We love each other to death and can't be apart for long, but recently we can't stop arguing about just trivial stuff. No matter how hard we try, we can't stop arguing over stupid little stuff, but at the same time we feel we can't live without each other. Suggestions? Advice?
2007-05-18 15:37:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well from experience i can tell you that every couple has times when they don't get along.but if its getting to a point to where you are arguing all the time my advice is spend alittle time apart from each other.maybe thats the promblem you spend too much together ,i say this because if it keeps on to where yall keep arguing with each other its going to get old real fast ,no one wants to be in a relationships where all you do is fight,so spent some time apart not long just enough to get some space from each other.its sounds like you love this person so i hope it works out for yall good luck
2007-05-18 15:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by dede2772 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened with me and my ex boyfriend of three years. For us what it came down to was we were both being slightly passive aggressive. Things that bothered us before we didn't mention because they were just small and trivial but after a while of holding it in, we just couldn't anymore and we started arguing. So one we had a couple of beers and let it all out. Let out the anger, the hurt, the bottle up feelings, every small thing you could imagine and things were better. That's what we did, good luck in whatever you chose.
2007-05-18 22:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by lizko2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you are just acting like a married couple. The problem is that you have been together 4 years and you know each other very well. You know just what to say to get her mad and she knows just what to say to get you mad. Arguments are the same. You need to let the small stuff go. It just isn't worth it unless you have really good make-up sex.
2007-05-18 22:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick your battles. Everything you 2 are fighting over may have no relevance in life. If you lose an agruement or hold your view point in then it will be seen by the other and respected. By respecting it you'll see these pety arguements start to minimize and eventually eliminate.
2007-05-18 22:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Nerd At Your Service 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal. Arguing is a healthy part of a relationship with real love.
2007-05-18 22:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Hater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait until one of you gets cancer before you learn not to sweat the small stuff, then it might be too late., It does happen, you know.
2007-05-18 22:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by TedEx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when it gets to that point its time to move on!
2007-05-18 22:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me i know what you mean hehe. i think thats where the ''love'' part is. they say it takes work. i think its just how long you can stand eachother hahah.
2007-05-18 22:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by howicouldkillaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try seeing a counsler
2007-05-18 22:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by wonderboy n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋