i wonder should we stay together,or split up.what should i do ?
2007-05-18 16:02:29 · 7 answers · asked by leondra j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you are ready to fight your addiction and maybe he's not. If you can both do it together, that would be great. But you have to really help stay off and can't be enablers to each other. It is possible if you are both willing to do the work and be strong and determined. If you feel alone in this, then don't wait for him...you start now, get some help. NA, Narcotics Anonymous is an awesome organization and they have meetings usually several times a week. It's free and you will meet some great people there. I've been before.It's similar to AA as it is a 12 step program, but it does work if you are willing to work at it. At this point you have to make the decision...either go together or go alone and get your life back. You will be so much happier. I wish you all the best and hope you make a good decision for you!
2007-05-18 16:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seperate and get help. You cannot fight it together because two week people are not good to lean on and depend on. Youneed to depend on a drug free person. Don't split up but your chances of becoming clean together is so slim.
2007-05-18 16:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Maizy * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stay together if you are both equally committed. If one of you slips up, then the other one is likely to slip up too. It will be easier to do this apart, but if circumstances are such that you end up staying togther, then agree to always be totally honest with each other and to work on it together as a team effort and stick to it. You can offer each other alot of support, but you can trip each other up too. Good luck to you both.
2007-05-18 16:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, from what you have defined, your strikes have been finished in self protection. He replaced into showing aggressive behaviour in direction of you and you reacted by using pushing/hitting him away. i'm no longer condoning this action, besides the undeniable fact that this is comprehensible given the circumstances. question: did you no longer stay jointly earlier getting married? i recognize this is something that persons does no longer evaluate interior the previous, and in keeping with probability you have a prevalent point of view in this - purely questioning in case you knew approximately his temperament earlier you moved in. to respond to your questions; it does not seem all that advantageous. besides the actuality that he did no longer quite choose for you, curiously you're around an bodily violent guy, and that isn't stable. it is likewise no longer stable that he's blaming you for attacking him. No lady could desire to could desire to submit with abuse of any variety. Seeing as he did no longer quite choose for you, i could supply him the earnings of the doubt for now, yet i does no longer submit with this back. communicate to your persons and relatives, and lead them to conscious of what's occurring. If issues do no longer enhance, get the hell out of there as you deserve greater useful than that.
2017-01-10 07:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feed on each others addictions. Sorry to say you two have a long hard dead end road ahead of you................
2007-05-18 16:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really up to you,. try and do it together for awhile , if not working out , go your own way
2007-05-18 16:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't get help sorry to say the chances aren't good
2007-05-18 16:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by wen3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋