Family & Relationships - 18 May 2007

Last night me and my boyfriend gave his best mate a threesome for his birthday as my boyfriend told me that his mate has always fancied me and my boyfriend likes to watch.
Anyway, things were going really well with the three of us when his girlfriend walked in! She was really angry and stormed off, after we finished I called her (as she is a friend of mine too) and tried to explain that it was just a birthday present and didn't mean anything but now I have a text from her telling me she wants to fight me! What do I do?

2007-05-18 11:06:31 · 22 answers · asked by Maggy 1 in Friends

shes mean shes lazy spold she hates my little sister kimi and she hearts her yells at her is it a sister thing or a ***** thing please help

2007-05-18 11:01:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Which do you prefer?
1-shirtless
2-muscle shirt

Describe yourself. I am very interested.

2007-05-18 10:55:26 · 4 answers · asked by Brad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i never really had crusehes on girls my age but sometimes I do
anyway all the girls i like are like 2 to 5 years older than me, im realistic so i know i dont have a chance (or do I?) but why do i like older women

oh and do i have a chance with girls 2 years older (one is the daughter of my coach! lol)

2007-05-18 10:48:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-18 10:47:50 · 3 answers · asked by Jose V 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-05-18 10:47:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am married with 3 beautiful kids. My husband is a great dad and husband, but we got pregnant my senior year in college unexpectedly. I'm now 31, and we have 3 kids. I gave up medical school and all my close friends (jobs moved us) because we wanted to do the "right:" thing. The problem is I love my husband, but my heart still belongs to my high school sweetheart. I dated a lot of people before my now husband, so I've seen the good, the bad, and the ugly. I've totally changed and am young compared to the suburbanites that got married and had kids the traditional responsible way. I miss my old friends, my old boyfriend, and I wish I had my old life back. I know a lot of people wish they could go back sometimes when there were no responsibilities, but I truly love another man. After high school, my boyfriend became a professional skater and snowboarder, and he said he would hold me back from greater things. I am getting professional help but would appreciate any advice.

2007-05-18 10:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by just wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife waits until i fall asleep and then she checks my cell phone and calls the numbers back to see if it is a girl. And when its not she feels like nothing. When we were dating i cheated on her with my bestfriend at the time and it was a mistake. I love my wife and would never do that again. I respect us being married and i was young at the time now i am a man and we have kids together, so why cant she gest trust me and give me my privicy.

2007-05-18 10:40:43 · 20 answers · asked by supermariobro05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend for over 5 years has always been there for me through alot of tough times. But my problem is she always wants to be with me everyday. When I got married she thought she wouldn't see me no more. Now whenever I mention I am going out with another friend or that I just got off the phone with someone she starts with her typical "oh your new best friend" or "what you gonna hang with her today instead of me" How can I say something to her without losing a friend?

2007-05-18 10:35:38 · 12 answers · asked by Melissa H 1 in Friends

I need help on how to find out ways to prove in court that your husband was cheating.

also, i need help trying to decide whether i should move out and just drop out of shcool because my husband just came back from LA (with military) and says that he is unhappy and wants a divorce before he leaves for Afghanistan in about a month./

Here's the story; he didnt tell me why he just wants a divorce.
We just moved here PCS in December, and we just bought a house at the end of February. i have always helped support out family for the yr that we were married and now that we have a houes he wants to keep the house and divorce me. with no grounds im not cheating and he says that hes not but i dont believe him one bit. no one just ups and wants a divorce and abandons their new wife in a strange city.

2007-05-18 10:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by ya girl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

See I'm 12, and I really want a credit card. But then I don't know when is a good age. To me, I think 12 is a good age, but than i don't won't people calling me a brat and spoil cuz that want they mostly call me and my friend?

2007-05-18 10:31:48 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

not muchto add just the above..it's quriosity that eats me and if it's true i'd like to try it with my gf..

2007-05-18 10:30:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my husband is unfaithful. We have been married for 16+ years. He has cheated before when we were younger, and didnt admit it til just 3 years ago. He claims that he has never done it since. About 6 yrs ago I suspect he had cheated before and even suspected he was cheating then with (lets call her) V. But he denied it, foolishly, I cheated on him to get him back. We separated. I So learned from that mistake. He forgave me. I would never think to do that again. We got back together, then a few weeks after mending he cheated with the girl he was seeing while we were separated. I put his bags by the front door. My father talked me out of it. All this happened 6 yrs. ago, I thought this was behind us. Til I found several emails 2 weeks ago, were he sent naked pics of him and recvd others back, even asked to meet some of them at a hotel. He claims he never did meet any of them. But this hurts deeply. Including an email from V on valentine's day saying she loves him? He denies cheat

2007-05-18 10:28:04 · 34 answers · asked by d8em 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a friend. ever since the begining of the year. wevebeen really good friends. i was basically his advise friend. his homie not his shorty and he has been going out with one of my bestest friends for 3 months and they really loved each other. but they broke up. now he likes me and he just asked me out. i cant go out with him. i never thought of him as more than a friend. he is kindof sensative and i cant just say that i dont wanna go out with him can some body find me a good poem about that i can just be his friend .,.,,nothing more, please. thank you so much and i can really use your help.

2007-05-18 10:22:22 · 1 answers · asked by michelle =] 1 in Singles & Dating

want my bf's two snot nosed bratty kids at my house? I'm not kidding, these kids constantly have green snot coming out of their noses and when they come from their mom's house they're just filthy dirty. Their mother does not discipline them and they are loud and obnoxious. The thing is, they're only 6 and 7. I have a 9 yr old who is well behaved and very clean...Could I just be irritated because I was brought up with discipline and cleaniness and not as trailer trash or is it that as long as I could remember snot-nosed kids have always disgusted me? Is anyone else in the same perdicament as I am?

2007-05-18 10:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by ICU 2 in Family

im 18...

2007-05-18 10:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by ssr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does true love forget self and forgive. Does true love hurt? You tell me...my girlfriend has really betrayed me I feel...she is having an abortion against my will and it hurts and I have tried to change her mind to the point of completely getting shut out. I love her and I want to comfort her because I know she is hurting. She told me she didn't know if she loved me...until now she has told me otherwise. Part of me wants to write it off and move on b/c I oppose her views and b/c she told me she didn't love me...the other part wants to believe her emotions are hurt and she is telling me this as a defense mechanism to make her not feel guilt...this same part wants to forgive her and love her through this even though she doesn't want me to. I want to comfort her so bad yet I fear I will have guilt about supporting a decision I disapprove of...what to do

2007-05-18 10:20:47 · 8 answers · asked by jeffwilliams1979 2 in Family

I get in really bad moods sometime, and I try to find every flaw about him that ticks me off in the slightist little bit, and I pick him right apart. I end up getting really emotional, and of course I feel bad for doing this after wards. Everyt time I get this way, he feels it is his fault, and that somewhere deep inside I don't want to be with him. But really.....I can't imagine my life without him. Other than these littel out burts, we do really well together. We have a great relationship aside from this...and I don't know how to fix this part. I sometimes think that it could be stressed caused from other aspects in my life.....like going to school, working, trying to plan a wedding and not knowing where I want to decide to live in the next 4 months. I hate blowing up at him, but at the time, it feels like I am in the right, and that he deserves to know everything little thing that ticks me off.
I love him so much, and I hate making him feel like I don't love him.

2007-05-18 10:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jamie Lynn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 2 years and have 10 month old twin boys. They take up alot of my time, but I still find time to be lonely. I recently asked my husband if we could move back to Ms, and he made up every excuse in the book. I tried to explain that I had no friends, no family, nothing to do here, I'm in this house 24/7 with our kids and I need friends, outlets. He told me to get a hobby, then when i got one he bitched about it. He gets home from work at 4:30 and goes outside to fix on his mud bogin truck. Out of a week he may change 1 diaper and fix 2 bottles the rest of the time I am doing it. I have become depressed lately, and I really feel if I moved back home(Ms) I wouldn't be depressed anymore. All of my family and old friends live there. How do I get him to understand, how I feel. We both don't have friends or family here and his job ain't that great. What do I do, stay quite and hide my feelings about moving or voice them?

2007-05-18 10:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by twistedone691821 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I am attractive, nice, and pretty outgoing yet I can't meet mr right. What is wrong with me? Is there any such thing as "mr. right"? Should I just settle for someone less then Prince Charming? Maybe I'm just to picky. I just want to feel "love".

2007-05-18 10:06:37 · 19 answers · asked by smp1000_1999 2 in Singles & Dating

Help..Hey. I'm going to be getting kicked out of my house
In about 2 da ys.
I need to somehow find a Job[i'm an canadian citizen so no social security] That pays cash.
I also need Donations.
I'm still a Junior in High School.
I dont have too long until I'm in a room, with no money,n no food, and No Car to drive.
Please Help in Any way,
I need clothing too.
I'm going to be online all day today and sunday.
Please if anyway you can help me. Old gift cards, Loose Change, anything donations. I've still got another year of high school. And i'm only going to have one pair of clothes for school.
I know probably a lot of you are going to say this is a scam.
or that I'm Bs'ing.
Well You can come to my house and see my situation
Talk to my school. My teachers. my ***** *** mom. Any way to prove to you. I have no way to live. My school cant help me. Cause I'm 18.
I have an old debit card if you want to donate that way. But its overdrawn 105 cause i bought food to stock up

2007-05-18 10:03:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been seeing him for 6 months. We have always used condoms and just this one time, the condom came off in me. And I got pregnant! I do love him very much, and he cares deeply about me and he's said he loves me- but he was raised with some very cruel alcoholic parents he's messed up about relationships. He's reliable and has integrity, a solid guy, but this is unplanned. And I don't think he wants kids. At least he says he doesn't, though he's always very soft around kids. It's hard to know...Anyway, I am 38 and I don't want to terminate it. I love him but i am prepared to do this on my own. But I don;t know how to tell him. Please, no sarcastic answers.

2007-05-18 09:57:39 · 41 answers · asked by Sara B. 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this someone is apparently one of these. When I asked her what a sadist was, she grinned and said: "You'll find out soon enough."

Rather than waiting for her to tell me, I thought I'd just ask on here. Thanks.

2007-05-18 09:55:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible to go through high school without any friends ? can you be happy later on in your life ?

2007-05-18 09:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Wedding date is July 7th, David's bridal will only keep it for 6 weeks. I have to pick it up on Jun 27. Will someone please give me ideas of where it can be put it so it dosen't get wrinkled.

Thank you

2007-05-18 09:53:35 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

2007-05-18 09:53:31 · 12 answers · asked by Nimbot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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after 3 years of our relationship, now , my financy is not happy with me, what should i do? stay and fight or leave for peace?

2007-05-18 09:50:42 · 24 answers · asked by kamyar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to hand out wedding invites? Im mailing a lot of mine just handing out a few to certain people to save on stamp costs..

2007-05-18 09:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by C-Dex 2 in Weddings

She is a lovely person so any male interested please post your profile

2007-05-18 09:50:10 · 21 answers · asked by Jean D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently I have been having some personal problems regarding my family, I have one friend from childhood I always confided in, i called her a year ago to tell her about my problems, she seemed surprised at what i told her about my parents seperating when i was in HS and never told anyone. She got off the phone after a short time and has not called me back, i sent her a x-mas card and this was the first year she has not sent me one? She has my email adress, and i have not heard from her. so after 15 years of friendship she all of a sudden does not want to know me because i was honest about my past. Should I have not said anything?
Only reason i told her was because i needed a friend to talk to/

2007-05-18 09:47:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends