How do you let someone see what is inside of your somewhat overweight, overworked self?

Question

I am just me, caring, giving, somewhat opinionated, gives a great massage, good mom, tired, overwhelmed, but upbeat and willing to be flexible. I don't know where to even start to meet grown up possible partners! Have tried dating sites and made great friends. Any suggestions?

Very funny- through a speculuum! I guess I am being a bit melodramatic! But really, meeting new people is a challenge for me. Just looking for suggestions- I've heard God helps those that help themselves!

Answer 1

Here's the problem:

You are a mother figure, not a girlfriend figure.

Think about that for a moment.

Answer 2

I don't say this to be mean, but maybe if you lost a little of that excess weight, you'd see yourself in a different light and then others would as well. Self image may well be the most important factor we have going for ourselves when we present ourselves to any potential mate.

Answer 3

You seem to be suggesting that your weight is preventing you from meeting people. I know it presents challenges sometimes, but weight is not what's keeping you from having relationships.

Answer 4

Overworked with very final tests, competitions, initiatives, and the trip trips. thrilled in love, for the trip trips, and for a wreck. actual not obese and my total existence is overturned.

Answer 5

I thought it was usually through a speculum.

Answer 6

just what you said,have a friend hook you up or join the internet dating world, be careful.

Answer 7

Maybe let friends know you are open for blind dates?

Answer 8

It will happen when you stop looking so hard.

Answer 9

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