im 18...
2007-05-18 10:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by ssr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we live togeather
2007-05-18 10:27:37 · update #1
Yes, you're too young for one thing. Why? Because somewhere in your 20's you will "find yourself". No one knows this until it happens to them. And then when it DOES happen, you look at the person you married and go, "who IS this person?!"
But since you seem to have your plans set already, know this universal truth.....whatever you don't like about him now is likely not to change. If you can't live with his flaws, don't marry him. What you think you want in a partner at 18 is WAY different than what a grown woman looks for and needs in a husband.
2007-05-18 10:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Never even consider the notion of a threesome ever!
Keep your hubby happy as much as he does for you.
Remember your vows always.
Be supportive of each other.
Never allow either of you to become controlling
Learn to compromise
Do not rush into parenthood
Respect each other.
Be Honest
Be caring/loving
Do not fight over small stuff.
Leave your single life behind you, your entering a new stage of your life.
Always do stuff as a couple it just makes things work better.
Do not use sex to win arguments.
Always make big decisions as a couple.
Be open with your feelings do not bottle them up.
Don't dwell on past arguments or problems if they are resolved.
Always make love as a couple never make it a one-sided
enjoyment session.
Try different things in the bedroom keep it hot/spicy.
Just love one and another and hopefully you have chosen wisely with your mate and it will last a lifetime.
God Bless and Best Wishes as well as Congratulations.
2007-05-18 10:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL off the market..nice one. Talk about everything..if he isn't willing to talk now he wont be when you have a problem. Dont nag, also allow him to hang out with friends, showing your insecure is a bad thing makes them look at other women and say "damn I wish my woman was as understanding" . Never deny your hubbyof and sexual act, you are his wife and thats your job. Always work everything out, never give up. it wont always be happy go lucky but remember the reason you got married. Hmmm.. If he ever makes you feel sad let him know, and if he is rude about it, stand up for yourself, never let a man take away your pride no matter how much you love him..And be happy I think that is about it.
2007-05-18 10:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you live with the guy for at least 6 months before you take the plunge. Living with someone tells you so much more about a person that you would never know just by hanging out. You don't really know someone until you've lived with them.
2007-05-18 10:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by abdiver12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young. Take it from a person who got married too young. You need to party and date a lot. If not you'll regret it like I do. You'll be stuck in a relationship with a great guy doing married things with people much older than you. It's not worth it. Live it up. If he's still around, it was meant to be.
2007-05-18 10:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your on the same page and have similar goals and expectation in the marriage, like career, kids, holiday plans with family, finances. You'd hate to be deep in a marriage and then he shares that he doesn't want kids or expects you to be a stay home mom.
2007-05-18 10:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by GARY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always keep the lines of communication open and if something is bothering you talk about it. Don't go telling stories to your family if you're having problems because they'll hold it against your partner. If it's acceptable for both of you, go to pre-marital counseling.
2007-05-18 10:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by carla d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure lots of people will tell you not to get married. i should be amoung them. but it's not for anyone to judge your love but yourself. i just hope he's not a selfish prick like the guy i married and got seprated from a year later. no one deserves to be last place in the realtionship
2007-05-18 10:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by lost.amber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-18 10:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication communication communication...you have to be able to talk to one another about ANYTHING...and pick your battles...not every issue is a hill on which to die...treasure each other and never forget what brought you together!! God bless you and your marriage!!
2007-05-18 10:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋