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after 3 years of our relationship, now , my financy is not happy with me, what should i do? stay and fight or leave for peace?
2007-05-18 09:50:42 · 24 answers · asked by kamyar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think she wants to leave you because you can't spell
2007-05-18 10:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find that there are problems at two relationship miles stones.
3 years and 7 years.
At 3 years you start thinking whether you want to keep going.
At 7 years you realize that you have not been with anyone else in a long time.
Both are natural and perhaps you are going through some of this. If this is the case then stay and this will pass.
If you are still having problems and it is not getting better leave. But either way don't make impulsive decisions with important relationships. Disagreement and fighting is a part of marriage at times but its also about working things out.
2007-05-26 04:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave dude. If she is not happy after only 3 years how can you expect to make her happy for the rest of your lives (thats what marriage is) I guarantee you can find a girl that you will make happy forever. And forget about peace she will make you miserable anyway.
2007-05-26 15:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by imyourguy8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I think it would depend on why she's not happy. I'd ask. If you guys have been together for that long and now she's not happy, something might be up. I remember when i was engaged it was only for two months and I had to break it off, but it was because I realized he was in it for the wrong reaons. He wanted me to be his employee and I wasn't having that =) I'd ask and see what she says.
2007-05-18 16:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and coming to some sort compromise
on how to best resolve the problems.
If that doesn't work, then it is time to move on and be happy
without her.
At least you're finding out now before the vows are said.
Good Luck!
2007-05-26 08:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not happy, it might be time to re-assess your relationship. Marriage is not a magic bullet to cure unhappiness. If she's unhappy now, saying "I do" isn't likely to change it. Nothing is as miserable as an unhappy marriage and it might be wise to say "I won't."
By the way Crystal, (just so you know, not trying to be rude) the correct spelling is "generally."
2007-05-18 17:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by no1udno 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is not happy with you, then let her go. There is no reason to make a future with someone when the feeling isn't mutual. Only setting yourself up for a crappy life.
2007-05-25 16:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And just what woudl a financy be anyway? There's no such word in the dictionary...at least english speaking dictionary.
2007-05-18 22:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnot mention why is she not happy? Probably she is tired of you cuz you have not married her in three years!!
On the other hand You are lucky that you are not married to her yet. Move on and enjoy your life.
Good Luck.
2007-05-26 10:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by feysunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been your fiancee for 3 years? Maybe she's not really your fiancee and marriage is not in the cards for you. Maybe she's just your girlfriend and being a single girl, she wants to enjoy life!
2007-05-25 21:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would sit down and talk with her. There could be just a little problem that could be worked out. Make sure all is well before marriage......Marriage is a big Step....
2007-05-26 11:45:10 · answer #11 · answered by Melissa Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋