My luck with men is horrible. While I am not ready to pursue anything now, I know eventually I will. I do not want to be an old bitter woman with cats....
2007-05-18 16:43:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are hundreds of them. I'll send a few your way. LOL. Seriously, though, the men you are attracting are the men that are in your life. If none of them are any good, you gotta look in the mirror and figure out why you're attracting the wrong ones. Fix yourself first, and your world will change. Guaranteed.
2007-05-18 16:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are some very good men out there. And no they aren't all taken. But they are hard to find. After all, aren't you saying that you are looking for a priceless gem of a man? They don't grow on trees - to mix a couple of metaphors.
You might try an exercise for yourself. Get two envelopes. On one, write, "Here is what I want in a mate." On the other, write, "Here is what a deserve in a mate."
No - be completely honest with yourself. Take a few days to work through the exercise. Maybe you'll use a small note pad and everytime a thought comes to you, write it down and put it in the appropriate envelope.
After you think you've gotten lots of ideas down on paper, seal the two envelopes and put them away for one week. Put them away on a day off so you have time to think about what you've written when you get them back out again. Read them. Think about what you wrote. And decide if the messages in the two envelopes are consistent. If they are, then you know what you want and deserve. If they aren't, then figure out how to make them consistent.
You might need to either change your expectations or your attitudes about you.
One thing I have seen in life. All too often we are willing to settle for less than we deserve. Or, we think we don't deserve what we want. You are a beautiful human being and you deserve the best.
You wouldn't be asking your question about good men out there unless that's what you wanted. Don't settle for less.
Good luck,
Patrick
2007-05-18 16:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are, but he's already mine and taken. Seriously I truly believe there is a soulmate for everyone. Sometimes unfortunately like the old saying goes, "You have to kiss a lot of toads to find your prince" dont give up though cuz if you do you'll miss out on your prince. I never had much luck with love either and had actually decided I was never going to open my heart to another man ever because the heartbreak wasnt worth it. That is when my true love came along. I fought myself hard against falling for him afraid it would end in heartbreak again, but I finally found my prince and we're getting married in September.
2007-05-18 16:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are but unfortunately the saying, "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince" may be true for you. It was for me, but i have found a pretty great guy (let's face it, men will never be perfect), and you will true. Just don't turn into a recluse!! keep going out and doing your thing, and eventually you will meet someone
2007-05-18 16:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by latinsmama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, there def are. i know guys who are abstinent, who are saving themselves for one future wife. guys who practice living for the sake of others, who work on developing their talents so they can give the most to the world, even 17-year olds who are thinking about how they can one day the best father to his children...never give up, good guys are out there. and they are WORTH waiting for, they are worth making effort to find. never settle for less than what you deserve, just because you think only jerks are out there; you'll only be giving yourself years of misery and heartache.
it may take a long time to find a good guy who will really love you, but it's worth it. when you're ready for a serious relationship, a commitment, believe a good man is out there waiting for you, and you will find him...
good luck. and i don't think you'll end up an old bitter woman with cats...:P and like my elders always say: "while you're waiting, don't worry so much what he'll be like; focus on how to make yourself the best you can be for him." ^_^
2007-05-18 17:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by momochi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered a question like this earlier today. Yes! His name is Chad and he lives in Whatcom county, Washington. He's 28, a sweetheart, and good looking too. He just keeps getting the wrong girlfriends!
2007-05-18 16:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check the library's, golf courses, do volunteer work for your chamber of commerce, etc. All places you will find a better quality of men.
2007-05-18 16:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by JAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took my friend till she was 33 to find her man. And she says it was worth the wait. If you want something good you have to be picky. But remember we are not perfect
2007-05-18 16:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by Here I am 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u will find a man thats siuts u im sure love will find its way. there is always someone for someone else. and yes there r good men out there, some where
2007-05-18 16:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by connie_zhou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are but you have to be willing to accept him into your heart and life, you need to start caring about yourself then a nice man will find you very attractive and want you.
2007-05-18 16:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋