Family & Relationships - 18 May 2007

I've been depressed for a few weeks. With that comes anger... Everything that my live-in boyfriend does, I get mad at him and bring up how he cheated on me in past (still not over that.)

I can't control my emotions when it comes to being angry, but when I feel like I want to talk to him, I can't show him how I feel. It's like I'm thinking it, I'm feeling sorry on the inside but I can't let him see or know that I'm hurt or sorry.

Well, I guess he got fed up, because my live-in boyfriend went out tonight, and he is still not home. It's like, why would he had more fuel to the fire, cause now im mad he left me in the house alone all night.

How do I talk to him about my feelings, and my depression without feeling weird or diffrent?

2007-05-18 19:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 4 months of what was supposed to be a monogamous arrangement. He caught his girlfriend in bed with another man, whom he knew. She claims she was drunk but takes full responsibility for her actions. He believes this may have been going on for some time, as he found that they had a lunch date together a month prior to being caught. My friend says he loves her, but the trust is no longer there. Is there hope here. She is heartbroken over the mistake. Anyway, I told what good advice is available here, so he told me to give it a try. I know she is trying hard to reconnect this relationship, but he appears distant and suspicious.

2007-05-18 19:38:03 · 22 answers · asked by sideache1 1 in Singles & Dating

Im student and i expected to marry after completed my studies i need to know first before time reach

2007-05-18 19:29:27 · 21 answers · asked by hadim 1 in Weddings

have you ever loved someone so so so so much,so deeply that it hurts not even seeing him even for a minute? i have a bf and he is there but i feel for granted and i can't feel his assurance but i love him so damn hard all this time.

have you ever loved so hard to the extent that it hurts you every time? i don't know what to do..i did all the sacrifices and it seems he's very insensitve of it. he won't even make a move to make up with me..i don't know if he really does love me..i really don't know what to think right now. i think he don't know what im feeling right now. im tired crying and hurting all these time but every time i think of letting him go,i can't do it..i feel like i'll die if i lose him..

sorry..i just have no one to talk to..hope you can feel what i feel..i just want to be happy..to feel that im the most important person in the world..i just want to be loved more than i love him..but im hurting in return... :'c

2007-05-18 19:27:18 · 21 answers · asked by pRiNcEss_c",) 4 in Singles & Dating

This girl walks past my work palce which is a mini cab office i don controlling. we made eye contact and strated waving, this she went pass i went up to her told her that i am all ways on the phone when she gos past that i want to speak to her so i told her maybe i can give her my number or she can give me hers she said i will give my number so she cames in the the office and gives me her number. whats next i dont know shall i call for a dring i really not sure

2007-05-18 19:26:07 · 16 answers · asked by kurdland 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 19:22:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 19:20:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife says sex is no longer something she desires, about 6 years ago I felt this way but at that time she wieghed 310 lbs but she was like a nimpho at that time.Now she wieghts 130 lbs and looks hot I find myself wanting her and even dreaming of her in erotic dreams, my love for her seems stronger than ever but she on the other hand has no desire or need to make love with me yet she will let me satisfy myself if I want, She also has a new job that she is at long hours and loves the job more than any she has ever had, I at first thought she might be having an affair but she is (if anyone is) incapable of that. Is it possible she is going through menapause? Up til now she was always wanting sex with me. Has anyone out there had a similar problem or any ideas of why this is happining. (and don't say my equipment is to small ) not a problem

2007-05-18 19:10:19 · 23 answers · asked by digger227 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is for real... i mean i like sex as much as any1 but can you be addicted? like i think my last gf was she wanted it ALL the time. like 24-7 like i every second we were alone almost to the point to where it was over powering. can you be seriously ADDICTED?

2007-05-18 19:01:39 · 21 answers · asked by brett 2 in Singles & Dating

The other night, my girlfriend and I got into an argument, and she got sassy, so I slapped her. She actually slapped me back!

That made me really mad, so I punched her in the eye, and she started screaming. I was afraid of someone hearing, so I told her to hush, but she just started cursing. It really makes me mad to be defied, and so I hit her again and again. I couldn't let her leave, until she promised not to go to the police.

The problem is, that she has bruises all over her, and I have scratch marks on my arms and face. The police found out about it, and I got hauled to jail. I got out on bail, but I can't go near my own home, or talk to her. I want to work things out, because I'm really not a bad guy. I didn't plan on doing it. Things just escalated really fast. What should I do or say to convince her not to pursue charges, and to let me back? It wasn't my fault entirely. She instigated me. How can I convince her of this?

2007-05-18 18:47:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 18:44:09 · 3 answers · asked by jessica m 2 in Singles & Dating

Has your husband ever called you a *****, whore, or hoe? If so, did you forgive him or leave him? What if he does it repeatedly? Is there ever a scenario by which that alone would be cause for a divorce? Is it really that big of a deal or should it just be written off as words said in anger that don't mean much?

2007-05-18 18:44:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anne W 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen many fainting clips but have not heard one explanation as to why people, especially men, pass out at the altar.

2007-05-18 18:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

they say he/she is my 2nd or 3rd cousin once/twice removed, how is someone removed?

2007-05-18 18:12:54 · 2 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok im 16 and im in high skool so i hav all that high skool drama any ways it all started the secont me n my ex brandon startd goin out when his ex g/f amy got mad because she didnt like me 2 begin w/ so she tried all she could to break us up so one day i came 2 skool and i was goin 2 my 2nd period class then a bunch of people was yellin u n brandon are over so i said oh this must be amys work so i keep lookin4 my ex and i found out he was avoding me so i thouht oh it isnt amy 4 once its brandon so i wrote him a note cursin him out well because i was mad that he coudnt tell me himself but icame 2 find out amy just spead a roumor saying that and my ex got mad because i belived them so he realy said its over but a couple days later he said were cool and we were friends but come to find ou hes going out w/ amy so every time i would walk past them 2 she would just sudenly be all over him but anyway a week past and me still wantin him amy and her friends were callin me stuf go 2 next ?

2007-05-18 18:08:49 · 17 answers · asked by ciera j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 18:05:14 · 21 answers · asked by reporter girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 17:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by ******* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-18 17:24:58 · 1 answers · asked by roxi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a man that I work with that is totally my type. He is intelligent, funny, and professional. I am in the midst of going through a divorce, and I don't think this man knows that, but I have written several answers already inquiring about this...I cannot possibly be that wrong about his signs. We went through a rough patch where we could not talk at all, but I have given him space and have really backed off, and he seems more relaxed about me now. Was I too strong? Does he really dig me? or is he just being professional?

What goes through a professional guys mind so that I dont step on his toes? I truly like this man, we are good co-workers, can we be friends, or am I crazy?

2007-05-18 17:16:48 · 2 answers · asked by MEESH 1 in Friends

I just want to be PERFECT for my man. Please help!!

2007-05-18 17:11:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read somewhere that 40 or 50% of newlyweds don't have sex on their wedding night because they're too tired. I find this hard to believe. Has any of the married people out there not "done it" on their wedding night?? And why not?

2007-05-18 17:04:36 · 27 answers · asked by frito_pie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

yes I would want her to want me to be the girl. yes I'm a guy.

2007-05-18 16:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by fay v 2 in Singles & Dating

I am just me, caring, giving, somewhat opinionated, gives a great massage, good mom, tired, overwhelmed, but upbeat and willing to be flexible. I don't know where to even start to meet grown up possible partners! Have tried dating sites and made great friends. Any suggestions?

2007-05-18 16:49:29 · 9 answers · asked by dizzkat 7 in Singles & Dating

My luck with men is horrible. While I am not ready to pursue anything now, I know eventually I will. I do not want to be an old bitter woman with cats....

2007-05-18 16:43:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ijus started get a headache all of a sudden wen i talk to this girl i'm talkin to everything is cool she cares about me and i care about her and things are gettin a lil more serious by the day but my guy instincts kick in and i still talk to other girls is the cause of my headaches wen i talk to her guilt or is it jus that i dont care but i think i care i think i do she makes me smile all the tme she makes me happy everytime i think about her i get the biggest smile and see her pictutere or look at her i smile like a lil goofy kid in love the same thing goes for her she says i do the same to her but y am i gettin a headache i think its the guilt and should i jus cut all the other girls that might ruin my potential relationship up and not come into contact or jus set them straight and say i cant talk to you's like that nomore idk someone help me please

2007-05-18 16:26:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my problem is that my parents don't believe me about anything. When I get sick, they always say "Maybe you're just tired." They also don't believe I have depression. I told my mom I was depressed but she didn't believe me. None of my friends believe me either. They always say I act too happy to be depressed, but I am really not happy. I just want to know if you have any ideas since nobody really takes me seriously, I mean, I am usually a serious person so I dont know why people dont believe me. Please help. :-)

2007-05-18 16:21:31 · 18 answers · asked by IloveJesus 2 in Family

Can't afford a pricey lawyer. We have kids and will do joint legal and physical. He wants to keep the house. I'm house hunting but will need to get my name off the mortgage. I just don't know where to start. Any input?

2007-05-18 16:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OMGOSH i need help with boys!! here's the story: this new guy came to my school this year (8th grade, i'm 14) and i could tell right away that he was the bad boy. I found out that we're on the same bus and you could totally tell he was the perfect bad boy. He curses and laughs at bad stuff but the problem is is that is what im attracted to in him. I know that what he laughs at is bad and the cursing is bad but he's SO cute and everybody thnks that he's ugly but there's something about him......i get butterflies everytime i see him, talk to him, or just look at him!!
I know i shouldn't like him because he's a bad boy but I can't help it!!
any advice??
oh p.s. i know he doesn't like me but that doesn't stop me from liking him!! and don't say "oh tell him how you feel" b/c i can't-i get nervous and i could never tell him how i feel.
thanks!!

question again: any advice???

2007-05-18 16:19:57 · 3 answers · asked by Jesus=Savior<3 4 in Singles & Dating

I am happily married. I love my husband. He does limit me to who I can talk to and how often I see people (like my girlfriend tonight). He works night shift and likes me to be home. Before him, I had some and still do have some great guy friends who want to spend time with me--just as friends. I told him I had coffee with one last week and he did not get mad, since I had not seen the guy since our wedding day. Now my old guy friend wants me to go to a baby shower with him tomorrow. I don't want to lie but I don't want to miss out on life either. Why can't I do things with my guy friends that I would like to do? Why can't I see my girlfriend when I want? He knows I would never ever cheat on him. I worry that life is gonna just pass me by. I have been good to my husband--I have paid all the bills since we married due to his drug addiction treatment and he is doing so well. I just want everything good in my life. I am a good person, but I just expect more I guess.

2007-05-18 16:17:39 · 5 answers · asked by just julie 6 in Family

I can't stand the guy my best friend is marrying. He has a decent enough personality I guess, but he's a lazy selfish user who is bleeding her dry! He hasn't worked in the entire two years that they've been together. She bought her own engagement ring with her credit card, bought him a car, works every day and supports him 100%. He won't even wash his own dishes. He stays up until 4 am watching TV and gets up between noon and 2 in the afternoon. He's pathetic!! He's ugly and she's beautiful. I don't get it!!!! Anyway I have to watch my friend marry this fool tomorrow and say some kind of toast. HELP ME!!!!!!

2007-05-18 16:14:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings