2007-05-18 18:05:14 · 21 answers · asked by reporter girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only thing that can truly make you a better person, is a relationship with God.
2007-05-18 18:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a better person just does not cut it. Being better will not help you achieve to the top; however, being great will help you get to places. The laws of attractions states some like this: you are what you attracts. you must start gage where you current status or a current report card of yourself. how can you become great if you don't know where you start. Then, give youself the same report card of what you want to be. The best way to start this assessment by completing the following sentence: "I am grateful that I am..... and thankful that I have ..... and in the near future I hope that I am able to be..." the empty lines will help you achieve your goals. Three simple steps of doing this is follows:
1. Ask the question of what you want to be great in a form of a positive statement. (no doubts statements)
2. Believe that you already am. (without a doubt) let the feeling of the belief that you are already am.
3. recieving (make it happen) celebrate the steps to achieve your greatness.
It is better to aim for the stars and landed on himalayas than aiming for the roof and landed in your attic.
hope this helps
ps. read "the secret" it may also help
2007-05-19 01:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tonkel C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations firstly for wanting to improve yourself. To improve anything you have to be truthful with yourself.
Ask yourself, where have I let myself and others down? When have I chosen the wrong path (to do the wrong thing) when I knew better? What about myself do I not like? Where can I do better? Then act to repair or improve those areas where you were less than your best.
Is there someone whom you admire? Ask yourself "What is there about them" that you like? How can you be more like that person?
If lost, you can seek guidence from members of your faith, a councellor or mentor.
And don't give up. Its easy to think if it didn't work straight away you got it wrong, or if you slipped up that maybe its all you can be, but its not. You can achieve so much, but have to put in effort and conviction. Nothing worthwhile is going to come easily. And being a better person is very worthwhile.
2007-05-19 01:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look around yourself and see beyond, ask youself "where am I needed?" Be attent to people's personal needs, be willing to help and make it show.
Play with children
Read books
Service your comunity
Love your neigthboor
Pray and meditate
Keep in touch with nature
Pay attetion to your feelings
Think before acting
Smile
Be a living example of what you think life should be like
2007-05-19 01:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Gerardo G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give of yourself (that might mean be generous financially, or of your time, or just giving smiles and positive attitude)
When you give, the world gives back more. You want to be a better person, it all boils down to treating people better.
2007-05-19 01:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How do you know you are not already a "better person"? Someone must have upset you or insulted your character. I bet you're a wonderful person with amazing character; just let that shine.
Be well.
2007-05-19 01:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jacqueline W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fake it till you make it.
Make a conscious effort to be the person you'd like to be. Sooner or later you do it without having to think about it.
Anything you can do for a month straight, you can do for the rest of your life.
2007-05-19 01:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by censored_4_tv 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
"Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you..."
God makes you a better person....
2007-05-19 01:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by futureteacher0613 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does it take to hope? EVERYTHING
Believing that tomorrow could be better than today.. that you'll get a second chance... that you'll make a difference... that you matter.
2007-05-19 01:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean a "better person"? each culture has a diffrent meaning for "better". there are so many i could'nt give an honest answer.
2007-05-19 01:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by antran007 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋