Family & Relationships - 18 May 2007

My husband tends to think that i am trying to be controlling and I am insecure when i ask him not to go to the casino so he could spend time with me. My husband works a lot of hours and days out of the week his days off are sunday and sometimes monday. When he gets home at night i have dinner ready so he eats and then 20 minutes later he is asleep. We don't have time to communicate or spend time with our children together. So when he has a little spare time is it wrong of me to ask him to stay home with us and spend time with us. He says I don't want him to do anything but go to work and come home. I figure that if I don't go out and if i do i do not stay out till after 2 am he should not either that to me is not marriage appropriate. Am i wrong for my concerns? Is this not inappropriate? I am at my ends with it We have been married for just over a year now i am confused what's the issue with him not wanting to spend time with us or is that it? Help please serious responses only.

2007-05-18 16:13:57 · 8 answers · asked by sec-c-1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need specific answers. What if your boss is in it too? what sort of document will build a strong case? the person I work with is a psychopath, one moment she seems very nice, next moment its all over again. It depends who she is talking to she can be nice and then she is a monster when she don't like you. How can I document this type of action? i would like to videotape it but that would be too obvious. I dont want anybody to know that I am going to the courts. Please help, I am sick and tired of this person. She had drove a couple of people away from their jobs in the past. I don't want to let her intimidate me. Thanks all so much.

2007-05-18 16:12:18 · 8 answers · asked by nala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-18 16:07:12 · 20 answers · asked by Niki S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i wonder should we stay together,or split up.what should i do ?

2007-05-18 16:02:29 · 7 answers · asked by leondra j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You don't care for your in-laws and they dislike you. Because of some unfortunate situation your in-laws need a place to live. Your mate ask if his parents can move in indefinitely. You don't want them to live in your home. How do you tell your mate Hell To The Naw!

2007-05-18 15:47:41 · 23 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-18 15:46:55 · 32 answers · asked by Bobbie K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I sent this guy a catchy e-mail on an Singles Dating Internet Site. He responded by asking me out on 5-17-07 for that evening at 7pm. I was ready by 7:10. He never sent me an e-mail, or even called for that matter. I sent him an E-mail 3:23:20 pm the following day(today), he replied at 3:35:04 and told me he was having computer problems but he would like to hook up this evening , and he would give me a call. He hasn't yet. So my question to you is , well just look at the title of this posting. I could use opinions from everyone on this one. Ohh and no I dont have his cell, or LAN line or any othe number pertaining to this individual. Thanks

2007-05-18 15:45:38 · 20 answers · asked by earthball50@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

Dont think im weird but im in my grandmother and grandfathers house. They died about 5 and 2 years ago. I min ago i was sitting on the stairs talking to my dad and i felt a hand on my neck. I Rubbed it and it stopped then came back. It felt like a hand. It keeped happing. I asked my mom if my grandmom used to do that [after telling her what i felt] and she said she always did that. She would not be mad at me or anything. And i wasent thinking about her [not to be mean i mean just at the moment] Think its her? or just my imaganation?

My mom and i both believe in NICE ghost.

2007-05-18 15:45:05 · 13 answers · asked by ... 3 in Family

Think about it and be honest. Everyone has something to hide. There's more than one way to be immoral. So why do so many feel superior? There are way worse sins than taking a lover, aren't there. (That was a statement, not a question)

2007-05-18 15:43:28 · 11 answers · asked by crazywoman88 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a wonderful man for a little over 6 months now and I am thinking of introducing him to my son. Our relationship is strong but I am nervous about introducing him. I had dated another man in past for about 2 years but when we split it was very hard on my son, because he became close to him. Please help me out on this one.

2007-05-18 15:42:53 · 9 answers · asked by Shooters Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok today my girlfriend exploded on me in the moring in school.. i called her a prick and she got all mad and our relationship was really on the line... well i got it now so she still likes me but shes just really pisses how do i kinda suck up and make it so she forgives me... please help.... thanks!

2007-05-18 15:42:24 · 1 answers · asked by jrk556 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this sounds kind of out there........... but if there were to be any kind of doubts shouldn't we know?

2007-05-18 15:41:29 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When we were younger we were very good friends.
We go to to the same church and we are very close in age.(20 & 19)
But I am very shy around her.
She has dated other guys,but I've never dated anyone (I only want to date her.)
But now I am in a cast.
Should I wait until the cast is removed to tell her?
(I'm afraid that me being in a cast will embarass her.)
Also give me some tips on a good way to start this conversation.

2007-05-18 15:41:24 · 205 answers · asked by hwhjr1987 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 15:40:19 · 5 answers · asked by amethyst_mitchell 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw this video on TODAY It brought tears to my eyes. I wanted to send it to all my friends via email but couldn't find it.

Much Appreciation,
Ciely W.

2007-05-18 15:40:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We love each other to death and can't be apart for long, but recently we can't stop arguing about just trivial stuff. No matter how hard we try, we can't stop arguing over stupid little stuff, but at the same time we feel we can't live without each other. Suggestions? Advice?

2007-05-18 15:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is the perfect lover a person who can last a long time in bed. Is the perfect lover a person who gives you all of his time. Is the perfect lover a person who gives you what ever you want. Is the perfect lover a person who can love you gust the way u r

2007-05-18 15:36:53 · 14 answers · asked by supermariobro05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So hypothetical situation: my and this girl hit it off and have a good time meeting each other one night. I take her back to my place and she gives me a handjob and I finger her.....if my penis is somewhat small(around 5 inches), and I have a small but noticeable mole on it; is she going to be weirded out by that or will she be cool?

2007-05-18 15:32:41 · 6 answers · asked by Morgan Danson 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife cheated and moved out . Divorce will be final in 1 month

2007-05-18 15:29:38 · 29 answers · asked by jerry b 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i've called the police and they refuse to get involed in this matter i've saved all the e-mails she sent and messages on the phone i'm at a lost as what to do next any advice would be appriciated

2007-05-18 15:29:04 · 15 answers · asked by hank d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my kids (12&10) want to "live" at their dad's... I have sole custody,
I haven't seen them since saturday (yes i know sunday was mother's day) They don't want to come home.
I am broken-hearted and don't know what to do...
I'm sure that we'll work things out...
...but now my heart isn't the same as before... :(
how to get over the pain... rejection...
any words of wisdom??

2007-05-18 15:27:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kool-in-charge 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband thinks so, and I think he is completely wrong !!! I have been a stay at home Mom for about 2 months now and its really not working for me. I told him we should pay all of are expenses and then split the rest, but when I said this he got very upset, he said he makes the money so its his choice what to do with it !!!


Other details:
*I am 34, and I left my career as a cardiologist to be a stay at home mom
*My husband is 37 and a college professor
*We have a 6 year old son
*He goes to work and thats about it
*But I take care of are son, I take him to his activites and school , and I cook, and I clean....the list could go on forever...

Thanks for your help :)

2007-05-18 15:23:31 · 31 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughters father has like 16 other kids besides her, he doesnt pay any type of support im tired of this man having keep havin kids and doin nothin. My daughter is gonna be 7 and he hasnt seen her since she was 6months and never paid a dime, what should i do. i applied for child support like 6 months ago, and never heard nothing back.

2007-05-18 15:22:08 · 8 answers · asked by hrizzo78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to propose to my girlfriend. I already have the ring. We do not live together. I want it to be something she can talk about for a long time but I don't really want to do it in front of a lot of people like at a resteraunt. Any suggestions? Serious answers only please.

2007-05-18 15:21:09 · 15 answers · asked by L 619 2 in Weddings

2007-05-18 15:17:36 · 5 answers · asked by pam 1 in Family

My husben dont like it when I know his passwords when it come to the computer I have found them out before and as soon as he knows they are changed. He even got made when I asked for the one for are on line banking. I know that he some times looks at porn and he know that i hate it. I feel that it is just like cheating. Well what ae your thoughts and what should I do.

2007-05-18 15:13:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...If you love someone with all of your heart, but at the same time have a gut feeling that you deserve to be treated better?

He insists I mean everything to him, yet he doesnt seem to be putting much effort into the relationship. His outlook is-- if it's meant to me, we will be. (Without taking the time to really TRY to make things the best they can be.)

He's a bit careless about his actions towards me (what he says/does and how it makes me feel) Things were GREAT for the first year... but now he seem "too comfortable" like he doesnt need to try for me anymore.

when i talk to him, it gets better for a little while but then it goes back to the usual. he often says "you don't give me any credit for anything." I DO appreciate when he is thoughtful, but I feel as if I should be treated that way regularly, not only when I'm feeling fed up with him.

What can I do to improve the situation?

2007-05-18 15:11:08 · 14 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

do you share a bed? or lay down together only for sex?

2007-05-18 15:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Two questions-
If you found a sex tape of your parents would you watch it?
If you found a sex tape of your teenage child would you watch it?

2007-05-18 15:03:29 · 43 answers · asked by stacy_branch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if so why did they call it quits after all that time

2007-05-18 15:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by daiberino 2 in Marriage & Divorce