i never really had crusehes on girls my age but sometimes I do
anyway all the girls i like are like 2 to 5 years older than me, im realistic so i know i dont have a chance (or do I?) but why do i like older women
oh and do i have a chance with girls 2 years older (one is the daughter of my coach! lol)
2007-05-18 10:48:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends how old your are. if you are in your 20's getting older ladies is no problem...if you're a high schooler, well, getting an older woman can be extremely hard. You like older women because they are more developed, better curves, no what they want, and have a way higher sex drive. If you see a girl and want her...go for her. just make sure she does not have a BF that can kick your ***.
2007-05-18 10:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by j t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really all depends on how old YOU are... Example: when I was 18 I would have NEVER dated a 13 year old...so 5 years is a HUGE difference when you are younger. BUT, if I'm 32 then, dating someone who is 27 is no big deal at all and 5 years is nothing. So, if you are in your teens or early twenties...I would say your chances are slim...late 20's or older sure you have a great chance!
2007-05-18 10:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Angela S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it my wife is 5yrs older then me just remember
older women tend to be smarter and well classier then the young ones so they are looking for a certain type of guy. If you are mature for your age and have a decent job you may be in the running. But really you will never know unless you chance asking one of them out. Make it easy for you if your in the bar setting offer to by them a drink if it is at work offer to take them out for coffee or lunch one day. Let it be known that it is not a work lunch but that you have feelings for them and would like to see if it goes anywhere.
2007-05-18 10:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it has to do with what they want!
They have done the dating scene. They have experienced the nastey break ups, the cheaters, the clubs, the bars,
They've done it all?
And now.. they want to settle down.
Perhaps... you too want a more serious relationship...
hence the ones you don't question their integrity are the older ones? You are convinced they are the ones whom want to start a family? You connect with them? Going in the same direction as them?
The young ones... only want to play... have fun...
and may say they want to settle down... but have wondering eyes... scatter brains???
2007-05-18 10:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by movngfwd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal preference...I've always liked the younger ones and graciously accepted the Toys R Us award for doing so.
2007-05-18 10:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well realistically speaking females mature faster than males and you are attracted to there mature attitude. does she like you i wouldn't let the coach know
2007-05-18 10:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by melme_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your first ever sexual experience with a girl who was older?
That could be the reason.
2007-05-18 10:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are unusually attracted to older women because they are more experienced and have sex appeal
2007-05-18 10:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by cherry chapstick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u have a chance, of course.maybe ur attracted to them becuz they seem more mature or that's juzz how u feel.
2007-05-18 10:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because most of the grrls at your age are either silly or little bitches...
Don't worry... most of us grow out of it...
2007-05-18 10:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kia A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋