What would be the best way to confront a woman?

Question

who has been texting your husband claiming she loves and misses him etc had it out with him but he says she was just a friend theres nothing in it

she not a friend of mine met her a couple of times though she is married herself with 4 children

Answer 1

if that was me i would tell her leave him the f*** alone or im gunna beat your A** you homewrecking s***

Answer 2

I would be mad to. You should call her up and tell her staight out that she's not allowed to call your husband and that if she continues to do so then you will get unlisted numbers. If your husband dosen't cut it off with her then I would seriously be thinking about meeting someone outside your marriage that you can have a friendship with and then when he confronts you about it just say the same thing just a friend there's nothing in it. I don't think he'll like the shoe being on the other foot, then maybe he will cut it off with her. Good Luck!!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Your husband's excuse doens't sound too convincing sorry. But on the assumption he is telling the truth, and perhaps she's getting a little too close than is accepted for a married man, why not say to her you notice she's on her own, and perhaps seeking attention from men (maybe even mention you've noticed the texts to your husband) and say you know its hard being single at times and that you'd like to set her up with a really nice guy you have in mind. That will throw her, she will be taken a back at how well you have handled it and will see you as feeling secure in your marriage and non-threatened by her.

Answer 5

Really not too sure your husband is on the up and up with you on this. Most people don't receive sexy messages from strangers. However, confrontations don't work. You will gain nothing from sounding like a wounded shrew. Leave her alone and pay attention to what your husband is really doing.

Answer 6

i would be more inclined to confront him and find out what is going on, the real story.

im not sure why wives always want to go after the other woman. chances are excellent that she has been told a completely different story about your relationship. trust me. i would put my time and energy into finding out what the real deal is between your husband and some other woman.

remember, this other woman did not make the committment to you, your husband did, he is the one who owes you the truth.

Answer 7

Don't confront her....confront your hubby! He is the one in the commited relationship with you. How many sexual relationships have started out as "just friends"? Seriously I think all men use the just friends line when they are actually lusting after a woman....he isn't going to come out and say ..."yeah I think she's hot and if given the chance I would f*ck her brains out" no they are going to lie and look like the innocent party as long as they can get away with it.

Answer 8

Well the only way you're going to get anything out of her is to be nice otherwise you'll just get the phone slammed down on you. I wouldn't be too concerned with her though, I'd grill your husband again and tell him you want a better answer. Why on earth would somebody be texting your husband saying that if she is just a friend?

Answer 9

He is lying!!! What kind of friend would text and say that she love him (except a girlfriend), but anyways- just call her up and ask if she knows that he is married and let her know that you read the text messages that she has been sending. And depending on her attitude you know how to take it from there, bcuz he may be lying to her about you. She may not even know that you exist, but if she does- that is just disrespectful and that b**ch need her a** whipped.

Answer 10

Say nothing to her. The person you need to confront and settle this with is your husband.

Answer 11

Get him a new phone and phone number immediately. If he's entirely innocent, she'll never have access to it again. If she keeps calling/texting on the new number, you've got problems.