a hard time letting go. I pushed him to finally tell me the truth about how he felt and yesterday he finally did. He said that he doesn't know how I got the impression that we were anything but friends and that he flirts with everyone. Our "relationship" went way beyond conventional flirting and there were many times I was positive that he was feelig things for me. I have to see him again on Sunday. I am humiliated and angry and hurt. What do I say? I can't completely ignore him so we will have to be civil to each other.

2007-05-18 00:49:31 · 16 answers · asked by cantstopnow 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you dont know friends when hearts breaks its really pain.

2007-05-18 00:49:09 · 15 answers · asked by YUGMANI 1 in Family

I've been grounded for having some people up to my dads house for a while when he was on holiday. We wern't gonna be staying there and afew people had drink but I wasn't drinking but my mum still went mental and accused me of having a party! So I've been grounded for a week so far and she says she wants to ground me for 3 weeks! I don't even think I did anything that bad but I still said sorry for it. Last night we got in a massive fight about it and I said some things I shouldn't have out of anger but it resulted in her throwing a cup at my head and trying to strangle me! Then made me sit outside in the cold when all I had on was a vest top and shorts! Whatever I said had no need for that behaviour and she said plenty of things to me. I feel like just packing a bag and going to a friends house for a while cause I can't stand being stuck in this house with her. Should I stay and stick out the grounding or leave?

2007-05-18 00:46:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-18 00:44:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found out a few months ago that my, (airline pilot) now husband, cheated on me when we were going out with a flight attendent. I would have left the jerk in a second if I had known before we were married. It has now been a few months, and I just gave birth to our first daughter. I STILL think about what he did daily...... He told me it was before we were married and doesnt matter. I think it does, and besides I can't trust a man who only comes home for 2 days a week. How can I get over what he did? Will I ever ger past it?

2007-05-18 00:39:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who has been texting your husband claiming she loves and misses him etc had it out with him but he says she was just a friend theres nothing in it

2007-05-18 00:38:06 · 30 answers · asked by astra 5 in Marriage & Divorce

why girls dont like to live in joined family after marriage..?

2007-05-18 00:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by offlinelove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

are u flattered? do u assume he fancies you? what do u do if u a. dont fancy the guy and b.fancy the guy. wud it freak u out if the guy said "hi"

2007-05-18 00:32:17 · 29 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it unfair of me to expect to get a little help around the house. After all, the 18 year old goes to school and has a job, the 23 year old has a full time job and is a musician? After all they are busy people! NOT! So are thier Dad and I! I work full time at a job that requires a lot of hours and Dad is on the road most days. Why don't they just see that the dishes need to go into the dishwasher! That the garbage is over flowing! Somehow they think its ok for me to come home from a long day and just take care of picking up! Why do some kids think that way! I provide them with a great home, especially since the 23 year old should be out of the house by now. Do other young people treat thier Moms this way? Why does anyone think its ok for Mom to work all day and have to come home and clean the kitchen while everyone else sits down?????
How do I turn them around???

2007-05-18 00:27:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-18 00:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by Violet Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont allow my husband to talk to his ex girlfriend/mother of his first 2 children (we have 1 child) or go to her house unless I am present. He communicates with her through me or his mother. When we pick up the kids she drops them off at his mothers and we get them from there. He respects my wishes but his family says I am being unreasonable even though they were the ones trying to hook him back up with her behind my back which is why he agrees to these terms. Is this wrong?

2007-05-18 00:21:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im graduating high school in a few days and I keep thinking that the whole experience has been a failure. I basically made like no friends at all. I mean its not like people hate me they like me but theres so many people I never got to know. I guess I sort of set myself up for this because I had this idea in my mind of how this year was going to be so perfect and I'd make up for all the lost time. But I feel further away from them than I ever have. I thought once I graduated I would just forget about it but I don't think so now this is going to stay with me. How can I fix this problem? I mean I know life goes on but it just seems so incomplete. Should I try to hang out with them over the summer? Maybe then at least I can feel a little more at peace. Its like a mix of regret, self-hatred, and guilt, and incompletion.

2007-05-18 00:10:09 · 14 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

i surpose to meet this boy friend to be next week. but i have never seen him before. as far as i know he is 23, 173cm tall and 97 kg. I personally think he is abit over weight
what's do you think. his picture only showed his face, very pretty.....

2007-05-18 00:08:41 · 20 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Singles & Dating

Every time he comes close to me to hug me or to touch me I feel like stabbing him. Every time he kisses me I feel like slapping him. I can't explain why. It is his touch. He is a nice guy but is very demanding and nasty when he can't get what he wants. I am 17, he is 26.

2007-05-18 00:07:28 · 18 answers · asked by Kaitlyn S 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy comes through my work because of me, and we've gone out a few times.........and now he wants to take me to the boat/hotel for the night............he's 50 and i'm 32........should i stay with him for the night or say no thanks to him??

2007-05-18 00:03:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend had a child at 14 , she had multiple partners and wasnt sure who the father was , so she kept silent for 9 years with her son never knowing who his father is... well now she wants to know. How could she begin her search when she only knows the first names of her old friends and she has moved through many states since then. She has a Idea of who the boy looks like , but only knows his first name. WHAT CAN SHE DO???

2007-05-18 00:03:12 · 10 answers · asked by yahna_22 1 in Family